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| Love-shyness: Of Men That Can't/don't Approach Women. by BrightEye(op): 8:13am On Nov 28, 2014*. Modified: 9:34am On Nov 28, 2014 |
Sure, the term 'love-shyness' is less popular in country like Nigeria. This is unexpectedly an extreme phenomenon people simply know as 'shy guy', 'can't toast' or 'can't approach a girl'. I call it severe because of a very painful emotional stress the sufferers pass through. People (that are not inffected/affected) often toy with this stuff, claiming those dudes should just be bold, confident and do like men, then they are good to go. But honestly, these gentle guys need more than these, they evidently even need morethan a theraphy. Love-shyness is first used as word by a social psycologist, Dr Brian G Gilmartins, in his book: shyness and love, consequencess and treatment (1987). However, Gilmartins' book is out of print today, resulting to some modern researchers on love-shyness like the authors of 'love-bold', the only book that claims to effectively cure love-shyness, as well as love-shy.com, website for love-shys to interact. Love-shyness is affecting 60 million guys worldwide. Silently suffering! |
| Re: Love-shyness: Of Men That Can't/don't Approach Women. by Nobody: 8:22am On Nov 28, 2014 |
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| Re: Love-shyness: Of Men That Can't/don't Approach Women. by adepiero: 8:28am On Nov 28, 2014 |
Has vodka and weed finished? |
| Re: Love-shyness: Of Men That Can't/don't Approach Women. by ireneony(f): 8:33am On Nov 28, 2014 |
well I love shy guys not just shy guys but the ones that are gentle, handsome, clever,presentable, caring and most importantly I like their shy smile 2 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Love-shyness: Of Men That Can't/don't Approach Women. by adepiero: 8:37am On Nov 28, 2014 |
ireneony:so you loved me and you didn't say anything since! women sha 3 Likes |
| Re: Love-shyness: Of Men That Can't/don't Approach Women. by Nobody: 8:38am On Nov 28, 2014 |
@ireneony If I hear.  |
| Re: Love-shyness: Of Men That Can't/don't Approach Women. by ireneony(f): 8:41am On Nov 28, 2014 |
adepiero:I said handsome too, u are just fine but not handsome |
| Re: Love-shyness: Of Men That Can't/don't Approach Women. by adepiero: 8:44am On Nov 28, 2014 |
ireneony:Na wah o! different girls with different classification of beauty |
| Re: Love-shyness: Of Men That Can't/don't Approach Women. by Nobody: 8:49am On Nov 28, 2014 |
Shy guys al d way |
| Re: Love-shyness: Of Men That Can't/don't Approach Women. by BrightEye(op): 8:50am On Nov 28, 2014 |
ireneony:Well, that's good. But it is studied that these love-shys main barier in making a successful relationship is their failure to approach a girl no matter what feelings they have toward them. Also, those women seem to them not to care at all, as a girl would not approach a love-shy either, no matter how extremely she loves him. Hence, a love-shy would be very happy and possibly overcome his anxiety a bit, if the girl he loves just walks to him and say, "hi, i love those gentle smiles of yours. I'd like to go out with you". In short, if she declares to him her feelings. |
| Re: Love-shyness: Of Men That Can't/don't Approach Women. by Nobody: 8:53am On Nov 28, 2014 |
ireneony:Please explain the difference between fine and handsome  |
| Re: Love-shyness: Of Men That Can't/don't Approach Women. by ireneony(f): 8:54am On Nov 28, 2014 |
BrightEye:can u tell can me how to identify this set of guys that I described |
| Re: Love-shyness: Of Men That Can't/don't Approach Women. by ireneony(f): 8:57am On Nov 28, 2014 |
Ferdybaba:bros, there is a long gap of difference o |
| Re: Love-shyness: Of Men That Can't/don't Approach Women. by Nobody: 9:01am On Nov 28, 2014 |
