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I read a book about this and i just feel like i should share it here in brief details:
1. Mistake of Social acceptance : it is a normal that any woman shud drim big and want d gud tin of life. It definitely not a sin. However, a woman shud not or never hang such big dream on wat a man must present to be worthy of havin relationshp with. Instead, if any lady so dream- to be a big woman, she must b ready to work hard and show herself diligent in her own cause. Wanting grt fa4 without an equaly developd mind is an opportunity 4 crafty men who go abt pretendin 2 b grtly rich to devour women of easy virtue on d platter of wantin to help them.

2. The mistake of changing him : in real life, it is vry difficult to change any human being. Tinkin u can change a man frm how he use 2 be is an exercise in futility.

3. Mistake of Character: the charm of a lady may win a man, but the character of a lady will keep the man with her. Wen a woman is beautiful but lacks the right character, chances r that she wil also miss the right life partner.

4. Mistake of controlin him: one of the ways to get a man upset is to keep scheming a plan to take control in a relationshp. Even a man that is peaceful nd easy goin luv to feel u r his woman. The desire of every man is to b the one who cal the shot nd decide directn for d relatnshp. The holy scripture has establishd the man as d head of the house

5. Mistake of wantin too much so soon, bn too possesive and materialistic : desire to wantin evry gud tin xo soon is just impatience.

6. Mistake of wrong mindset : we r al complex as humans. But while sme v used this to uplift their lives nd career, sme however v allowed this same quality to ruin their chances at d gud life or a sucesful luv-based relationship. Smetyms u vry b.tiful women go arnd as frustrated adult b.cos they v misd d right man at early stage, playin hide nd seek nd hopin that a prince charmin wil come.

Just sum it up...and you have 'GREED' as the root of all their mistakes...

Abi wetin mencade5 think abourrit?

TRADELYN:
Just sum it up...and you have 'GREED' as the root of all their mistakes...

Abi wetin mencade5 think abourrit?

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I love ur write up its absolutely true d issue of character and also relying on a man for ur needs and having big dreams dat u can't achieve its good to dream big but draw a line between d REALITY and DREAM

babyBB:
I love ur write up its absolutely true d issue of character and also relying on a man for ur needs and having big dreams dat u can't achieve its good to dream big but draw a line between d REALITY and DREAM

yea, very well

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Would have been a great post if I was able to read it... Learn to write properly (stop using short hand) so that learned people like me would be able to contribute also.

babyBB:
I love ur write up its absolutely true d issue of character and also relying on a man for ur needs and having big dreams dat u can't achieve its good to dream big but draw a line between d REALITY and DREAM

Birds of same feather!

silverluci:
https://www.nairaland.com/dotwillis1

Would have been a great post if I was able to read it... Learn to write properly (stop using short hand) so that learned people like me would be able to contribute also.

lolz , sorry ma'am. Buh atleast yhu still gon' grab one or two things