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| Re: Married Men, How Easy Is It To Avoid Extramarital Affairs? by Olutola88(op): 7:02am On Nov 06, 2014 |
Eyop:*smiles* I get your point bro |
| Re: Married Men, How Easy Is It To Avoid Extramarital Affairs? by Olutola88(op): 7:10am On Nov 06, 2014 |
paterpaul:YES I will contact you if you can gimme Genevive Nnaji Bimbo Akintola Gbemisola Saraki You know what I mean na! Women I can date even without getting paid for the service + I don't want someone that will come and use my glory o! LMAO |
| Re: Married Men, How Easy Is It To Avoid Extramarital Affairs? by Olutola88(op): 7:11am On Nov 06, 2014 |
paterpaul:. YES I will contact you if you can gimme Genevieve Nnaji Bimbo Akintola Gbemisola Saraki Aunty Tiwa You know what I mean na! Women I can date even without getting paid for the service + I don't want someone that will come and use my glory o!(We are in Africa you know) LMAO |
| Re: Married Men, How Easy Is It To Avoid Extramarital Affairs? by Rapsainot(m): 7:23am On Nov 06, 2014 |
Lemme siddon |
| Re: Married Men, How Easy Is It To Avoid Extramarital Affairs? by drnoel: 8:21am On Nov 06, 2014 |
shortgun:Women us sex as weapon but it's not a reason to look 4 that elsewhere or are we goats or dogs? We are human beings and have the common sense to think so we should think. I believe men should know their wives and be able to know when to expect sex or not expect it. If it come the fine, if not then guy has to hold down his libido. Everything is not about sex and men should atop always thinking about the smell of a woman's ass. Everything doesn't begin or end there, there's more to life than that. |
| Re: Married Men, How Easy Is It To Avoid Extramarital Affairs? by Olutola88(op): 8:38am On Nov 06, 2014 |
drnoel:As much as I don't support a man going on faithful just because his wife denies him occasionally, I still won't want you to say there is more to life than sex. SEX is LIFE to some people. Some people just have one exceedingly high Libido I can't comprehend. Do we blame them for the super secretion of hormones? I really don't know |
| Re: Married Men, How Easy Is It To Avoid Extramarital Affairs? by Nobody: 8:51am On Nov 06, 2014 |
Olutola88:Lies, give them 2years and they are back to square one except he became a strong born again/ pastor. For me I can't marry a known womaniser Repentant or not. A man who keeps late night. A non christian A man whose friends are known womanisers (single or married). Infact any man that spends more money buying clothes, jewelleries and maaterial things without any investment is a no-no for me. @op if you can't stick to one partner or you are scared, pls don't even settle down. Wit till you re 50 that way you must have seen it all and hd it whichever way you please. |
| Re: Married Men, How Easy Is It To Avoid Extramarital Affairs? by Olutola88(op): 9:33am On Nov 06, 2014 |
3cycle:*Ma, I agree with you on NOT going for a man that keeps late night. *I do not see marrying a Christian as a strategy for avoiding a husband that will be unfaithful. I'm sure we are all aware of the fact that many pastors are infidelity warriors. *I also agree with you on NOT going for a man who has womanizers as friends. Nevertheless it's not always the way think as I've seen some men that have perverts as friends but are still not randy. I know some men that are teetotallers but have drunks as friends( I'm a typical example). *Finally, you said I should wait till 50 when I might have seen it all. Ma, I completely disagree with you on this. “Seeing it all” has never been and will never be a measure to bring infidelity to a halt. Infidelity is a habit that is easily inculcated and very difficult to stop. The woman species is a very diverse one and randy men always crave to have a taste of a new one. |
| Re: Married Men, How Easy Is It To Avoid Extramarital Affairs? by shortgun(m): 9:40am On Nov 06, 2014 |
![]() prettyjo:Hahahaha, there's no reason a wife should deny her husband sex! only if she's sick(genuinely), just gave birth or dead. U see,....... this is where must of u get it wrong, u can't deny your husband continually giving him some flimsy excuses and expect him to be faithful. One of the reasons men marry is to get sex whenever they want it but after marriage they soon discover that it's not so hence the unfaithfulness you see all around. Men are wired differently and yes sex is food to a man who is honey :Ddeny him....... He will quench his thirst somewhere......... There is nothing like maturity down,there, a man on konji is not reasonable, responsible or rational......... till he gets satisfaction. I don't expect this to make sense to a lot of u women cos like I said we are programmed differently ![]() |
| Re: Married Men, How Easy Is It To Avoid Extramarital Affairs? by shortgun(m): 9:56am On Nov 06, 2014 |
drnoel:Yes we are goats and dogs, we are all animals abi u no do biology ![]() We are of equal libido if not higher libido with the goats and dogs. I don't know for you oooo but if my wife denied me sex and konji hold me like mad, I will look for it elsewhere without drama. |
| Re: Married Men, How Easy Is It To Avoid Extramarital Affairs? by 2goodbobo(m): 10:00am On Nov 06, 2014 |
Eyop:Is still enough to be thankful for bro. A journey of a thousand miles begings with a step. However, I appreciate your contribution. |
| Re: Married Men, How Easy Is It To Avoid Extramarital Affairs? by scribble: 10:13am On Nov 06, 2014 |
3cycle nor get sense na. No waste your saliva Them go send Angel marry that one Olutola88: |
| Re: Married Men, How Easy Is It To Avoid Extramarital Affairs? by 2goodbobo(m): 10:18am On Nov 06, 2014 |
Olutola88:Tnx a lot bro and a big AMEN! |
| Re: Married Men, How Easy Is It To Avoid Extramarital Affairs? by Fkhalifa(m): 10:21am On Nov 06, 2014 |
why hasn't this gotten to front page...... at d ladies use sex as weapon,i smh for you,you can never understand men's sexuality,a man on heat can be worse than a dog till he his relieved Honestly its a very tough battle only God can win it. |
