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What Is Wrong For A Wife To Be Older In Age Than Her Husband?? by Babafaros(m): 3:53am On Nov 23, 2014
Hi,Everyone here,I and my mum was having discussion abt marriage yesterday And She said the right thing is for Husband"s age be more than that of d husband.She said the wife will not be obedient and respectful if She is older and will always dominating&controlling the family.I didn't agree with her ooo.

I'm not talking of age difference like 10yrs oo#Haba,I'm talking of maybe the wife older than her husband with like a yr&2yrs.
I know mature minds are here in this section,pls share ur views.
Thanks in anticipation
Re: What Is Wrong For A Wife To Be Older In Age Than Her Husband?? by lirusehn(m): 4:53am On Nov 23, 2014

Inferiority complex/Black Mentality
Re: What Is Wrong For A Wife To Be Older In Age Than Her Husband?? by Fraih(f): 5:00am On Nov 23, 2014
Its nothing, I've seen marriages like dat and they are firm...

But as for me, I can't try it
cry
Re: What Is Wrong For A Wife To Be Older In Age Than Her Husband?? by fitzmayowa: 5:48am On Nov 23, 2014
Fraih:
Its nothing, I've seen marriages like dat and they are firm...

But as for me, I can't try it
cry


Why i thought you just said is nothing....
Re: What Is Wrong For A Wife To Be Older In Age Than Her Husband?? by beeevan: 5:53am On Nov 23, 2014
I have no problem with but I can't try it, won't even want my kid to.
Re: What Is Wrong For A Wife To Be Older In Age Than Her Husband?? by Johnfavour(m): 6:16am On Nov 23, 2014
Nothing is wrong, if the marriage is base on love and trust. The wife should know her age doesnt make her the husband. But black mentality has affected us all.
Re: What Is Wrong For A Wife To Be Older In Age Than Her Husband?? by Edykul(f): 6:18am On Nov 23, 2014
To me its actually no big deal....It all depends on d pple involved.
Re: What Is Wrong For A Wife To Be Older In Age Than Her Husband?? by Kimoni: 6:42am On Nov 23, 2014
Nothing wrong with it. Love has no barriers!

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Re: What Is Wrong For A Wife To Be Older In Age Than Her Husband?? by Babafaros(m): 12:28pm On Nov 23, 2014
Fraih:
Its nothing, I've seen marriages like dat and they are firm...

But as for me, I can't try it
cry
Why can't u try it
Re: What Is Wrong For A Wife To Be Older In Age Than Her Husband?? by coogar: 1:26pm On Nov 23, 2014
Babafaros:
Hi,Everyone here,I and my mum was having discussion abt marriage yesterday And She said the right thing is for Husband"s age be more than that of d husband.She said the wife will not be obedient and respectful if She is older and will always dominating&controlling the family.I didn't agree with her ooo.

I'm not talking of age difference like 10yrs oo#Haba,I'm talking of maybe the wife older than her husband with like a yr&2yrs.
I know mature minds are here in this section,pls share ur views.
Thanks in anticipation

only men with low self esteem worry about such. a woman can be 200 years old if she wants to, i am still going to be the head of the house. age means shyte in the grand scheme of things - the only snag here is the state of her reproductive organs. if she can produce babies without hassles then her age means nada to me.

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Re: What Is Wrong For A Wife To Be Older In Age Than Her Husband?? by Nobody: 1:42pm On Nov 23, 2014
coogar:


only men with low self esteem worry about such. a woman can be 200 years old if she wants to, i am still going to be the head of the house. age means shyte in the grand scheme of things - the only snag here is the state of her reproductive organs. if she can produce babies without hassles then her age means nada to me.

Naa! Once you are born the race towards certain ultimate eventualities begin..... Puberty...Maturity....Menopause....effects of gravity on female body parts.....loss of s3x drive......and then....death. Females get some of these quicker than men. Some get there faster than others.

Seems illogical to knowingly decide to become exclusive with someone that will reach there before you. Imagine at 70 yrs of age and your badd boy is still screaming "good-morning boss", meanwhile you have an 82 yr old mama sorry wifee who has aged past that kinda thing. Boy! Konji for old age na bastard oh! cheesy
Re: What Is Wrong For A Wife To Be Older In Age Than Her Husband?? by coogar: 1:50pm On Nov 23, 2014
1stCitizen:

Naa! Once you are born the race towards certain ultimate eventualities begin..... Puberty...Maturity....Menopause....effects of gravity on female body parts.....loss of s3x drive......and then....death. Females get some of these quicker than men. Some get there faster than others.

i understand these factors but is it big enough for me to drop the woman i truly love, i don't think so. as long as she's not 40+, there's still plenty of sėx to get out of her. grin


Seems illogical to knowingly decide to become exclusive with someone that will reach there before you. Imagine at 70 yrs of age and your badd boy is still screaming "good-morning boss", meanwhile you have an 82 yr old mama sorry wifee who has aged past that kinda thing. Boy! Konji for old age na bastard oh! cheesy

it's not exactly black & white - there are some babes in their 20s who look 50 already. there are babes in their 50s who look like 20+. ultimately, it depends on how she manages her health. women who take their aerobics & fitness seriously don't age at a rapid rate.
Re: What Is Wrong For A Wife To Be Older In Age Than Her Husband?? by Babafaros(m): 2:00pm On Nov 23, 2014
lirusehn:


Inferiority complex/Black Mentality
So u don't like it
Re: What Is Wrong For A Wife To Be Older In Age Than Her Husband?? by Babafaros(m): 2:03pm On Nov 23, 2014
beeevan:
I have no problem with but I can't try it, won't even want my kid to.
Y can't u try it since u have no problem with that
Re: What Is Wrong For A Wife To Be Older In Age Than Her Husband?? by Babafaros(m): 2:05pm On Nov 23, 2014
Edykul:
To me its actually no big deal....It all depends on d pple involved.
En en,so easy like dat,remember ladies &their egos
Re: What Is Wrong For A Wife To Be Older In Age Than Her Husband?? by Nobody: 2:10pm On Nov 23, 2014
coogar:


ultimately, it depends on how she manages her health. women who take their aerobics & fitness seriously don't age at a rapid rate.

