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How You Should Treat Your Wife by Nobody: 7:03am On Nov 25, 2014
1) Greet her.

2) Smile at her.

3) Go racing with her and let her win. Later, when she puts on weight, race with her again and win her.

4) Eat from the same plate.

5) Drink from the same place where she places her mouth, and eat from the same place

6 )Put a morsel of food in her mouth.

7) Let her comb your hair.

8. Recite Qur’an, while resting your head in
her lap.

9) Take a ghusl with her from a single container.

10) Teach and advise her in a gentle manner.

11) Honour her friends, even after her death. Send them food from a sacrifice.

12) Call her by pleasing nicknames.

13) Wipe away her tears.

14) Heed her advice.

15) Take her with you on long journeys./vacations/

16) Spend time with her in entertainment, and stay with her until she is satisfied.

17) Let her spend time with her friends.

18) Give her time to adorn herself before going to her for intimacy.

19) Do not go to her in the manner of animals.

20) Make this dua before being intimate with her: Bismillah. Allaahumma jannibnash shaitaan, wa jannibish shaitaana maa razaqtanaa.

21) Wake her up to make salaah at night. If she doesn’t get up, sprinkle water on her face.

22) Convey salams to her from others. Make dua for her.


I always tell my Christian friends something, I tell them that just because someone bears a Muslim name doesn't mean he's a practising Muslim.

Just because he/she recites the Quran doesn't mean he follows its teachings.

Most are ignorant of Islamic knowledge and how to live the day to day life of a Muslim.

Women are pearls and diamonds and worth more than that. They are meant to be treated lightly with care and love.

*These are the teachings of Prophet Muhammed and his way of life*

Reference:

You may go through these books, you will find more light with respect to the above points.

1. The quest for love and mercy (regulations and wedding in islam)

2. Closer than garment (marital intimacy according to
the pure sunnah)

3. The fragile vessels (right and obligation between the spouse in islam)
Re: How You Should Treat Your Wife by DesChyko: 7:16am On Nov 25, 2014
Some of the things you posted are odd..
Re: How You Should Treat Your Wife by Nobody: 7:26am On Nov 25, 2014
DesChyko:
Some of the things you posted are odd..
Like?
Re: How You Should Treat Your Wife by DesChyko: 7:32am On Nov 25, 2014
Fantasywrita:
Like?
5, 16, 18.

Others include the Islamic practices.
Re: How You Should Treat Your Wife by Nobody: 9:31am On Nov 25, 2014
DesChyko:
5, 16, 18.

Others include the Islamic practices.
I don't see anything wrong with 5,16 and 18. its called treating ur wife well.
Re: How You Should Treat Your Wife by Cholls(m): 9:48am On Nov 25, 2014
Fantasywrita:
1) Greet her.

2) Smile at her.

3) Go racing with her and let her win. Later, when she puts on weight, race with her again and win her.

4) Eat from the same plate.

5) Drink from the same place where she places her mouth, and eat from the same place

6 )Put a morsel of food in her mouth.

7) Let her comb your hair.

8. Recite Qur’an, while resting your head in
her lap.

9) Take a ghusl with her from a single container.

10) Teach and advise her in a gentle manner.

11) Honour her friends, even after her death. Send them food from a sacrifice.

12) Call her by pleasing nicknames.

13) Wipe away her tears.

14) Heed her advice.

15) Take her with you on long journeys./vacations/

16) Spend time with her in entertainment, and stay with her until she is satisfied.

17) Let her spend time with her friends.

18) Give her time to adorn herself before going to her for intimacy.

19) Do not go to her in the manner of animals.

20) Make this dua before being intimate with her: Bismillah. Allaahumma jannibnash shaitaan, wa jannibish shaitaana maa razaqtanaa.

21) Wake her up to make salaah at night. If she doesn’t get up, sprinkle water on her face.

22) Convey salams to her from others. Make dua for her.


I always tell my Christian friends something, I tell them that just because someone bears a Muslim name doesn't mean he's a practising Muslim.

Just because he/she recites the Quran doesn't mean he follows its teachings.

Most are ignorant of Islamic knowledge and how to live the day to day life of a Muslim.

Women are pearls and diamonds and worth more than that. They are meant to be treated lightly with care and love.

*These are the teachings of Prophet Muhammed and his way of life*

Reference:

You may go through these books, you will find more light with respect to the above points.

1. The quest for love and mercy (regulations and wedding in islam)

2. Closer than garment (marital intimacy according to
the pure sunnah)

3. The fragile vessels (right and obligation between the spouse in islam)
my brother best of luck
Re: How You Should Treat Your Wife by Nobody: 10:27am On Nov 25, 2014
Cholls:
my brother best of luck
Thanks cheesy
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