₦airaland Forum

Welcome, Guest: RegisterLoginWith GoogleTrendingRecentNew

Stats: 3,327,126 members, 8,429,460 topics. Date: Thursday, 18 June 2026 at 10:27 PM

Toggle theme

Double Standards (men & Women) - Romance - Nairaland

Nairaland ForumNairaland GeneralRomanceDouble Standards (men & Women) (5319 Views)

1 2 3 4 Reply (Go Down)

Double Standards (men & Women) by chibwike(op): 6:48pm On Dec 07, 2014
Good day everyone, hope you all having a nice day.

Well just for fun, i have been able to put together a list of double standards in relation to what men and women can get away with in the society.


Feel free to debate these and add more.

A divorced or single man is perceived as a loser, a single or divorced woman is seen as independent.

A woman can wear a man's cloth, jean trousers and the rest, but a man cannot wear even remotely revealing or feminine without being labelled gay.

An adult male still living with his parents is seen as a loser, while a woman still living with her parents is perceived as having strong family ties. Lol

A woman can join the army or work in a construction company, but a man who choose to be a hairdresser or nurse is seen as gay. Lol

A man on his own is feared and even seen as creepy or pedophile, but this isnt the case for a woman alone

An unnactractive woman can usually get dates, an unattractive man often cannot. Women control the dating world

Men are taught not to tallk about their feelings and have to bottle them up, while women are free to do the opposite.

Many men suffer domestic violence, but are still laughed at or treated with disbelief, if they do go to the police, or try to seek help.



I dont have women oh, and i believe in equality for all human beings.

Once again, its just for fun, ladies defend yourselves.

Guys add more points,if you wish.


Let just have fun jare.


Good evening.

Source
Research.
Re: Double Standards (men & Women) by Nobody: 6:50pm On Dec 07, 2014
Lolz..add more?
I fit add mine now,some ladies go eat me raw..

Chibikez..Hapi sunday
Re: Double Standards (men & Women) by BreezyRita(f):
How bout this??
A successful and independent single woman is most times termed bad, haughty, proud. Perceived to be the reason she's unmarried. But a man with all these qualities is seen as taking his time before settling down. No mention of his bad traits.

Or how a husband can cheat as much as he wants and nothing will be said about it. A wife cheats?? She's on every social network!

#Coming
Re: Double Standards (men & Women) by Dotwillis1(m): 6:56pm On Dec 07, 2014
FACEBUK. *Guy changes his p. picture* 2days ago, 6likes

*Girl changes her p.picture* just now, 30 likes
Re: Double Standards (men & Women) by naijaboiy: 6:56pm On Dec 07, 2014
SuperMartins:
Lolz..add more?
I fit add mine now,some ladies go eat me raw..

Chibikez..Hapi sunday
Bros shey you dey fear them huh
Re: Double Standards (men & Women) by Nobody: 6:58pm On Dec 07, 2014
naijaboiy:
Bros shey you dey fear them huh
Oboi..them many here when ready swallow me.. But belyk u fit swallow anytin so u no get wahala my guy.. carry on grin
Re: Double Standards (men & Women) by naijaboiy: 7:01pm On Dec 07, 2014
Girls believe they deserve all the attention from men,,in fact some of them feed on it. If their man asks for a little show of love from them,,he is seen as too emotional undecided

Girls will rain curses on a guy and may even slap him,,but if a guy should retaliate he's seen as someone who's not a 'real man'

BULLSHIT...
angry
Re: Double Standards (men & Women) by Nobody: 7:03pm On Dec 07, 2014
Chibwike you are wrong.
Women are not allowed to talk about their feelings even on internet unlike Men.

Any female monikers to post erøtic comment on sexuality sections will be suspected as a guy. undecided
Re: Double Standards (men & Women) by naijaboiy: 7:05pm On Dec 07, 2014
SuperMartins:
Oboi..them many here when ready swallow me.. But belyk u fit swallow anytin so u no get wahala my guy.. carry on grin
Guy leave that thing...
Re: Double Standards (men & Women) by chibwike(op): 7:06pm On Dec 07, 2014
VickyyB:
Chibwike you are wrong.
Women are not allowed to talk about their feelings even on internet unlike Men.

