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Patience, Humility, selflesness, n Joy

That vow i took at the alter is no 1 becsuse i am kind of person that takes vows and promises seriously. If i know that i may not live up to expectations i dont take vows or make promises. When ever he offends me and i remember that i have taken the oat or for better or worse i forgive even without being begged. 2. Courage from God. My best verse bible verse phil 4:13 i can overcome all conditions by the power in Christ Jesus. 3. Awareness of the fact that he is human and can make mistakes and so do i. 4. Knowing that there are many realities to be faced and many challanges in marriage and facing them squarelly. I dont keep malice and cannot wait to be begged so also him. Most importantly when i rember i am a sinner but God forgives me and blesses me i will not have option than to let go. Prayer also. He still has his own strenghts that have kept us going. I thank God for keeping us together it has not been easy at all. We have faced many difficult situations but God has been seeing us through and has kept our love intact.

A milion lies & false pretences! & i'm a big flirt! Am srry!

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Allowing my wife to be in control

Trust and Love.....I think these two are paramount

Submissive, trust, respect, endurance, contentment and not forgetting the most important of all-love. looking forward to cerebrate our 10th anniversary

Jerry2i:
Being the fool

You, my friend are sooooo right.'Fool' in quote but in actual sense you are the wise, mature one.

I criticise less. In short, I talk less

Love/Attraction, Trust/Communication, M. Altruism

That does nothing to stop our rare disagreement from being an altogether debate-y, and unyieldingly stubborn affair tho.

Initially love n passion for each other. Over time that matured into understanding, perseverance, trust n being able to forgive each other. Above all that, Patience n determination to stay together....not forgetting the grace of God.
My humble submission

Grace , truth and being real.

and biology

God, friendship, spontaneity, humility, finding our own happiness

Tolerance and mutual respect for each other.

Plenty patience. Praying together. Give your woman enough room to be her best even if she turns out more successful

Mine started when we went to dubai for our honey moon.

She rode on a mad horse. The horse fell her down the first time and she smiled and said to it 'this is your first time.

After some meters, the mad horse fell her again and she smiled and said 'this is your second time'

upon falling her the third time, she brought out a double barrel revolver and shot the horse in cold blood. I was mad at her for doing such a crazy thing, i shouted 'are you mad?'.
She looked at me and smiled and she said to me 'this is your first time'

to God be the glory, we are 25 years together now and happily married

Correct Man!

QMark:
Friendship.

My wife of 5 years, my best friend of 15 years.

Mine is the grace of God and friendship with my wife of two years and friend of 7 years.

tosomaju:
Mine started when we went to dubai for our honey moon.

She rode on a mad horse. The horse fell her down the first time and she smiled and said to it 'this is your first time.

After some meters, the mad horse fell her again and she smiled and said 'this is your second time'

upon falling her the third time, she brought out a double barrel revolver and shot the horse in cold blood. I was mad at her for doing such a crazy thing, i shouted 'are you mad?'.
She looked at me and smiled and she said to me 'this is your first time'

to God be the glory, we are 25 years together now and happily married

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......and they lived.....





Happily Ever after





THE END

she is my best friend, confidant and there is mutual trust.

Missy89:
Juju.

He is in a bottle and i have stashed it in a safe place

Hmmmm

ENDURANCE.

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morbid:
The fact that she lays her salary at my feet at the end of every month.

You are very lucky

I celeb my 5th year wedding anniversary yesterday and one main reason is that both of us have the fear of God. Although we had some issues in the past but God is so good to us, He never allowed them to break us. Praise the Lord!!!!!!!!

tolerance and endurance

I'm in a two years distance relationship,v not seen her since then but what has kept us is trust nd when we have issues we try to settle it immediately,hopin to see her nxt year wen I come back.

Making him my best friend, confidant n porn partner lol. Above all , Prayer and never letting any conflict and doubts pass the night in our home. 6years in marriage and its still working for me.

true love and understanding.

princechrming:
Today's generation of boys and girls get into relationships/marriage because of misunderstanding ...and split when they understand each other. What an Irony!

lwkmd, abeg no scatter my ribs with laff nah

Hmnn...I've been with my fiance 3yrs now planning to get married next year by his grace.I think the best sentence that describes us is "find a man that'll make a fool out of himself for u n u'll find the love of a lifetime".I met him in a most ridiculous way *dont ask me*,we became best friends and since then it has never been the same.what wow-ed me most is his openess(that's sometn u don't get to come across everyday)we tell each other everytn and anytn.he's my best friend my confidant.he's always there for me.he believes in my dreams.his sincerity melts my heart in no ways he can ever imagine.u know when uve been wasting time gathering stones and God sends u pearls(yea,that's the feeling).I'm a difficult person(I'm a chlor-mel),so u can understand what it means for a man to deal with a lady that has my temperament,but he copes any ways*smiles*.when I'm frustrating the hell out of him he calls me "oniwahala or jagunlabi"hehehehehee.he let's me havemy way most times when I'm wrong but comes to tell me later when I'm much in a better mood to listen.I just bless God for bringing him my way.he's on nairaland too! I knw he wud read this post and chuckle his heart out! I love u so much jay,if I had to do it a 100times over ,I'll still choose you.u r awesome baby.muahhhhhhh!