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For me to be a man it's only when you realise that ur life is sacrificial! That you no longer exist once you are married! That you need to put everybody before ur self! That's ur wife and children should become the center of ur life!

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Good thread

Majority of what u hv written r all nonscence.... What does drinking n all dat hv to do with being a man...if u dnt knw wat to write jst g to bed

?.........huh......so it's basically how to be a man.....from a woman's point of view.....riiiiight. .

The op is a woman wrapper.

Anyway, here's my take on being a man:

1) Living up to your responsibilities
2) protecting and caring for your loved ones and probably dependents
3) being a firm but fair leader in and outside your home

Falling for every whims of a woman does NOT make you man. Probably a sissy with a mangina.

@Op I don hear you! All I know is that great men in history were no women wrappers so if you want me to be, sorry it's not possible! With all these attitudes some every day woman or babe will derail ur life! So my submission is be good to all women including ur spouse but don't be too emotional about all things that have to do with women!

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Doing all these for 9ja woman? she will end up taking you as mumu for love o! Cos don't be surprise when she call u hun! Pls can u help me to wash those plates while I do d cooking?.... You need this sense when dealing with 'em so guys needs to be careful with what u choose here and u need to discover if a woman is truly into you before u can spend ur last dime on her, no be this one wey you fall today ur wife go pack her belongings and go be second wife to ur friend, who lose? 9ja women ar good at this.

phinerd:
You are everywhere

Don't you know my surname.
my surname is MTN.

Everywhere you go

Am so inlove with number six

Dopeyomi:
Well a sign to sHow you're a Man is to knOw how to quote ah female with respect on Nairaland..



If tHis tOpic makes frOnt page tHen I'll modify tHe post #simple ewu

dopeyomi do u sing...

Tosinville:
Doing all these for 9ja woman? she will end up taking you as mumu for love o! Cos don't be surprise when she call u hun! Pls can u help me to wash those plates while I do d cooking?.... You need this sense when dealing with 'em so guys needs to be careful with what u choose here and u need to discover if a woman is truly into you before u can spend ur last dime on her, no be this one wey you fall today ur wife go pack her belongings and go be second wife to ur friend, who lose? 9ja women ar good at this.

Your logic is so skewed i can't even...... Just say you feel threatened by women

OP, this's not the definition of a man. It's the definition of a WOman.

OP doesn't even know that businesses are brokered over 'The Table of Men.' and acquaintances forged at viewing centres.

OP, are you sure you are a man?

and why is everything now centred around the lady?...so those that don"t have women in their lives yet aren"t qualified to be called men abi??

Stop all the long list.
You know you are now a man when you have a regular income and you can pay your bills regularly.
Any man who cannot pay his bills is a bomboy.

ocelot2006:
Anyway, here's my take on being a man:

1) Living up to your responsibilities
2) protecting and caring for your loved ones and probably dependents
3) being a firm but fair leader in and outside your home

Falling for every whims of a woman does NOT make you man. Probably a sissy with a mangina.

Why do you people always bring up this argument every time someone asks you to treat a woman well. No one is asking you to be a sissy, I don't even pray to marry a sissy. Stop feeling insecure pls.

Why is every of your points centered around the woman?
So in other words only when you please a woman can you be crowned a man?

Story for the God's the God's ooo. .

emusmith:
When do we actually call a male a MAN?


" When I was a child, I think like a child... when I became a MAN, I put away childish things"

Meaning, there are some things that when we put away, we become MEN indeed!


Below are 10 signs that differentiate you From a child...



1. You are faithful to one partner.

Only children say one thing and mean another.
If you vowed to remain faithful to her till death do you both part, then stick to your word.

A man is known by his words!


2. You don't stay out late.

Whatever excuse you may want to give is not worth it.
Is it football? Buy your own cable... Metro is not expensive na!

Drinking? Stop it sef!


3. He is thoughtful.

A real man plans ahead. He has it all figured out. Don't let your colleague be the one to remind you of your wife's birthday or anniversary.

Some men are too busy that they can't notice when their wife is going through stress at work. ... hmm.... E nor good!


4. You apologize relentlessly.

Stop forming KingKong, dat era don pass!
You offended and in your head is the school of thought that men don't apologize to women.

My guy, which planet are you from?


5. You talk less when your lady talks much.

Women are not only endowed at the back but also in their mouth.

When she is hurt, she will talk, but your reply should be in few sentences.

Two wrongs cannot make a right!


6. You are financially buoyant to take care of her needs.

How could I forget this?
You said, she is disrespectful. Start giving her money and see submission in action.

# I'm not referring those Recharge Card Beggers on Social Networks oo#

Women are designed to receive! Take it!

Giving her tells her you care for her...

how can you say you care and you've not a spent a penny on her?
Give her again and again and watch her pay attention to you and your dreams.. lol.

# nobody care how much you know until they know how much you care# QED!



7. You don't ever lay a finger on your wife.

Na Small small e dey start o...stop jokingly hitting ladies...

Beating your spouse is insanity!

You and her are One, beating her is beating yourself.
Who does that? An insane man.

Are you insane?


8. You appreciate her ceaselessly.

Your girl buys you a wrist watch and you don't really appreciate because you think it's your money, after all...hah!

