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TO ALL MEN, by Collins Honey
1. Before you start a relationship with a lady, you
must think carefully about what you are about to
do. A relationship is not something you should
rush into or handle lightly.
2. Are you ready for a relationship with her?
Are you emotionally, mentally and spiritually mature to meet her needs?
3. Being sexually attracted to her means absolutely
nothing. It isn’t a sign of likeness, love or any other thing your mind may come up with. It may just be your hormones messing with your mind. A woman is more than her body and her sexuality.
She has a life which you should be able to blend with. Can you do that?
4. This lady has a history. Can you handle it? She has a past. Can you handle it? Can you handle her mistakes, failures and weaknesses? Can you handle her dreams without being intimidated and becoming jealous?
5. She already had a life before she met you. Can you fit into and help improve her life?
6. Love is commitment. Are you ready to commit
your life to helping her grow and become all that
she can be, by God’s grace?
7. Is she valuable enough for you to devote a large
portion of your life towards the accomplishment of
HER dream? Are you ready to pour your resources
into making her all the Lord plans for her to be? If
you are not ready, don’t just bother.
8. Before you open your mouth to say ‘I love you’, ask yourself if this is not just a moment of ‘emotional madness’. A lady needs much more than ‘I love you’. She needs your commitment.
If you are not ready to make that commitment that
will lead to marriage, please leave her alone in
peace and stop wasting her time and resources.
Do you agree?

Ps: That you were jilted once or twice or be it as it may shouldn't make you less than the man you are - don't sabotage your future as a result of your past experiences. Learn the lesson and continue to be the gentleman you are. Some incidences are better experienced as a single than with the mother of your children. The problem we have nowadays is that we think we know too much and our ignorance takes the better of us; majority are mere copy cats, the fact that it's common does not necessarily make it right - think before you 'do as they do.'
Don't be a gentleman just because you are eyeing one girl in your neighbourhood; be a gentleman because you're truely a gentleman - any time, any day, anywhere and any how. ALL WOMEN ARE NOT THE SAME! As bitter as it may sound, the fault might just be from you - FIX YOURSELF!

Incase

Her name is Esther and she bleach, does that mean she is Established? ☹

ggrin:
Her name is Esther and she bleach, does that mean she is Established? ☹

excuse me sir, pls wat angle is that coming from?

[color=#000030]Interesting. [/color]

A word is enough for a wise guy. Interesting writeups. Men are not born, they're made.