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Romanciella:
excuse me..… .do I know u

clevvermind:
why did he even leave his girlfriend alone with his younger brother? is his brother made of wood? i'm fed up with all this kind of stories. pls the younger brother is not his girlfriend's keeper. he should blame himself.

chibwike:
who cares if you knw me or not...have told u want i want to tell you....and thats the most important thing.

Romanciella:
u sound pained..

naijaboiy:
This happened Last month.

A friend of mine travelled,,leaving his girlfriend of two years with his younger brother. He came back a week later and met only his brother at home.

After much enquiries his brother told him that he doesn't know what happened that she just left one morning and she was crying.

My friend hurried to her place and met her at home,,she was not looking cheerful either.
He questioned her and he was told that she was raped by his brother while he was away and that was why she left.

On the other hand,,his brother claimed that she was the one who seduced him. That she was always wearing skimpy dresses inside the house and she came to meet him inside the room one night.

Now my friend is confused,,he doesn't know who to believe neither does he know the best action to take. He loves this girl so much and it's difficult to let her go. She has been begging him not to leave her also. But he just can't stand her again,,looking at her eye to eye with that event in his mind is a problem. He had never suspected anything fishy going on between them,,everything seemed alright.

His younger brother is claiming innocent too and he's the only sibling he's got. My friend has been responsible for his school fees and upkeep for a long time now.

He doesn't know who to believe,,he doesn't know who to forgive.

Someone with a clear insight should please help!

iamord:
Both parties forming innocent shey!!!
I knew i should have brought my magun!!!

marieolae:
Hmmm honestly this is tough.

This girl was obviously traumatised. She left her boyfriends house for a reason. It affected her. Then again, his younger brother didn't confess immediately he asked him about his girlfriend. That shows that he was hiding something.

Knowing that this lady is his elder brothers girlfriend, why couldn't he control himself? So his excuse for having sex with his brothers girlfriend is down to her dressing? Oh please! The desire will definitely be there, but there is nothing forcing you to satisfy it.

I think your friend has to think about it. He has been with this lady for two years. Has she been unfaithful in the past? Could she possibly create this story from no where? Could she intentionally want to cause confusion within the family?

I don't advice him to leave this lady. It took so much out of her to confess. She needs him now more than ever before. I know its going to be hard for him, but this is a test for the relationship. He needs to be wise

KingTom:
Are you not the lady in question?

marieolae:
lol I'm not

Emyben:
The brother has no right to do that. Irrespective of the fact that this issue now involves family, i blame the brother. For Gods sake, this is your brothers girlfriend!!!! This is no time for blame tho, he can accept the girl back but what of the stigma? the ensuing hatred of the girl to the brother? .
My advice is that if the relationship can be devold of hatred, they should get back together but a in scenario where the memory of the incident will always manifest in various negative ways, they should call it quit. The future will always be brighter for each party. #mycontribution

KingTom:
With too frowny faces you still typed lol?

marieolae:
yess

KingTom:
Are you not the lady in question?

ALKARULEZ615:
I fink she iz

KingTom:
Hmmmmmmmmmmm

marieolae:
Hmmm honestly this is tough.

This girl was obviously traumatised. She left her boyfriends house for a reason. It affected her. Then again, his younger brother didn't confess immediately he asked him about his girlfriend. That shows that he was hiding something.

Knowing that this lady is his elder brothers girlfriend, why couldn't he control himself? So his excuse for having sex with his brothers girlfriend is down to her dressing? Oh please! The desire will definitely be there, but there is nothing forcing you to satisfy it.

I think your friend has to think about it. He has been with this lady for two years. Has she been unfaithful in the past? Could she possibly create this story from no where? Could she intentionally want to cause confusion within the family?

I don't advice him to leave this lady. It took so much out of her to confess. She needs him now more than ever before. I know its going to be hard for him, but this is a test for the relationship. He needs to be wise

chibwike:
Calm down.....i posted that outta annoyance on the girls part......i guess i didn't say the right thing.

The post has been edited..

Dont be too quick, to pounce on my sisters,.

Its not the right thing to do

Outta annoyance Are you the accused?
Saying someone deserved to be whatever it is isn't the right thing to pop out..
I didn't pounce on your sisters. It could be anyone.

Rape can never be justified.. Irrespective of the situation

dechandel:
Outta annoyance Are you the accused?
Saying someone deserved to be whatever it is isn't the right thing to pop out..
I didn't pounce on your sisters. It could be anyone.

Rape can never be justified.. Irrespective of the situation

naijaboiy:
You are right. But it's going to be difficult for him to face her again cos he would still be feeling hurt. I think that's the major problem.

chibwike:
Lol..am not pained...am just trying to let you knw that your comment was harsh....lets learn to appreciate people's effort

iceberylin:
Who broke our Mr Nlanders heart

iceberylin:
Who broke our Mr Nlanders heart

naijaboiy:
yea I think his brother is guilty of this.

But the problem now is abandoning his own brother. Someone said something about 'family first'