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. by LaurelP(op): 12:54pm On Dec 15, 2014*

Re: . by justmag(m): 12:59pm On Dec 15, 2014

I rather stay single if I can't do both

Re: . by Beennkumar(m): 1:00pm On Dec 15, 2014

Both parties must love each other.

Anything besides this is a fake relationship, and sooner or later, its negative effects would be felt.

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Re: . by olexjay(m): 1:03pm On Dec 15, 2014

This isn't the issue of bf/gf or dating its a matter of marriage.

To have a successful home you must love and be loved in return and not to love someone and thinking you gonna work things out by forcing him/her to love you back..... TO LOVE AND BE LOVED BACK.

Re: . by Nobody: 1:06pm On Dec 15, 2014

There is always someone that love more in a relationship. I can be that person but this is just different. I rather stay single. Or wait.

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Re: . by STENON(f): 1:09pm On Dec 15, 2014

Someone I love.

Re: . by adebayour26: 1:39pm On Dec 15, 2014

STENON:
Someone I love.

What if u love the person and he's just pouring out the Love somewhere else?

Re: . by LaurelP(op): 1:43pm On Dec 15, 2014

Beennkumar:
Both parties must love each other.

Equally?

Re: . by guardian09(m): 1:51pm On Dec 15, 2014

LaurelP:
If you have to choose between marrying someone you love so much, and someone who loves you so much. Whom would you choose?

Someone is currently in this dilemma and I need to advise the person. Pls give reasons for your choice.
Thanks

It depends on his/her reason for loving one person more than the other...before making a choice of a life partner for me it goes beyond love,where do you see yourself with either of the "partners" in five,ten years,which of them has added more value to your life since knowing them and some other things,...but by the way not that its any of my business why double date?

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Re: . by STENON(f): 1:58pm On Dec 15, 2014

adebayour26:
What if u love the person and he's just pouring out the Love somewhere else?

Hmmmmmm...........The most painful thing in Life is seeing the one you Love, Loving another Person.

Re: . by ellechrystal(f): 1:58pm On Dec 15, 2014

LaurelP:
If you have to choose between marrying someone you love so much, and someone who loves you so much. Whom would you choose?

Someone is currently in this dilemma and I need to advise the person. Pls give reasons for your choice.
Thanks

Am sure u r d one in d dilemma else u wouldn't bring it to Nairaland. grin

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Re: . by LaurelP(op): 2:02pm On Dec 15, 2014

ellechrystal:
Am sure u r d one in d dilemma else u wouldn't bring it to Nairaland.

Lolz
Ur wrong
Oya which wud u choose?

Re: . by ellechrystal(f): 2:07pm On Dec 15, 2014

LaurelP:
Lolz
Ur wrong
Oya which wud u choose?

Someone who loves me so much.. tongue

Re: . by 1one: 2:43pm On Dec 15, 2014

This question is similar to the "between the devil and the deep blue sea" line... If you choose the deep blue sea, what's to tell that you would be saved by a random ship before you drown, but if you choose the devil, atleast God can can still deliver you.

I think being with someone you don't love is just plain torture... (deep blue sea)

I don't exactly "know" what it means to be in love but I know how I care for my two best buddies, and I'm sure being in love is waaaaay deeper than that... So I'd prefer to be with someone I love... It's more soothing, better fulfilling, loving someone satisfies that inate desire in every body to give attention, time and value to someone/something else

So yep.. It's better to love than to be loved.

Re: . by Beennkumar(m): 2:52pm On Dec 15, 2014

LaurelP:
Equally?

Not really. Someone will always love more than the other.

Re: . by Nobody: 2:54pm On Dec 15, 2014

Like my mum has advised me several times its better for a lady to marry someone who loves her to someone she loves but will be best if they love each other because we ladies tend to grow affection more easily when we live with a man than the other way round and guys don't sincerely love easily so if they don't love you from the start it won't be easy to get their love when married no matter how much you love him .

Re: . by Metasophia(f): 2:56pm On Dec 15, 2014

;DSomeone that loves me so much that will love me so much and that his so much love will make my love love him so much. If you understand what that means.

Further explanation:Just the way someones laugh makes ur laugh laugh .
Thats d way his love will make my love love. LoL

Re: . by Infomizer(m): 3:09pm On Dec 15, 2014

A lucky man marries the woman he loves, a luckier man loves the woman he marries (Applies to women too)...

#GoFigure

Re: . by FLAWLES(f): 3:10pm On Dec 15, 2014

Mehn;;;;;looks like d Op bin reading my mind;;if am gon2 date aqn is sm1 who loves me(xame for marriage)

Re: . by prettyjo(f): 3:26pm On Dec 15, 2014

someone I love

Re: . by corisande: 3:32pm On Dec 15, 2014

I'll love for his love to be more

Re: . by Maamin(m): 3:36pm On Dec 15, 2014

Damn! This popcorn is sweet! grin

Re: . by adebayour26: 4:00pm On Dec 15, 2014

STENON:
Hmmmmmm...........The most painful thing in Life is seeing the one you Love, Loving another Person.

Exactly, that's my point

Re: . by LaurelP(op): 4:04pm On Dec 15, 2014

ellechrystal:
Someone who loves me so much..

**in a girl's voice**
I know you'd choose dat

Re: . by ellechrystal(f): 4:11pm On Dec 15, 2014

LaurelP:
**in a girl's voice**
I know you'd choose dat

Yea yea

Re: . by LaurelP(op): 4:26pm On Dec 15, 2014

ellechrystal:
Yea yea

I like ur nose
@Dp

Re: . by LaurelP(op): 4:28pm On Dec 15, 2014

Elantracey:
Like my mum has advised me several times its better for a lady to marry someone who loves her to someone she loves but will be best if they love each other because we ladies tend to grow affection more easily when we live with a man than the other way round and guys don't sincerely love easily so if they don't love you from the start it won't be easy to get their love when married no matter how much you love him .

You're saying dat u will not marry a man ur deeply in love with who doesn't love u as much?

Re: . by ellechrystal(f): 4:31pm On Dec 15, 2014

LaurelP:
I like ur nose
@Dp

Thanks dear

Re: . by Nobody: 4:33pm On Dec 15, 2014

LaurelP:
You're saying dat u will not marry a man ur deeply in love with who doesn't love u as much?

no way, I've dated one before and I know where it landed me .

Re: . by LaurelP(op): 4:34pm On Dec 15, 2014

ellechrystal:
Thanks dear

Add me up let's chart
Check my signature

Re: . by LaurelP(op): 4:35pm On Dec 15, 2014

FLAWLES:
Mehn;;;;;looks like d Op bin reading my mind;;if am gon2 date aqn is sm1 who loves me(xame for marriage)

So u can't marry a man whom u love deeply?

Re: . by LaurelP(op): 4:37pm On Dec 15, 2014

1one:
This question is similar to the "between the devil and the deep blue sea" line... If you choose the deep blue sea, what's to tell that you would be saved by a random ship before you drown, but if you choose the devil, atleast God can can still deliver you.

I think being with someone you don't love is just plain torture... (deep blue sea)

I don't exactly "know" what it means to be in love but I know how I care for my two best buddies, and I'm sure being in love is waaaaay deeper than that... So I'd prefer to be with someone I love... It's more soothing, better fulfilling, loving someone satisfies that inate desire in every body to give attention, time and value to someone/something else

So yep.. It's better to love than to be loved.

That's deep
But what if he doesn't love u that much?

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