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A Nairalander To Nairalanders: Please Save My Relationship With A Nairalander by latino2swt(m): 9:11pm On Jul 25, 2014 |
This is a true life story... Not from/about a friend, a brother or a classmate but about myself and my life. There is this girl(a Nairalander) I love with everything within, outside and around me. We are from the same State but different Local Government Area. I and her elder sister attended the same school. I met her during the December vacation of 2010/2011 academic session. After much persuasion, persistence and with the help of my good friend who was close to her, she granted me audience. We talked and became casual friends thereafter. Febuary 2011, I proposed but her reaction though pre-assumed did not go well with me. As a man, i gathered courage and launched yet but another failed attempt same month. March same year saw hat-trick of proposal turned down again. My senior on detecting my mood inquired to know what's up. Wholeheartedly, I told him everything. Contrary to what I assumed would be his reaction he laughed and said, 'kid bro, in life good things comes in a challenging way and don't try to prove a point that to be a man is a day's job'. I agreed within me to make a final attempt. I did, this time 'please talk something else' was the reply. Was that really my final attempt? NO! I called daily for six more months telling her that same old story and receiveing that same old feedback. October 2011, I found my joy. Anytime my phone beeped, I smiled because she was always the one. My life was never the same again. It was then I confirmed that patience though bitter comes with a sweet fruit. Sincerely, I was uplifted physically, morally, emotionally, academically and health-wise. My life was never the same. Unfortunately, what I have been seeing in Nollywood movies happened in September 2012. Without any quarrel or attempted quarrel, things fell apart. Though it torn me apart, I remained focused. I considered it a battle I must win or die trying. Why? Because I couldn't imagine myself telling another person other than Mm...n YES I DO in the altar when it's time. I fought with all available means to refix my ever-valued relationship. People were insulted along the way. I can still remember I kept a very good friend at arm's length for telling me that 'while waiting for the desireable, there is nothing wrong moving on with the availables till the desireable is available'. I only forgave him in April 2013 when we(I and my Precious) found out that we were made for each other. Life was worth living again but recently(last week to be precise), I sensed something better imagined than experience may happen. She doesn't call nor text again. I can observe a slight deviation from the way we used to speak on phone. Our latest 2go conversation ended this way: Latino: Precious, I love u passionately Mm..n: thanks but i don't have time for love matter now. I sincerely love her, this she knows. Since our first meeting in 2010, no matter how intelligent, good-looking, nice, caring, loving etc a girl is, my inner man always tell me 'Yours is 100% better'. Nairaland n Nairalanders, I strongly believe ur kind words, advice and encouragement can save my relationship. She is one of us(an active nairalander). She will certainly see/read this, Please let her see reasons to leave the part-time friends stuff and embrace reality. Please LET IT BE BECAUSE OF U, LET IT NOT BE BECAUSE OF U. Let it be because of u my joy is complete. Let it not be because of u it move from bad to worst. I believe in the power of your words even as I remain focus in the words of an English author Alan Alexander Milne, 'Rivers know this: there is no hurry, we shall get there some day' Thanks my fellow ever-caring Nairalanders... 53 Likes |
Re: A Nairalander To Nairalanders: Please Save My Relationship With A Nairalander by Decibel: 9:12pm On Jul 25, 2014 |
Brb 2 Likes |
Re: A Nairalander To Nairalanders: Please Save My Relationship With A Nairalander by Afrok(m): 9:30pm On Jul 25, 2014 |
Chai... Love is sweet ooo 19 Likes |
Re: A Nairalander To Nairalanders: Please Save My Relationship With A Nairalander by Ab025(m): 9:32pm On Jul 25, 2014 |
