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The whole internet has been spammed with stale 'jokes' of how women change after marriage! Like - she snores on the bed, she farts anyhow, she doesn't shave her legs or armpit, she doesn't dress to kill again, bla bla bla and so on!
Some men even say its because of reasons like this they cheat on their wives or some even divorce them!

So I want to ask, don't men also change after marriage? Why isn't there any war for men to stop changing?

Nobody changes after marriage because they are married. They only ditch the camouflage. Where they weren't faking, they just fine tune who they really are.

Relatively, men dont change.

LewsTherin:
Nobody changes after marriage because they are married. They only ditch the camouflage. Where they weren't faking, they just fine tune who they really are.

.. and some have very good camouflage.

.. I know this lady that got married to a very "humble" man shortly after the marriage he was posted to the North and would always come home with several officers during the lunch break to eat pounded yam. One day the wife told him she could not cope with pounding such quantity every day, he said nothing. In the evening he took the wife for a drive into the desert. He stopped and wanted to go for a walk . a short distance from the road he pulled his gun and told the woman it he could kill her and leave the corpse there.
.. it was a privilege to have a husband when many where looking for one. A privilage to have a husband to cook for. She had to thank him for eating her food. Asked her to get on her knees and beg...He then proceded to "read" out the new laws that would apply in the home...

mutter:
.. and some have very good camouflage.

.. I know this lady that got married to a very "humble" man shortly after the marriage he was posted to the North and would always come home with several officers during the lunch break to eat pounded yam. One day the wife told him she could not cope with pounding such quantity every day, he said nothing. In the evening he took the wife for a drive into the desert. He stopped and wanted to go for a walk . a short distance from the road he pulled his gun and told the woman it he could kill her and leave the corpse there.
.. it was a privilege to have a husband when many where looking for one. A privilage to have a husband to cook for. She had to thank him for eating her food. Asked her to get on her knees and beg...He then proceded to "read" out the new laws that would apply in the home...

thats a gud one innit?

Who doesn't change after marriage. familiarity things

mutter:
.. and some have very good camouflage.

.. I know this lady that got married to a very "humble" man shortly after the marriage he was posted to the North and would always come home with several officers during the lunch break to eat pounded yam. One day the wife told him she could not cope with pounding such quantity every day, he said nothing. In the evening he took the wife for a drive into the desert. He stopped and wanted to go for a walk . a short distance from the road he pulled his gun and told the woman it he could kill her and leave the corpse there.
.. it was a privilege to have a husband when many where looking for one. A privilage to have a husband to cook for. She had to thank him for eating her food. Asked her to get on her knees and beg...He then proceded to "read" out the new laws that would apply in the home...

now this is scary

Men change after marriage too, dey become boss... Unquestionable.

Everyone changes

mutter:
.. and some have very good camouflage.

.. I know this lady that got married to a very "humble" man shortly after the marriage he was posted to the North and would always come home with several officers during the lunch break to eat pounded yam. One day the wife told him she could not cope with pounding such quantity every day, he said nothing. In the evening he took the wife for a drive into the desert. He stopped and wanted to go for a walk . a short distance from the road he pulled his gun and told the woman it he could kill her and leave the corpse there.
.. it was a privilege to have a husband when many where looking for one. A privilage to have a husband to cook for. She had to thank him for eating her food. Asked her to get on her knees and beg...He then proceded to "read" out the new laws that would apply in the home...

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joecooper:
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Sometimes reality is more bizarre than fiction.
Most women do not speak up because they are ashamed and because it is hard to comprehend how they put up with it.
I do wish that most women would have the courage to speak out.

Anyway after that day the woman had to serve him his food on her knees and kneel down and attend to him till he finished eating, during which time he would give his sermon after the meal she had to thank him.

He controlled her movement and banned her friends. Sometimes when she went to work or shopping he would trail her. He sometimes sporadically would insist on controlling her undies and her to see if she had been with another man.
He was also very abusive verbally and physically.

Also know this woman who married a normal well doing man and everything was okay apart from the man wanting the woman to wear high heels in bed. After some years in the marriage the man refused to sleep with her because he wanted A-- S--. The woman was not willing so they spent years like that. What I don`t know is how they have resolved it now.

breadandtea:
The whole internet has been spammed with stale 'jokes' of how women change after marriage! Like - she snores on the bed, she farts anyhow, she doesn't shave her legs or armpit, she doesn't dress to kill again, bla bla bla and so on!
Some men even say its because of reasons like this they cheat on their wives or some even divorce them!

So I want to ask, don't men also change after marriage? Why isn't there any war for men to stop changing?

The change thing is only by effort and self discipline
But if its for the ones you mentioned the lady must have beening farting and all before and maybe she wasn't really the I NEED to LOOK good type else she won't stop the make up and all. What ever charcter you notice in a guy or lady after marriage had been there all this while or came up as a result of laziness and negligence but all odd habits can go with time if attention is given to make them go

YES! BLACK MEN ALL OVER THE WORLD!
For the WORSE! They become IJJJIOTS!
Like anyone forced them into marriage!
Good news. . . IT CAN'T BE AVOIDED. . . .you have to show dem PEPPER. . .PLUS ONIONS!

Trust me ke. . . SOOOOOOOOOOOOO EQUAL TO THE TASK!
First to quench is the name of the game!
NO DIE-VORCE NECESSARY!

*writing from experience o*

KanwuliaJara:
YES! BLACK MEN ALL OVER THE WORLD!
For the WORSE! They become IJJJIOTS!
Like anyone forced them into marriage!
Good news. . . IT CAN'T BE AVOIDED. . . .you have to show dem PEPPER. . .PLUS ONIONS!
Trust me ke. . . SOOOOOOOOOOOOO EQUAL TO THE TASK!
First to quench is the name of the game!
NO DIE-VORCE NECESSARY!
*writing from experience o*

..experience and bitterness. I just don`t understand how a black woman can express herself with so much disrespect for black men

mutter:
..experience and bitterness. I just don`t understand how a black woman can express herself with so much disrespect for black men

Errrrrrm!
Nor be who get 'BLACK MAN' for house fit discuss about 'BLACK MEN'?
Please, I have 17 years of bitterness to show for my marriage o!
Please, wish me a 'happy' anniversary today!
My and the husband are gonna phock till day break!
. . . Then the bitterness continues!

Where is YOUR OWN BLACK MAN?
Or are you a 'baby mommy'?


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JatEMd286eM

Happy anniversary and a good whatever all night. I wish you more nights like that.

my own black man LOL. He exists!

mutter:
Sometimes reality is more bizarre than fiction.
Most women do not speak up because they are ashamed and because it is hard to comprehend how they put up with it.
I do wish that most women would have the courage to speak out.

Anyway after that day the woman had to serve him his food on her knees and kneel down and attend to him till he finished eating, during which time he would give his sermon after the meal she had to thank him.

He controlled her movement and banned her friends. Sometimes when she went to work or shopping he would trail her. He sometimes sporadically would insist on controlling her undies and her to see if she had been with another man.
He was also very abusive verbally and physically.

Also know this woman who married a normal well doing man and everything was okay apart from the man wanting the woman to wear high heels in bed. After some years in the marriage the man refused to sleep with her because he wanted A-- S--. The woman was not willing so they spent years like that. What I don`t know is how they have resolved it now.

but from the look of things as you ve narrated here, she obviously on some dummy voodoo cos in this modern day....no lady is ready to be a slave to no man.... Even to an extent of controlling her undies... Men that's d height of it. She had betta get a brain before somethn crazy happens to her.