A life grows inside her now he asking “is it even
mine”
What if this chick ain't even pregnant dawg
Could she be lying?
And she be crying cause he acting distant
Like ever since I told you this nigga you acting
different
And all his niggas saying man these hoes be
trapping niggas
Playing with brother's emotions like they some
action figures
Swear they get pregnant for collateral
It’s like extortion, man if that chick really
pregnant
Tell her get an abortion
Uh, but what about your seed brother??
from j.cole's song "lost ones"

De time way u de piaka the epimjamus did u seek advice frm the man of God?
Ike gi zaa kwa gi

tygaweezy:
Ok,I've been dating this gal for 3years now nd its been going great ,she is the kinda person that really understands me and would never do anytin 2 hurt me , when I had problem with my business and dint know who to turn to , she stood by me and gave me support in which Eva way I needed it and yeah the sex was awesome too.
But here's the problem,I don't think I really love this girl and I don't wana sound like an asshole but its true,I tink I fell for her because of her awesome personality not because I really loved her, so few months back I took her out on a date and told her that I don't tink our relationship is gona work anymore,and yeah she cried and pleaded cos she has done nothing wrong , I felt bad but I can't just kip saying "I love you" to some1 I don't really love. Finally she accepted the breakup but each time she visits or I visit we do have sex "unprotected".
The last sex we had was three weeks ago and I knew I ejaculated inside of her and told her about it,she said don't worry that she was gona take care of it ,which I guess she Neva did because a day before yesterday she called my phone and asked if we could meet , we did and she told me that she is 3weeks pregnant . Am totally confused because I don't tink am up for that kinda responsibility, out of frustration I told her to abort it but she got really upset and said she won't .
Mehn , shit jux got real for me , I need advice ya'all please!

Last time I checked, Nigerian guys don't propose, they either get you pregnant or you drag them to go see your parents.

MadCow1:

Afunanya ekwe

Tymax:

WarRLaY:
Sorry, what is protected Sex ?

Where did you school? Gabon or Switzerland?

Congratulations .

Queenzy:
When you were busy having sex with her, you didn't need our help
When you broke up with her, you didn't need our help
Now she's pregnant and you need our help?

You no ready to be person papa but you no want wear condom straff woman. Smh!

You better call her folks and arrange for how you will pay her bride price.

Mme kap mkpa ishie. Nduk!

lolzzz... plz what's that last line?
@Mr op abortion is not an option, this may be your only chance to father a child, let's be careful, God is watching.

tygaweezy:
Ok,I've been dating this gal for 3years now nd its been going great ,she is the kinda person that really understands me and would never do anytin 2 hurt me , when I had problem with my business and dint know who to turn to , she stood by me and gave me support in which Eva way I needed it and yeah the sex was awesome too.
But here's the problem,I don't think I really love this girl and I don't wana sound like an asshole but its true,I tink I fell for her because of her awesome personality not because I really loved her, so few months back I took her out on a date and told her that I don't tink our relationship is gona work anymore,and yeah she cried and pleaded cos she has done nothing wrong , I felt bad but I can't just kip saying "I love you" to some1 I don't really love. Finally she accepted the breakup but each time she visits or I visit we do have sex "unprotected".
The last sex we had was three weeks ago and I knew I ejaculated inside of her and told her about it,she said don't worry that she was gona take care of it ,which I guess she Neva did because a day before yesterday she called my phone and asked if we could meet , we did and she told me that she is 3weeks pregnant . Am totally confused because I don't tink am up for that kinda responsibility, out of frustration I told her to abort it but she got really upset and said she won't .
Mehn , shit jux got real for me , I need advice ya'all please!

"you dated her for 3years and you don't think you love her"....ah that is wickedness and u enjoyed the sex for 3years and u want to run away ?Please don't try it

tygaweezy:
Hey o.p here , c'mon guys! Really?? I've been following all ur coments here,hw about sum real solution? Marriage is outta d list guys am still very young .

still very young? Not young doing unprotected sex ? Am sure you are above 18years Please marry that gal ,elvina promised pampers on discount prices!

fecosequence:
tk responsîbility for it bt let her knw ur nt rdy for marriage...nd mst esp let ur mum knw asap aldo she go scream!!bt she wl acept her...