Dude, u can drag a horse to the water, but u can't force it to drink water. From ur story, u are the one forcing urself on this gal, she really aint into u. The luv seems one-sided. Stop actin like a pu**y who is beggin for luv. Move on, not every r/ship is meant to work. #seems u just entered that hell place all guys hate << FRIENDZONE>> 268 Likes |
Re: A Nairalander To Nairalanders: Please Save My Relationship With A Nairalander by LogoDWhiz(m): 9:37pm On Jul 25, 2014 |
Okay.. From: Logodwhiz To: The Nairalander in question Cc: latino2swt The above thread topic matter refers. I saw a thread on Nairaland from a Nairalander called latini2swt, asking us to tell u how much he loves u. Well, from what the guy has said, he truly loves u despite all your forming, and d hard challenges u deliberately or indelibrately gave him. He was able to overcome it and prove that he loves u. It will be hard for you to find someone like him.. U might be undergoing a hard time, or u feel the relationship is boring maybe he is too soft and he make things go your way. In respect to the former, u have to let him in on it, tell him about it, a problem half shared is half solved. In respect to the latter, u have to set your priorities straight, this guy truly loves u, u may be thinking he is a sisi, but its all for d good. Tell him and make him see things.. I believe u two are good for each other.. Since I don't really know much about the relationship, so I am making this comment based on what I saw and also from similar experiences.. I sincerely wish u resolve this issue quickly and be back together.. Thanks in anticipation for listening to my advice and resolving the issue.. Thanks.. Yours faithfully Logodwhiz 95 Likes 1 Share |
Re: A Nairalander To Nairalanders: Please Save My Relationship With A Nairalander by Nobody: 9:38pm On Jul 25, 2014 |
The End? 7 Likes |
Re: A Nairalander To Nairalanders: Please Save My Relationship With A Nairalander by LogoDWhiz(m): 9:40pm On Jul 25, 2014 |
Ceasar1: The End? Lol. Update loading. |
Re: A Nairalander To Nairalanders: Please Save My Relationship With A Nairalander by theplanmaker: 9:57pm On Jul 25, 2014 |
tell us her moniker 10 Likes |
Re: A Nairalander To Nairalanders: Please Save My Relationship With A Nairalander by Nobody: 10:00pm On Jul 25, 2014 |
LogoDWhiz: Vote Of Thanks. Okay. Still though, special thanks to ‘Love’ for making this story possible and to the ‘Girl’ for her continues rejectance. Also special thanks goes to the ‘OP’ for falling for the wrong girl and also to NL and Seuun for providing the platform. *Drops Mic * FIN. 48 Likes |
Re: A Nairalander To Nairalanders: Please Save My Relationship With A Nairalander by talk2cj08(m): 10:06pm On Jul 25, 2014 |
Bro be a man love is not one sided. In my father's word my son never u beg for LOVE 66 Likes |
Re: A Nairalander To Nairalanders: Please Save My Relationship With A Nairalander by Nobody: 10:08pm On Jul 25, 2014 |
aaawww....dos words were just too sweet....babe,pls wereva u r ...try n reconsider our broda....or if u think d relatnship might b headn for d stone,try n make im understnd d reason y u cant b togeda........am evryone will b happy 20 Likes |
Re: A Nairalander To Nairalanders: Please Save My Relationship With A Nairalander by mascot87(m): 10:21pm On Jul 25, 2014 |
kids scattered all over NL 83 Likes |
Re: A Nairalander To Nairalanders: Please Save My Relationship With A Nairalander by ebamma(m): 10:25pm On Jul 25, 2014 |
If u been don already knack am no worry too much she go come back to base one day 11 Likes |
Re: A Nairalander To Nairalanders: Please Save My Relationship With A Nairalander by latino2swt(m): 10:27pm On Jul 25, 2014 |
LogoDWhiz: Okay.. what more can i say than to say thank u... Thanks 4 being part of my soon-to-be success story. |
Re: A Nairalander To Nairalanders: Please Save My Relationship With A Nairalander by latino2swt(m): 10:31pm On Jul 25, 2014 |
Ceasar1: for a wrong girl? U'l make a good reader, counselor n special adviser so to say. Thanks boss 3 Likes |
Re: A Nairalander To Nairalanders: Please Save My Relationship With A Nairalander by latino2swt(m): 10:33pm On Jul 25, 2014 |
mascot87: kids scattered all over NL kpam! Kids everywia... Kids dat don't knw d reasons 4 existence of Nairaland nor d benefit of being a Nairalander... Lol 12 Likes |
Re: A Nairalander To Nairalanders: Please Save My Relationship With A Nairalander by latino2swt(m): 10:40pm On Jul 25, 2014 |
