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Mprex:
awwwwww! Sorry sweetie. I missed you like cray

Like Crayfish?

KingTom:
Like Crayfish?

like stockfish

Mprex:
like stockfish

Oh so you miss my rugged edges and unique scent

KingTom:
Oh so you miss my rugged edges and unique scent

who missed you in the first place

Jennydoris:
Am not hating you because everybody has his/her understanding towards some issues. And you can call bride pride extortion, that's the way u see it. Bride price does not ascertain how the marriage will be like or whether the wife will be faithful or not. What am saying is that it's a traditional thing which is expected of any man that wants to take home a woman as his wife. Bride price does not guarantee a succeful marriage just as elaborate wedding won't. Since its a tradition that must be carried out which is expected of every man then why can't the man. He is not just doing it for the woman but for himself too. When u can't pay the bride price of the woman you're living with or you want to live with I wonder how you want people especially your age mate to see you. They will assume that you're a not upto the task. An age mate of yours can easily shut you up when a meeting is going, so many people will take you for granted and disrespect you because to them you are not a man yet because you failed to the necessary. Repect they say is reciprocal. Even sometimes the family of the woman can insult you. So to keep your diginity and prestige as a man you have to do what is expected of you. If you think that paying of bride price will determine how happy your marriage will be then am sorry to say that such a man that habours such thought is not yet ready for marriage. It's only the couples understanding, their level of maturity, the love that they have for each other and the grace of God that determines how happy the marriage will be.

OK.
But, what do you say to Yorubas that don't attach much values to bride pride? Does that mean a man is less responsible and a subject of ridicule amongst his mates?

Mprex:
who missed you in the first place

Shakara girl. You just don't want to admit you missed me! But I missed you sha

Burger01:
OK.
But, what do you say to Yorubas that don't attach much values to bride pride? Does that mean a man is less responsible and a subject of ridicule amongst his mates?

Well different tradition for different people. In my place when a guy pays for the woman's bride price the parents of the bride will return part of the money to the man and his family telling them that they are not selling their daughter but giving her out to him to help them in taking care of her.

Jennydoris:
Well different tradition for different people. In my place when a guy pays for the woman's bride price the parents of the bride will return part of the money to the man and his family telling them that they are not selling their daughter but giving her out to him to help them in taking care of her.

OK. that's good. At least they still get to return part of the money. But some people.... NO WAY!

Juicypunny:
BIG DICK IS YUMMY, SATISFYING AND FILLING.

I LOVE IT NOT LESS THAN 7INCH.

LADIES, SHARE YOUR PREFERENCE.

I think you missed road..

KingTom:
Shakara girl. You just don't want to admit you missed me! But I missed you sha

*shakes her lil bottom*

shakara indeed!

I think this bride price of a thing should be put to rest(ie die!). Some traditions suck...

That said, it's less than 10k but the list is the main ish...

Mprex:
*shakes her lil bottom*

shakara indeed!

Hmmmmmmm ****Observing the shaking from my seat****

KingTom:
Hmmmmmmm ****Observing the shaking from my seat****

tarh! Go away

Mprex:
tarh! Go away