That is the point. It all depends on how she.... and if she...... zero control over future s3xual happiness is a minefield especially when you start asking.....what if she does not.

It is always better to go for the easier one....no amount of aerobics will fix an 82 yr old Pushie...Marry from fresh, young and strong stock(These young ladies of nowadays can bring down heaven oh grin grin grin). Older woman?! MBAH NU! Enjoy a honey pot until you say goodbye and if any is left....you leave it as your legacy for whoever she chooses. cheesy
Re: What Is Wrong For A Wife To Be Older In Age Than Her Husband?? by coogar: 2:18pm On Nov 23, 2014
1stCitizen:


That is the point. It all depends on how she.... and if she...... zero control over future s3xual happiness is a minefield especially when you start asking.....what if she does not.

It is always better to go for the easier one....no amount of aerobics will fix an 82 yr old Pushie...Marry from fresh, young and strong stock(These young ladies of nowadays can bring down heaven oh grin grin grin). Older woman?! MBAH NU! Enjoy a honey pot until you say goodbye and if any is left....you leave it as your legacy for whoever she chooses. cheesy

say......you are 28 years of age
genevieve is 35, beverley osu is 23. if you must choose one of them, which one would you go for? grin
Re: What Is Wrong For A Wife To Be Older In Age Than Her Husband?? by Nobody: 2:19pm On Nov 23, 2014
coogar:


say......you are 28 years of age
genevieve is 35, beverley osu is 23. if you must choose one of them, which one would you go for? grin

Which kain hard queshion be dis na?
Re: What Is Wrong For A Wife To Be Older In Age Than Her Husband?? by coogar: 2:20pm On Nov 23, 2014
1stCitizen:

Which kain hard queshion be dis na?

grin cheesy grin
Re: What Is Wrong For A Wife To Be Older In Age Than Her Husband?? by Fraih(f): 2:21pm On Nov 23, 2014
Babafaros:

Why can't u try it
fitzmayowa:

Why i thought you just said is nothing....

It worked for them because they have d liver for it...
I don't
Re: What Is Wrong For A Wife To Be Older In Age Than Her Husband?? by addictiv(m): 5:55pm On Nov 23, 2014
1stCitizen:


That is the point. It all depends on how she.... and if she...... zero control over future s3xual happiness is a minefield especially when you start asking.....what if she does not.

It is always better to go for the easier one....no amount of aerobics will fix an 82 yr old Pushie...Marry from fresh, young and strong stock(These young ladies of nowadays can bring down heaven oh grin grin grin). Older woman?! MBAH NU! Enjoy a honey pot until you say goodbye and if any is left....you leave it as your legacy for whoever she chooses. cheesy
Certainly flesh and blood did not reveal this to you..I have a saying if it's not factory fitted, it can never be like factory fitted..why will I go for a fifth hand tokunbo when I can get brand new with clean mileage huh? smiley..
Re: What Is Wrong For A Wife To Be Older In Age Than Her Husband?? by Nobody: 8:56pm On Nov 23, 2014
There are many couples like this. Absolutely nothing wrong with it.
Re: What Is Wrong For A Wife To Be Older In Age Than Her Husband?? by Babafaros(m): 10:00am On Nov 24, 2014
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Re: What Is Wrong For A Wife To Be Older In Age Than Her Husband?? by Timmytimmy: 10:37am On Nov 24, 2014
It all depends on how much love each partner has. One thing I've come to learn about life is that in the presence of true, vibrant love (I don't just mean romantic love), any arrangement can work. When I say love I'm talking about the sacrificial, enduring, heart throbbing love.

I don't even think I'm gonna mind if it eventually happens with me. All that matters is LOVE. smiley
Re: What Is Wrong For A Wife To Be Older In Age Than Her Husband?? by Nobody: 11:55am On Nov 24, 2014
There's nothing wrong in it if that's what they want, but i wouldn't want that for myself, because i might end up looking older, bearing in mind the fact that women are more likely to age faster than men. I agree with 1stCitizen.
Re: What Is Wrong For A Wife To Be Older In Age Than Her Husband?? by DVMtuppence(m): 12:43pm On Nov 24, 2014
Babafaros:
Cc:
Aisha2
ajahexcel
Thewhizzkid1
Donabydeco,
wandeogun ,
Morhziez
Creativity14
Benjaminbest
sexyseun
DVMtuppence
Holuwadharah
DrHesjay
sirnoel
Lilboots
Lagusta
DrGboy
lomaxx,
Tommyden
AdeniyiA
SenatorJames
Popowaa,
Seun
michaelking28
Chiamaka01
AmbFitsaint
Understatement
Babysmart
Timmytimmy
faros,wat I do?
Re: What Is Wrong For A Wife To Be Older In Age Than Her Husband?? by Babafaros(m): 3:09pm On Nov 24, 2014
DVMtuppence:

faros,wat I do?
I want ur view on dizz
Re: What Is Wrong For A Wife To Be Older In Age Than Her Husband?? by ernie4life(m): 9:24pm On Nov 24, 2014
lie lie I no fit try am

shuu...

embarassed
Re: What Is Wrong For A Wife To Be Older In Age Than Her Husband?? by Creativity14(m): 8:47am On Nov 25, 2014
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