talk2cj08: Bro be a man love is not one sided. In my father's word my son never u beg for LOVE hmmmm... Begging is out of it. One sided? Nope... She does but to let it out is a p. 2 Likes |
Re: A Nairalander To Nairalanders: Please Save My Relationship With A Nairalander by latino2swt(m): 10:45pm On Jul 25, 2014 |
temigracie: aaawww....dos words were just too sweet....babe,pls wereva u r ...try n reconsider our broda....or if u think d relatnship might b headn for d stone,try n make im understnd d reason y u cant b togeda........am evryone will b happy thanks 4 ur concern. Prayerfully, d storm wil b over. I'm hers |
Re: A Nairalander To Nairalanders: Please Save My Relationship With A Nairalander by latino2swt(m): 10:51pm On Jul 25, 2014 |
Ab025: Dude, u can drag a horse to the water, but u can't force it to drink water. but d funny fact is why i've made up my mind 2 live in d hell... Proverbs 30:18-19 |
Re: A Nairalander To Nairalanders: Please Save My Relationship With A Nairalander by Tallesty1(m): 10:51pm On Jul 25, 2014 |
@Op, how heavy is your wallet? Let's start from there. 54 Likes |
Re: A Nairalander To Nairalanders: Please Save My Relationship With A Nairalander by mencade5(m): 10:56pm On Jul 25, 2014 |
drops pot of palm oil rice from the fire. Op, u are forcing urself on her. Whether she is here or not i will still tell you the truth. Give a break of one month or two. If things doesnt work out then u people are not meant for each other. 15 Likes |
Re: A Nairalander To Nairalanders: Please Save My Relationship With A Nairalander by Suresh08: 10:57pm On Jul 25, 2014 |
ur whinnying because of one girl na food have got girls spinning outta my ear send me a pm and get one for free 2 Likes |
Re: A Nairalander To Nairalanders: Please Save My Relationship With A Nairalander by mencade5(m): 11:05pm On Jul 25, 2014 |
Decibel: Brbmake u do come back ooo. Hahahaha op, ur gal is fvcking another dude's deeek real hard. I go always tell u true. You do hattrick of propose? U no dey shame? Na only she be woman? Make i tell you something, i left my girlfriend, very beautiful girl with correct yansh wey people dey die for. Why? She think say if she no dey i go die. For where? I dump her before she know. Now na another chick i dey with. Up till today my babe no believe her eyes. Make u stop to dey disgrace men jor. Do the right thing. U don try, take break small. If she no miss you, then find your way. 113 Likes |
Re: A Nairalander To Nairalanders: Please Save My Relationship With A Nairalander by Decibel: 11:07pm On Jul 25, 2014 |
mencade5: make u do come back ooo. Hahahaha 21 Likes |
Re: A Nairalander To Nairalanders: Please Save My Relationship With A Nairalander by Nobody: 11:11pm On Jul 25, 2014 |
Quit.......honest advise. She will only pity u. Not love u. 26 Likes |
Re: A Nairalander To Nairalanders: Please Save My Relationship With A Nairalander by valdes00(m): 11:12pm On Jul 25, 2014 |
Am nt matured enough to reply to this, so am out... 12 Likes |
Re: A Nairalander To Nairalanders: Please Save My Relationship With A Nairalander by barackodam: 11:15pm On Jul 25, 2014 |
Bbl |
Re: A Nairalander To Nairalanders: Please Save My Relationship With A Nairalander by Nobody: 11:17pm On Jul 25, 2014 |
valdes00: Am nt matured enough to reply to this, so am out...U finished urself by urself 21 Likes |
Re: A Nairalander To Nairalanders: Please Save My Relationship With A Nairalander by Nobody: 11:21pm On Jul 25, 2014 |
Re: A Nairalander To Nairalanders: Please Save My Relationship With A Nairalander by valdes00(m): 11:38pm On Jul 25, 2014 |
runzlord:Well, dats ur opinion... Oya clap 4 ya self 1 Like |
Re: A Nairalander To Nairalanders: Please Save My Relationship With A Nairalander by spikesC(m): 11:58pm On Jul 25, 2014 |
latino2swt: while waiting for the desireable, there is nothing wrong moving on with the availables till the desireable is available I don't know why but this got me laughing real hard Maybe cos i got a very close friend who is always on like this 4 Likes |
Re: A Nairalander To Nairalanders: Please Save My Relationship With A Nairalander by TRADELYN: 4:53am On Jul 26, 2014 |
KiV! . . . . . . . . #Mencade5 has spoken *In search of rigarmortis * |
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