Any female monikers to post erøtic comment on sexuality sections will be suspected as a guy. undecided
Ok...noted
Re: Double Standards (men & Women) by Nobody: 7:07pm On Dec 07, 2014
naijaboiy:
Girls believe they deserve all the attention from men,,in fact some of them feed on it. If their man asks for a little show of love from them,,he is seen as too emotional undecided

Girls will rain curses on a guy and may even slap him,,but if a guy should retaliate he's seen as someone who's not a 'real man'

BULLSHIT...
angry
the world we live in.
Re: Double Standards (men & Women) by Nobody: 7:08pm On Dec 07, 2014
If a girl fantasize about having 3somes with two hot gay guys, she will be cursed and insulted but guys fantasize about getting lesbo in a 3some.

If a girl have 6boyfriends, she will be called a slùt but a man will call himself a player.

Guys believe they cannot be virgin and a girl must be. Una dey fùck animals? shocked
Re: Double Standards (men & Women) by Nobody: 7:08pm On Dec 07, 2014
naijaboiy:
Girls believe they deserve all the attention from men,,in fact some of them feed on it. If their man asks for a little show of love from them,,he is seen as too emotional undecided

Girls will rain curses on a guy and may even slap him,,but if a guy should retaliate he's seen as someone who's not a 'real man'

BULLSHIT...
angry
You dey vex sha..Easy man..
Re: Double Standards (men & Women) by naijaboiy: 7:10pm On Dec 07, 2014
VickyyB:
Chibwike you are wrong.
Women are not allowed to talk about their feelings even on internet unlike Men.
is there anyone restricting you people from expressing your feelings on line? huh I've seen many ladies do it,,iono about you undecided

Any female monikers to post erøtic comment on sexuality sections will be suspected as a guy. undecided
well that's because most ladies are not comfortable talking about their sexuality in public. So if the few bold ones come on there,,it would be hard to believe that it's actually a lady using that account.

Many Nl ladies go to the sexuality sections as guests,,even notable online personalities cheesy
Re: Double Standards (men & Women) by naijaboiy: 7:12pm On Dec 07, 2014
AgapeCharis:
the world we live in.
Mehn that world is shitty...and not every Man is in it.
Re: Double Standards (men & Women) by chibwike(op): 7:12pm On Dec 07, 2014
VickyyB:
If a girl fantasize about having 3somes with two hot gay guys, she will be cursed and insulted but guys fantasize about getting lesbo in a 3some.

If a girl have 6boyfriends, she will be called a slùt but a man will call himself a player.

Guys believe they cannot be virgin and a girl must be. Una dey fùck animals? shocked
easy dear...no be fight....and try to censor 'f' word
Re: Double Standards (men & Women) by Nobody: 7:14pm On Dec 07, 2014
Chibwike, I don't see any double standard in a guy putting on skirt and would be called gay.

No girl gives an eff about him. Na una fellow guy go insult am. cheesy
Re: Double Standards (men & Women) by naijaboiy: 7:14pm On Dec 07, 2014
SuperMartins:
You dey vex sha..Easy man..
i dey talk am as the thing dey pain me angry
Re: Double Standards (men & Women) by Nobody: 7:16pm On Dec 07, 2014
naijaboiy:
is there anyone restricting you people from expressing your feelings on line? huh I've seen many ladies do it,,iono about you undecided


Many Nl ladies go to the sexuality sections as guests,,even notable online personalities cheesy
Speak for yourself.
I don't go there as guest.
I dont know abou' you. undecided
Re: Double Standards (men & Women) by Adaeze003(f): 7:17pm On Dec 07, 2014
VickyyB:
If a girl fantasize about having 3somes with two hot gay guys, she will be cursed and insulted but guys fantasize about getting lesbo in a 3some.

If a girl have 6boyfriends, she will be called a slùt but a man will call himself a player.

Guys believe they cannot be virgin and a girl must be. Una dey fùck animals? shocked
Dies!!!
Re: Double Standards (men & Women) by naijaboiy: 7:19pm On Dec 07, 2014
VickyyB:
Speak for yourself.
I don't go there as guest.
I dont know abou' you. undecided
What are you saying huh

Why do you take pride in thinking that anybody who quotes you wants to go on a bout with you undecided

I was talking about the female monikers which clearly i'm not...

