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Re: Ladies : Can You Agree To A Secret Wedding? by Nobody: 8:15am On Nov 14, 2014
Kachisbarbie:
No...
Am I supposed to tell her? ? cry
It wouldn't be wrong if u tell her tho to save two females like u from......what do I even call dx 1 now!

On a second thought.....U wouldn't want to be labelled a home breaker right??

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
Re: Ladies : Can You Agree To A Secret Wedding? by Nobody: 8:17am On Nov 14, 2014
Secret marriage is for players. They both get opportuned to cheat on eachother and they're cool with it, however the love is there
Re: Ladies : Can You Agree To A Secret Wedding? by Sleekyshuga(f): 8:37am On Nov 14, 2014
What a lame excuse!!! He is an introvert, and that propelled a secret wedding sad sad?? Whatever happened to knowing your spouse, n knowing him/her well? A man bringing himself so low to co-habit with a lady is already a huge turn off undecided..

I heard a similar story: The guy lives with his fiance (so she thought) in Enugu, left her there, and went ahead marrying another in a different city... What broke the jinx was wen some1 who didn't attend the wedding (reasons known to her) saw her in a banking hall and started congratulating her grin grin.. The lady was shocked beyond words.. #story for another day..

@Kachisbarbie, please, don't be the one to break this ugly/evil/heart breaking news to her.. It could turn out drastic on the long run.. Rather, give her clues and signs (citing different examples in your course of 'women talk' wink with her), and let her do the arithmetic herself.. Btw, she is a banker undecided undecided, and ought to be smart..

Back to your question: I will not consent to a secret wedding.. Why? What for? My wedding day should be a day I long for...celebrating with family and friends...
Re: Ladies : Can You Agree To A Secret Wedding? by Missmossy(f): 8:39am On Nov 14, 2014
Nah,i can't agree. What are we hiding? A lowkey wedding is different from a secret wedding though.
Re: Ladies : Can You Agree To A Secret Wedding? by niggi4life(m): 8:41am On Nov 14, 2014
Hmmmm. The evil that men do.......lives with them even after they decay.
Re: Ladies : Can You Agree To A Secret Wedding? by Nobody: 9:10am On Nov 14, 2014
Secret wedding? why am i a secret and why are we not moving in together after the wedding? Some funny things cheesy
Re: Ladies : Can You Agree To A Secret Wedding? by Godmother(f): 9:19am On Nov 14, 2014
AgapeCharis:
It wouldn't be wrong if u tell her tho to save two females like u from......what do I even call dx 1 now!

On a second thought.....U wouldn't want to be labelled a home breaker right??

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
There's no home there to be broken naa cheesy
Whose home? Is it the cheating man or the gullible village wife?

@ Karchis
Pls if u can just send an anonymous message with a new sim. Thank God sims cost 100 naira, etisalat even costs 50naira sef.

Let both ladies knw let's see how the guy will explain this wife cheesy
Re: Ladies : Can You Agree To A Secret Wedding? by Nobody: 9:26am On Nov 14, 2014
Missmossy:
Nah,i can't agree. What are we hiding? A lowkey wedding is different from a secret wedding though.
gbam!
Godmother:
There's no home there to be broken naa cheesy
Whose home? Is it the cheating man or the gullible village wife?
@ Karchis
Pls if u can just send an anonymous message with a new sim. Thank God sims cost 100 naira, etisalat even costs 50naira sef.
Let both ladies knw let's see how the guy will explain this wife cheesy
hehehehehehee....really no home to be broken cheesy
Barbie.... If u can send some code to d banker...dt ll be nice
Re: Ladies : Can You Agree To A Secret Wedding? by Nobody: 9:43am On Nov 14, 2014
Godmother:
^^^ yes o Karchisbarbie. Pls find a way to send d wedding pix to the poor banker. That guy is just pure evil. I'm sure he's feeling like one jaddon now. Chai!
I actually saved the pic,but my husband deleted it and told me to mind my business embarassed. I get his concern though, the banker doesn't talk to me...we are not mate,she should be older than me with nothing less than 6yrs...so we don't really have a 'common interest'. As much as I would wanna look out for a sister - I wouldn't wanna disobey my husband.
Re: Ladies : Can You Agree To A Secret Wedding? by Nobody: 9:57am On Nov 14, 2014
May the Lord bless me with an obedient wife like kachisbar.bie smiley grin
Re: Ladies : Can You Agree To A Secret Wedding? by Godmother(f): 10:28am On Nov 14, 2014
Kachisbarbie:
I actually saved the pic,but my husband deleted it and told me to mind my business embarassed. I get his concern though, the banker doesn't talk to me...we are not mate,she should be older than me with nothing less than 6yrs...so we don't really have a 'common interest'. As much as I would wanna look out for a sister - I wouldn't wanna disobey my husband.
Hmmm, I feel for the banker chick sha. I wonder when we women will learn sha. Why live with a man you aren't married to? I'll bet she's footing 80% of the bills and also giving the guy some. Chai! Life must be sweet for the guy.

In another news, my neighbour's 38 years old agbaya elder brother played a similar game. Dude was dating two mature single woman in their mid 30's and both desperate for marriage. Both ladies were fending for this broke-arse nig.ga.One was based in Israel and the other in naija. Anyways, he dated both n decided to settle for the one in obodo oyibo cos she seemed a better prospect.

