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Ladies Pls by Merlissa(op): 4:52pm On Nov 28, 2014
My question is this

Can you date a guy who is so authoritative??

and why are they so authoritative??
Re: Ladies Pls by kristen12(f): 5:16pm On Nov 28, 2014
To boost their ego I guess
Re: Ladies Pls by Hazardd(m): 5:17pm On Nov 28, 2014
That's their nature and you have to adapt to it
Re: Ladies Pls by Medunah: 5:19pm On Nov 28, 2014
No i cant, they are egotistic and thats sumfin i cant deal with
Re: Ladies Pls by Merlissa(op): 5:26pm On Nov 28, 2014
Hazardd:
That's their nature and you have to adapt to it
I can't adapt to it... That's so insane
Re: Ladies Pls by Nobody: 5:34pm On Nov 28, 2014
He can join the military and give orders to his subordinates, for me no man born of woman can give me orders on how to live ma life.
Re: Ladies Pls by charijee(f): 5:35pm On Nov 28, 2014
Hazardd:
That's their nature and you have to adapt to it
Not all ladies can adapt......go for what suits you
Re: Ladies Pls by iamodenigbo1(m): 5:42pm On Nov 28, 2014
why not discuss it with him?
Re: Ladies Pls by Hazardd(m): 5:44pm On Nov 28, 2014
3cycle:
He can join the military and give orders to his subordinates, for me no man born of woman can give me orders on how to live ma life.
Unless you are not married to him
If you are married to him,you have to remember that you are under him.
grin
Re: Ladies Pls by Missmossy(f): 5:45pm On Nov 28, 2014
Nah I can't undecided we aint married and he's been authoritative then how is it going to be when we are?
Re: Ladies Pls by tosyne2much(m): 5:49pm On Nov 28, 2014
Observing things from a coconut tree
Re: Ladies Pls by Hazardd(m): 5:49pm On Nov 28, 2014
charijee:
Not all ladies can adapt......go for what suits you
some of them wouldn't start to control you during the time of dating or courtships until you two are fully married. So would you know what suits you huh
Re: Ladies Pls by Hazardd(m): 5:50pm On Nov 28, 2014
tosyne2much:
Observing things from a coconut tree

*pointing gun at him*come down or I shot
Re: Ladies Pls by tosyne2much(m): 5:53pm On Nov 28, 2014
Hazardd:

*pointing gun at him*come down or I shot
Abeg no shot ooooooo

** rushes down and grabs my fone to comment ** grin
Re: Ladies Pls by charijee(f): 5:55pm On Nov 28, 2014
Hazardd:
some of them wouldn't start to control you during the time of dating or courtships until you two are fully married. So would you know what suits you huh
True that......but a guy that's naturally authoritative shows the trait in dating or courtship.....study him carefully
Re: Ladies Pls by Nobody: 5:58pm On Nov 28, 2014
Hazardd:
Unless you are not married to him
If you are married to him,you have to remember that you are under him.
grin
Nope we are equal before God
Re: Ladies Pls by Tymax(m): 6:00pm On Nov 28, 2014
3cycle:
Nope we are equal before God
Whatever happened to submission? "Husbands, love your wives...Wives submit to your husbands....."
Re: Ladies Pls by Nobody: 6:05pm On Nov 28, 2014
Tymax:
Whatever happened to submission? "Husbands, love your wives...Wives submit to your husbands....."
Ty sweet kiss
Well the instruction is for wives.. grin still single.
Though submission doesn't make him a lord over me.
Re: Ladies Pls by Nobody: 6:06pm On Nov 28, 2014
tosyne2much:
Observing things from a coconut tree
I hope you wont fall
Re: Ladies Pls by Nobody: 6:07pm On Nov 28, 2014
I cant date such guys.
Re: Ladies Pls by chibwike(m): 6:07pm On Nov 28, 2014
Before its nice guys...now its authoritative guys...oh well.
Re: Ladies Pls by Hazardd(m): 6:08pm On Nov 28, 2014
3cycle:
Nope we are equal before God
You two are are not equal before God,he is the head. Wives submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. For the husband is head of the wife, ... Genesis 3:16,
you didn't know am a pastor grin
Re: Ladies Pls by Jamie1(m): 7:05pm On Nov 28, 2014
If he doesn't show superiority would you still see him as a man?...

whatever comes out of this post isn't gonna change any man, so if you don't like your man being authoritative then quit!... Some other person out there would be glad to have him...


Different strokes for different folks...
Re: Ladies Pls by Tymax(m): 7:14pm On Nov 28, 2014
3cycle:
Ty sweet kiss
Well the instruction is for wives.. grin still single.
Though submission doesn't make him a lord over me.
Lol.
Even Sarah called Abraham "My lord". Naija ladies are just proud sha. Repent.

Single ladies should learn submission. It helps.
Re: Ladies Pls by Charles4075(m): 8:04pm On Nov 28, 2014
Ladies, what type or kind of man would you like to date? I'm not saying I myself will be authoritative because it only brings fear and sadness to your family. But I'll be easy but firm.. So my question is ladies what's your ideal man?
Re: Ladies Pls by Merlissa(op): 8:08pm On Nov 28, 2014
Charles4075:
Ladies, what type or kind of man would you like to date? I'm not saying I myself will be authoritative because it only brings fear and sadness to your family. But I'll be easy but firm.. So my question is ladies what's your ideal man?

I want a James Bond kinda guy without him sleeping around with ladies grin
Re: Ladies Pls by malaria(f): 8:23pm On Nov 28, 2014
Hazardd:
Unless you are not married to him
If you are married to him,you have to remember that you are under him.
grin
. There is a difference between been submissive and been a zombie, men who are authoritative have ego problem, they always believe they are doing a woman favor by marrying her. There are many ways to command and earn your respect form your wife. If a man wants authority, he should enter barracks
Re: Ladies Pls by Nobody: 8:28pm On Nov 28, 2014
f**k that! why will a guy turn me into his remote control huh, i'll respect him, but he have to go easy on me.
Re: Ladies Pls by Hazardd(m): 8:46pm On Nov 28, 2014
malaria:
. There is a difference between been submissive and been a zombie, men who are authoritative have ego problem, they always believe they are doing a woman favor by marrying her. There are many ways to command and earn your respect form your wife. If a man wants authority, he should enter barracks
So you are the malaria(sickness)that don't want to leave me alone.
Abeg free my body grin

men been authoritative,these not about ego.thats just their nature. Without this, some of you ladies will label these men as weak.so the only way out is to be adaptative to your man.
Re: Ladies Pls by Nobody: 10:01pm On Nov 28, 2014
Merlissa:

I want a James Bond kinda guy without him sleeping around with ladies grin
Ladies... They always want to eat their cake and have it.
God purnish all this westerners for brainwashing our girls so far.

Anyway, its cool you know what you want.
Their are very gentle guys out there.
But you would agree with me that if a man is not sometimes firm with girls they tend to go over the edge.
Re: Ladies Pls by chimerase2: 10:28pm On Nov 28, 2014
undecided
Re: Ladies Pls by Afrok(m): 11:30pm On Nov 28, 2014
Ladies here are saying NO, so my own answer is i'm not authoritative, I can't and I won't angry.
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