Why are you so myopic in reasoning undecided

Gosh!!!
Re: Double Standards (men & Women) by chibwike(op): 7:21pm On Dec 07, 2014
VickyyB:
Chibwike, I don't see any double standard in a guy putting on skirt and would be called gay.

No girl gives an eff about him. Na una fellow guy go insult am. cheesy
You dont seem to get my point....Let be realistic here...its abnormal for a guy to put on skirt and walk on the road...buh its very normal for a girl to wear trousers and jean..

A girl can wear, all stars canvass, a supra. And some male foot wears, buh a guy dare not wear an high-heel shoe. Lol,. Wetin we go call am.


Dats the double standards am talking about.
Re: Double Standards (men & Women) by Nobody: 7:22pm On Dec 07, 2014
naijaboiy:
What are you saying huh

Why do you take pride in thinking that anybody who quotes you wants to go on a bout with you undecided

I was talking about the female monikers which clearly i'm not...

Why are you so myopic in reasoning undecided

Gosh!!!
STFU! angry
Re: Double Standards (men & Women) by Oahray: 7:25pm On Dec 07, 2014
Op this is not all true...

- A single man is a hot cake and can settle when he likes without much pressure, a single woman would be pestered by family and friends to make her life 'meaningful' before her time passes.

- Unnactractive men get more dates than unnactractive women, especially when they have money, since men usually make the first move. Many men would refuse to see beyond a lady's looks, much less go after her.

It's a world of double standards, and it goes both ways.
Re: Double Standards (men & Women) by BreezyRita(f): 7:28pm On Dec 07, 2014
naijaboiy:
What are you saying huh
Why do you take pride in thinking that anybody who quotes you wants to go on a bout with you undecided
I was talking about the female monikers which clearly i'm not...
Why are you so myopic in reasoning undecided
Gosh!!!
naijaboiy:
i dey talk am as the thing dey pain me angry
Who vexed you??

Easy please....
Re: Double Standards (men & Women) by Nobody: 7:32pm On Dec 07, 2014
naijaboiy:
Mehn that world is shitty...and not every Man is in it.
we all live in it directly or indirectly.
Re: Double Standards (men & Women) by naijaboiy: 7:32pm On Dec 07, 2014
VickyyB:
STFU! angry
Common sense ain't common After all undecided
Re: Double Standards (men & Women) by naijaboiy: 7:34pm On Dec 07, 2014
Oahray:
Op this is not all true...

- A single man is a hot cake and can settle when he likes without much pressure, a single woman would be pestered by family and friends to make her life 'meaningful' before her time passes.

- Unnactractive men get more dates than unnactractive women, especially when they have money, since men usually make the first move. Many men would refuse to see beyond a lady's looks, much less go after her.

It's a world of double standards, and it goes both ways.
Very true
Re: Double Standards (men & Women) by Oahray: 7:35pm On Dec 07, 2014
Naijaboiy... Be nice, or at least pretend to. You are Mr NL sad
Re: Double Standards (men & Women) by Nobody: 7:35pm On Dec 07, 2014
naijaboiy:
Common sense ain't common After all undecided
Ode!
Re: Double Standards (men & Women) by naijaboiy: 7:36pm On Dec 07, 2014
BreezyRita:
Who vexed you??

Easy please....
Nobody vexed me,,that lady just doesn't know how to reason sometimes undecided
Re: Double Standards (men & Women) by Nobody: 7:36pm On Dec 07, 2014
naijaboiy:
Girls believe they deserve all the attention from men,,in fact some of them feed on it. If their man asks for a little show of love from them,,he is seen as too emotional undecided

Girls will rain curses on a guy and may even slap him,,but if a guy should retaliate he's seen as someone who's not a 'real man'

BULLSHIT...
angry
tongue
1 2 3 4 Reply

Why The Double Standards When It Comes To Sex?Types Of Men Women Should Date234

How Accurate Is Urine Pregnancy TestWhen You Catch Her Staring At You (say THIS)DJ Kidd Infected About 600 Young Black Women With HIV