They did marriage in absentia and she sent for him. Needless to say, dude was deported barely 6 months later and is now looking so haggard cos both women have washed their hands off him. Only God knows what he did to the wife over there. Maybe he tried to play a fast one on her and she had him deported.
Re: Ladies : Can You Agree To A Secret Wedding? by Nobody:
Kachisbarbie:
I actually saved the pic,but my husband deleted it and told me to mind my business embarassed. I get his concern though, the banker doesn't talk to me...we are not mate,she should be older than me with nothing less than 6yrs...so we don't really have a 'common interest'. As much as I would wanna look out for a sister - I wouldn't wanna disobey my husband.
Mind your business. Most women have a way of understanding and handling issues, your trying to help her might eventually put you into troubles. What if his marriage to the other lady was a scam and at the end of the day the banker becomes the chosen one or what if after telling her the truth she got brainwashed again by the guy, she will come after you as homewrecker/boyfriend snatcher. I doubt if the lady in question will even believe you.
Re: Ladies : Can You Agree To A Secret Wedding? by Nobody: 11:43am On Nov 14, 2014
Godmother:
Hmmm, I feel for the banker chick sha. I wonder when we women will learn sha. Why live with a man you aren't married to? I'll bet she's footing 80% of the bills and also giving the guy some. Chai! Life must be sweet for the guy.

In another news, my neighbour's 38 years old agbaya elder brother played a similar game. Dude was dating two mature single woman in their mid 30's and both desperate for marriage. Both ladies were fending for this broke-arse nig.ga.One was based in Israel and the other in naija. Anyways, he dated both n decided to settle for the one in obodo oyibo cos she seemed a better prospect.

They did marriage in absentia and she sent for him. Needless to say, dude was deported barely 6 months later and is now looking so haggard cos both women have washed their hands off him. Only God knows what he did to the wife over there. Maybe he tried to play a fast one on her and she had him deported.
wonders shall never cease!!

kirikiristars:
Yes your husband was right, mind your business. Most women have a way of understanding and handling issues, your trying to help her might eventually put you into troubles. What if his marriage to the other lady was a scam and at the end of the day the banker becomes the chosen one or what if after telling her the truth she got brainwashed again by the guy, she will come after you as homewrecker/boyfriend snatcher. I doubt if the lady in question will even believe you.
My thought exactly.
Re: Ladies : Can You Agree To A Secret Wedding? by 100Cents: 12:09pm On Nov 14, 2014
That is evil.

Why do people chose to glorify evil in their lives ?

What if the female banker finds out and poisons him ?
Re: Ladies : Can You Agree To A Secret Wedding? by Gabreal1(m): 2:39pm On Nov 14, 2014
AfricanApple:
lmao, dis u analysis get k-leg o


he is being wicked to d banker wife dat is here, imagine how she will feel d day she will find out, maybe its even her money he used to do d wedding sef undecided
No, the topic is about the secret wedding he had with the other lady.
Re: Ladies : Can You Agree To A Secret Wedding? by AfricanApple(f): 3:44pm On Nov 14, 2014
Gabreal1:
No, the topic is about the secret wedding he had with the other lady.
I know but I choose to ignore dat angry
Re: Ladies : Can You Agree To A Secret Wedding? by AfricanApple(f): 3:47pm On Nov 14, 2014
Kachisbarbie:
I actually saved the pic,but my husband deleted it and told me to mind my business embarassed. I get his concern though, the banker doesn't talk to me...we are not mate,she should be older than me with nothing less than 6yrs...so we don't really have a 'common interest'. As much as I would wanna look out for a sister - I wouldn't wanna disobey my husband.
yes ma'am MIND YOUR BUSINESS or do u wish to be d grass dat suffers under two fighting bulls undecided
Re: Ladies : Can You Agree To A Secret Wedding? by remsonik(f): 4:00pm On Nov 14, 2014
Well it happened to my fiancee,his ex girlfriend left him to go and do wedding in her village, it was her friend who spilled the beans unknowingly to him. Thank God he has gotten over it since,cos that issue was a blessing in disguise for him.
Re: Ladies : Can You Agree To A Secret Wedding? by kingphilip(m): 4:16pm On Nov 14, 2014
remsonik:
Well it happened to my fiancee,his ex girlfriend left him to go and do wedding in her village, it was her friend who spilled the beans unknowingly to him. Thank God he has gotten over it since,cos that issue was a blessing in disguise for him.
a blessing in disguise to him or to u?
Re: Ladies : Can You Agree To A Secret Wedding? by remsonik(f): 4:22pm On Nov 14, 2014
[quote author=kingphilip post=28012748]a blessing in disguise to him or to u? [/quote

To him long even before we met
Re: Ladies : Can You Agree To A Secret Wedding? by kingphilip(m): 4:56pm On Nov 14, 2014
remsonik:
To him long even before we met
do u mind explaining Hw
Re: Ladies : Can You Agree To A Secret Wedding? by Olufemiolaolu(m): 11:48am On Nov 18, 2014
There is notin new under d sun. no big deal
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