ireneony:Hehehe..Is that the explanation  |
| Re: Love-shyness: Of Men That Can't/don't Approach Women. by BrightEye(op): 9:09am On Nov 28, 2014 |
ireneony:Lolz. I can see you are serious to meet one. Only mutual feelings between you and a love-shy could let you identify one. They are hard to identify, as they pretend they are like average men when you are around them for couple of minutes. They are severely introverted ones. They love art and music(mostly soft rock type). And as you said, most of them are beautiful in hearth, with a smilling face, always. They are very nice nd don't cause truble in society. They are also 'male lesbians'. |
| Re: Love-shyness: Of Men That Can't/don't Approach Women. by SkinnyDude(m): 9:27am On Nov 28, 2014 |
adepiero:guy why you come worwor like this nah? |
| Re: Love-shyness: Of Men That Can't/don't Approach Women. by SkinnyDude(m): 9:30am On Nov 28, 2014 |
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| Re: Love-shyness: Of Men That Can't/don't Approach Women. by adepiero: 9:37am On Nov 28, 2014 |
SkinnyDude:na Watin ur brain fit carry you write ba! well done |
| Re: Love-shyness: Of Men That Can't/don't Approach Women. by SkinnyDude(m): 9:41am On Nov 28, 2014 |
adepiero:and you think you're handsome. i give up on you. |
| Re: Love-shyness: Of Men That Can't/don't Approach Women. by adepiero: 9:45am On Nov 28, 2014 |
SkinnyDude:last time I checked your opinion wasn't required FYI, I didn't say anything about being handsome! I care less about such frivolities |
| Re: Love-shyness: Of Men That Can't/don't Approach Women. by Bjfirst: 10:04am On Nov 28, 2014 |
short of words |
| Re: Love-shyness: Of Men That Can't/don't Approach Women. by Nobody: 10:55am On Nov 28, 2014 |
And girls that talk about wanting a handsome guy are hardly pretty..mtcheww |
| Re: Love-shyness: Of Men That Can't/don't Approach Women. by ERCROSS(m): 10:58am On Nov 28, 2014 |
ireneony:Seriously..? Is there a difference between a fine guy and an handsome guy..? |
| Re: Love-shyness: Of Men That Can't/don't Approach Women. by mikeomo11(m): 10:59am On Nov 28, 2014 |
BrightEye:What do u mean by 'male lesbians?' Am a cool, handsome and introverted person to an extent. And I agree to some of what u said about introverts 'cos I love RnB music but a 'male lesbian', sounds ridiculous. |
| Re: Love-shyness: Of Men That Can't/don't Approach Women. by ireneony(f): 11:36am On Nov 28, 2014 |
mikeomo11:can you upload your pix |
| Re: Love-shyness: Of Men That Can't/don't Approach Women. by Ephraimatic(m): 11:52am On Nov 28, 2014*. Modified: 10:26pm On May 30, 2015 |
ireneony:dat's not me |
| Re: Love-shyness: Of Men That Can't/don't Approach Women. by Emodeee: 12:06pm On Nov 28, 2014 |
ireneony:well, i beheld ya pic and ah saw why u lyk shy guyz. 4rm d picture dat i saw, u luk wild, more of an extrovert, fashionable. so therefore u need smone dat will compliment ur characteristics, and u sure knw a shy guy will do. |
| Re: Love-shyness: Of Men That Can't/don't Approach Women. by ireneony(f): 12:13pm On Nov 28, 2014 |
Emodeee:well I like shy guys that are fashionable |
| Re: Love-shyness: Of Men That Can't/don't Approach Women. by Emodeee: 12:17pm On Nov 28, 2014 |
ireneony:hmmmmm......cn u break a record 4 me? |
| Re: Love-shyness: Of Men That Can't/don't Approach Women. by Missmossy(f): 12:18pm On Nov 28, 2014 |
Shy guys though  |
| Re: Love-shyness: Of Men That Can't/don't Approach Women. by Nobody: 12:41pm On Nov 28, 2014 |
I was a bit shy when I was in my late teens and early 20's. I'm the cool headed type and also introverted. So a girl in my neighborhood at that time noticed I never talked much and she approached he. Yes, she kinda asked me out. Wanna know my response/reaction? She was a cheap slut so I'll leave you to guess. |
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