| Re: Married Men, How Easy Is It To Avoid Extramarital Affairs? by Nobody: 10:24am On Nov 06, 2014 |
![]() scribble:Nigga is pained.... I can't help you bro, seems you prefer insults to a peaceful discussion. Kpele ![]() |
| Re: Married Men, How Easy Is It To Avoid Extramarital Affairs? by scribble: 10:44am On Nov 06, 2014 |
3cycle:Olodo instead of you to even pray for suitors Whether na taxi driver u go marry, u never know Olodo |
| Re: Married Men, How Easy Is It To Avoid Extramarital Affairs? by Nobody: 10:48am On Nov 06, 2014 |
scribble:Keep the taxi drivers for your sisters and children when you finally have them.(That is if they are yours ooo...) ![]() Don't quote me again, 'm allergic to dullards ![]() |
| Re: Married Men, How Easy Is It To Avoid Extramarital Affairs? by drnoel: 2:23pm On Nov 06, 2014 |
shortgun:That is rather sad to here cos it shows u don't have control. Control is what defines us, it's what differentiates us from goats and dogs,......control. U will have to seek that in urself or else u loose 4cus in ur relationship. |
| Re: Married Men, How Easy Is It To Avoid Extramarital Affairs? by drnoel: 2:30pm On Nov 06, 2014*. Modified: 6:04pm On Nov 06, 2014 |
Olutola88:Everything doesn't begin and end with sex. I will ask u this, what is sweeter than a woman's ass? I mean , it's men that think like u that make women think they can just shake their ass and men will cum. Like one time I overheard some ladies talking and one of them was describing how she wrings her ass for her sugar daddy and even b4 the man penetrates he cums all over himself just cos of her expertise in bed. I just shook my head cos woman that thinks all men are like that will jam transformer when they meet men that think like me. B4 I wedded, I used to know some ladies then who taught it was all about sex. They used to get surprised when they tried all their charms and seducing and I still tell em no. Men should know when to hold themselves cos women will always use it against men if and when they realise that the men can't control themselves. |
| Re: Married Men, How Easy Is It To Avoid Extramarital Affairs? by shortgun(m): 3:15pm On Nov 06, 2014 |
drnoel:I guess it's different strokes for different folks....... it's a wife we are talking about here, ideally her body belongs to you d husband, she ceases to have control over her body from the day she says "I do", she's not supposed to detect days her husband can make love to her or not. Call me conservative or crude but I still believe that if marriages must work, women ought to summit totally to their husbands. Sex is very important to me and others who have my kind of libido/mentality , if my wife can't keep up............... dat will be her undoing, I don't expect you to be like me...... After all you are drnoel and I am Shortgun. |
| Re: Married Men, How Easy Is It To Avoid Extramarital Affairs? by drnoel: 4:14pm On Nov 06, 2014 |
shortgun:Yes I would say ur mentality is crude and archaic. Really men, I didnt know men like u still existed in this 2014. Pls men, A woman's body belongs 2 only one person i.e her and not her husband. The bible says in Matthew 19:5, Genesis 2:24, Ephesians 5:31 "Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh". It never said "......... and the woman's flesh will belong to her husband". Now why one a man have it in his head that a full human beings body belong to him? Are we still in the era of slave trade? I tell u, when men change this opinion alot of things will change in relationships. Men should learn how to use subtility to achieve their aims. Men should learn how to bring the best out of their women without having to be chauvinistic about it. Thats my 50 cents.... |
| Re: Married Men, How Easy Is It To Avoid Extramarital Affairs? by shortgun(m): 4:46pm On Nov 06, 2014 |
drnoel:Since you want to quote the Bible. Wives, place yourselves under your husbands' authority. This is appropriate behavior for the Lord's people. Col. 3:18 Wives, in the same way submit yourselves to your own husbands so that, if any of them do not believe the word, they may be won over without words by the behavior of their wives. 1Peter 3:1 |
| Re: Married Men, How Easy Is It To Avoid Extramarital Affairs? by drnoel: 6:01pm On Nov 06, 2014 |
shortgun:Nice one there but the bible said submit to ur husband and not a woman's body belongs to her husband. On the day u show me a bible quotation that said "a woman's body belongs to her husband" I will turn from christian to agnostic. Now defintion of sumission is "the action or fact of accepting or yielding to the will of another person". If we examine the bible passage u quoted, u will see that submission is subjective based on the situation in question. U will see that the will to submit to another person is free given and not forced on the person submitting. This proves to show that if such persons refuses to submit then it is thast persons choice. |
| Re: Married Men, How Easy Is It To Avoid Extramarital Affairs? by shortgun(m): 5:39am On Nov 07, 2014 |
drnoel:My work here is done. Shalom |
| Re: Married Men, How Easy Is It To Avoid Extramarital Affairs? by wordbank(m): 6:03am On Nov 07, 2014 |
D adventurous man always RULE. NO BS |
| Re: Married Men, How Easy Is It To Avoid Extramarital Affairs? by Durchess(f): 9:21am On Dec 04, 2014 |
hi Olutola88 I ve replied ur mail. |
| Re: Married Men, How Easy Is It To Avoid Extramarital Affairs? by tonychristopher: 9:57am On Dec 04, 2014 |
A dude get rusty once in a while, he tastes the water outside to upgrade his skills then comes back to madam at home, that is all not overtime stuffs, but once in a while...just an upgrade of skill set |
| Re: Married Men, How Easy Is It To Avoid Extramarital Affairs? by Olutola88(op): 10:04am On Dec 04, 2014 |
Durchess:I haven't received any |
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