What?! Tell my mum? Well my mum has met her like two times and she really likes her and sometimes ask me of her wen she calls , telling her sounds more like marriage straight for me. Buh I tink I'll give it a shot #really_scary

leemarhsparkz:
Hi tyga,u rilly gatto calm down on ds..buh obviously u'v gat a lotta faults on ds...yea *i knw ds body no b firewood thingy buh u rilly shudnt have had sex wih sum1 u broke up wih not to talk of avn it unprotected..now...my perspectiv on the solution is
shez gona bear ur first child..a part of u is in her already..u shudnt let her abort d baiby!...aint u d 1 on ur profile display pics?..ur a man aiidy..u nid to let ur mum knw bou ds...be ready to face wareva...take responsibility..u knw ur responsible for it deep down righ?...dear..give ur first son/daughter a chance..dont abort d unborn child plz..let ur parents knw bou it.God will surely provide for u to take gud care of little tyga!...plzz abortion wunt help!...learn to love dh girl.../LEEMARH/

Yeah I knew having sex wit a gal I broke up with wasn't a good idea but I was helpless cos I knew she has done notin wrong to me,so denyin her sex would make her tink I left because of some oda girl, which isn't true #silly_excuse
And yeah dats me on my profile display , 4get the beards am just 23

Take her to the lab yourself and run that PT... She might just wanna tease you... Some bi*ches are like that

tygaweezy:
Ok,I've been dating this gal for 3years now nd its been going great ,she is the kinda person that really understands me and would never do anytin 2 hurt me , when I had problem with my business and dint know who to turn to , she stood by me and gave me support in which Eva way I needed it and yeah the sex was awesome too.
But here's the problem,I don't think I really love this girl and I don't wana sound like an asshole but its true,I tink I fell for her because of her awesome personality not because I really loved her, so few months back I took her out on a date and told her that I don't tink our relationship is gona work anymore,and yeah she cried and pleaded cos she has done nothing wrong , I felt bad but I can't just kip saying "I love you" to some1 I don't really love. Finally she accepted the breakup but each time she visits or I visit we do have sex "unprotected".
The last sex we had was three weeks ago and I knew I ejaculated inside of her and told her about it,she said don't worry that she was gona take care of it ,which I guess she Neva did because a day before yesterday she called my phone and asked if we could meet , we did and she told me that she is 3weeks pregnant . Am totally confused because I don't tink am up for that kinda responsibility, out of frustration I told her to abort it but she got really upset and said she won't .
Mehn , shit jux got real for me , I need advice ya'all please!

Grow up
Man up
Face up
new papi in town

Abort that chil ur future will be aborted

Abortion is muder....blood will be on ur hands


U dont marry a woman cos of love but personality


Her breast will sag
Her toto will wide
Children will come
Love will fade
but personality remains


So do the needful
Ture

WarRLaY:
Sorry, what is protected Sex ?

u definitely don't school in france cos here, that's how we role

holyboss:
u definitely don't school in france cos here, that's how we role

really wanna quote you today so keep liking my mentions

I have been there
Many men has been there

U will love the girl and child

Dont worry u will grow to be fond of each other


We see our lives and wives in diff ways


Try it

From experience

tygaweezy:

I've been waiting for some1 to say that, but here's the bigger problem... Where's she gona stay throughout the pregnancy?? My place aint a good idea cos my folks do visit every now and then without my notice and she's still in school and stays with her parents when she's back home,so its really a tight spot for me. Damn! Am sweating!

b4?? Were u planning on keepn it a secret? Jst man up 2 it..u gonna b a popman soon, excpt u can convince, no, decieve her into plan B..Dt mite b d only way it rmains a secret.,if nt, she'l stay at her parents place n urs

christopher123:


Grow up
Man up
Face up
new papi in town

Abort that chil ur future will be aborted

Abortion is muder....blood will be on ur hands


U dont marry a woman cos of love but personality


Her breast will sag
Her toto will wide
Children will come
Love will fade
but personality remains


So do the needful
Ture

guy, those things u mentioned have no connectn to love they'r jst physical attributes..luv SHOULD ALWAYS remain..til d end

tchigofigo:

guy, those things u mentioned have no connectn to love they'r jst physical attributes..luv SHOULD ALWAYS remain..til d end

Dude

Love is not enough for marriage cos there is notin like true love

Compatibility and attributes are the main thing


Wake up

tdayof:
really wanna quote you today so keep liking my mentions

Oh! This came just right in time (just wen I was about asking why u dey stalk mah post)

It would've been a lot easier if you were both schooling in France.
But man up, this too shall pass.

Takes me back 2 yrs...same shit happened mine was her dad was even the one who found out she was prego and dis is after she had taken some illegal drugs to terminate didn't rily love her den either....she abandoned school cus she wouldnt give me up to her parents and she ended up carrying the child...was in my 300l but I knew i had to take responsibility...emptied my savings sending cash to her, became close with her sisters heck we even discussed baby names at some point sad thing though she miscarried 5 months in and that was it i vowed to help her regain admission and after 2 attempts she's just been admitted...funny thing is 3yrs on and we still together........my advice is take responsibility talk to ur mum and see how things play out you do not necessarily need to love her but trust me with time ud come to form a special bond cus of the human uve both created...sorry for the epistle

tygaweezy:
Hey o.p here , c'mon guys! Really?? I've been following all ur coments here,hw about sum real solution? Marriage is outta d list guys am still very young .

....And you ejaculated inside of her like u wrote...sory bro u are on your own!
Poo just got real for you! As in 4 real

Congrats! CD 30 card too cost for u, I wonder hw u go take buy pampers... Beta start saving already.

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you guys saw him through all the rounds!so finally he is there at the grand finale and you guys can do it again today...


God bless yall
God bless nairaland
God bless team omonaija


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edozie04:
Dude marry that lady,a lady that could stand by u even when your business was falling and even supported you in all aspects?Mehn how I wish I was in your shoes....I think your problem is that u got her cheap,if she had played you,u won't be saying this

I agree with you
OP girls like this are hard to come by o.
Standing by you is not common for girls of these days.
These girl clearly loves you. So keep her by your side cos getting a girl like her will not be easy.
If she played you na you go shout.

tygaweezy:
Ok,I've been dating this gal for 3years now nd its been going great ,she is the kinda person that really understands me and would never do anytin 2 hurt me , when I had problem with my business and dint know who to turn to , she stood by me and gave me support in which Eva way I needed it and yeah the sex was awesome too.
But here's the problem,I don't think I really love this girl and I don't wana sound like an asshole but its true,I tink I fell for her because of her awesome personality not because I really loved her, so few months back I took her out on a date and told her that I don't tink our relationship is gona work anymore,and yeah she cried and pleaded cos she has done nothing wrong , I felt bad but I can't just kip saying "I love you" to some1 I don't really love. Finally she accepted the breakup but each time she visits or I visit we do have sex "unprotected".
The last sex we had was three weeks ago and I knew I ejaculated inside of her and told her about it,she said don't worry that she was gona take care of it ,which I guess she Neva did because a day before yesterday she called my phone and asked if we could meet , we did and she told me that she is 3weeks pregnant . Am totally confused because I don't tink am up for that kinda responsibility, out of frustration I told her to abort it but she got really upset and said she won't .
Mehn , shit jux got real for me , I need advice ya'all please!

You Are a fool for Asking for advice..After break up why did u continue to hv unprotected sex..she is not good enough to b loved but is good enough for just sex abi? And ur so wise to think she won't get pregnAnt from unprotected sex. Look here u better marry her And don't try Abortion..what makes one a man is his âbility to take responsibility.

Abeg make una vote emperorking20 for mr.nairaland @op I fit supply you baby food at a 20 percent discount rate ya

GOOD for am soooooo happy1!!! cd na still #50 incase of next tym

Evina:
Congratulations

I can supply you pampers at discounted rate

girl u harsh oh

#happiest moment in a man's life

Thats good news bro
¤Congratulation¤

A very big thank you to you all for your help so far , I really apriciate,Including those of you that gave sarcastic responses,its cool ... I guess I know what to do now .

Queenzy:
When you were busy having sex with her, you didn't need our help
When you broke up with her, you didn't need our help
Now she's pregnant and you need our help?

You no ready to be person papa but you no want wear condom straff woman. Smh!

You better call her folks and arrange for how you will pay her bride price.

Mme kap mkpa ishie. Nduk!

Anie uwot fien:-/%-)