No matter how "hard" a woman is, appreciation causes her to do more without complaining.

Complaining is a sign that you're not recognizing her efforts in the house.

You think she is an house wife? Wrong!

She wakes 4AM for school runs, then market, kitchen, washing, shop, school runs etc...

With appreciation, a woman can lick your feet. lol!

9. Sexually Active.

I didn't forget oooo
Orgasm is part of what makes sexx pleasurable. Every woman wants it!

For V's like some of us, we need to read books how to really/ truly satisfy our woman.

She deserves it na!

Forget Indecency Films, e nor real o...we know wetin dem dey take na...


10. You don't have to say this: "Don't you know I'm the man of the house?"

Lol! She will just know you are the baba!

You don't have to say it...
If indeed, you have tried to work on yourself from No. 1 - 9, Then No. 10 will just come naturally.

Only children tell their younger ones, "don't you know I'm older than you?" lol!



NB: No one is perfect o, we are all striving towards it.

I believe childishness can be put away and maturity can be brought in.

You can add yours....

(11) if u are a man, you wont waste ur time writing this! Lool :p na joke o...

11.When u leave mum and daddy,uncle or sister to be with your spouse

jaydee87:
dopeyomi do u sing...

No I rap!

eph12:
Why is every of your points centered around the woman?
So in other words only when you please a woman can you be crowned a man?

Well, the way you treat your woman reflects on how you treat your kids. Feel better?? And you'd never understand if you really think this is all about pleasing a woman. See how it feels when someone tells you to do all you can to please someone else? You get defensive. Meanwhile a woman is told and brought up all her life so she can please "her husband"

emusmith:
6. You are financially buoyant to take care of her needs.

How could I forget this?
You said, she is disrespectful. Start giving her money and see submission in action.

# I'm not referring those Recharge Card Beggers on Social Networks oo#

Women are designed to receive! Take it!

Giving her tells her you care for her...

how can you say you care and you've not a spent a penny on her?

Give her again and again and watch her pay attention to you and your dreams.. lol.

# nobody care how much you know until they know how much you care# QED!

@ embolden, total BS!! As in, absolute crap!! You're endangering the female population with your sick advice. Who designed females to receive? Na you? So they can't give abi? Look at how you are codedly asking our females to adopt the beggars mentality. How about advising them to learn how to make money so as to avoid being used as rags by some men? If any woman can't respect you because of you didn't give, and give and give, then she's not worth your time. I pity the ladies that cherish this sick advice. God forbid, I'll raise up my daughters this way. SMH!!

fresh360:
Majority of what u hv written r all nonscence.... What does drinking n all dat hv to do with being a man...if u dnt knw wat to write jst g to bed

The OP is a love-strucked child. Many of his advices are pure unadulterated BULLSHÎT!! I blame the mod that moved this pile of refuse to the FP.

Nice one. I always appreciate your write up

emusmith:
When do we actually call a male a MAN?


" When I was a child, I think like a child... when I became a MAN, I put away childish things"

Meaning, there are some things that when we put away, we become MEN indeed!


Below are 10 signs that differentiate you From a child...



1. You are faithful to one partner.

Only children say one thing and mean another.
If you vowed to remain faithful to her till death do you both part, then stick to your word.

A man is known by his words!


2. You don't stay out late.

Whatever excuse you may want to give is not worth it.
Is it football? Buy your own cable... Metro is not expensive na!

Drinking? Stop it sef!


3. He is thoughtful.

A real man plans ahead. He has it all figured out. Don't let your colleague be the one to remind you of your wife's birthday or anniversary.

Some men are too busy that they can't notice when their wife is going through stress at work. ... hmm.... E nor good!


4. You apologize relentlessly.

Stop forming KingKong, dat era don pass!
You offended and in your head is the school of thought that men don't apologize to women.

My guy, which planet are you from?


5. You talk less when your lady talks much.

Women are not only endowed at the back but also in their mouth.

When she is hurt, she will talk, but your reply should be in few sentences.

Two wrongs cannot make a right!



6. You are financially buoyant to take care of her needs.

How could I forget this?
You said, she is disrespectful. Start giving her money and see submission in action.

# I'm not referring those Recharge Card Beggers on Social Networks oo#

Women are designed to receive! Take it!

Giving her tells her you care for her...

how can you say you care and you've not a spent a penny on her?
Give her again and again and watch her pay attention to you and your dreams.. lol.

# nobody care how much you know until they know how much you care# QED!



7. You don't ever lay a finger on your wife.

Na Small small e dey start o...stop jokingly hitting ladies...

Beating your spouse is insanity!

You and her are One, beating her is beating yourself.
Who does that? An insane man.

Are you insane?


8. You appreciate her ceaselessly.

Your girl buys you a wrist watch and you don't really appreciate because you think it's your money, after all...hah!

No matter how "hard" a woman is, appreciation causes her to do more without complaining.

Complaining is a sign that you're not recognizing her efforts in the house.

You think she is an house wife? Wrong!

She wakes 4AM for school runs, then market, kitchen, washing, shop, school runs etc...

With appreciation, a woman can lick your feet. lol!

9. Sexually Active.

I didn't forget oooo
Orgasm is part of what makes sexx pleasurable. Every woman wants it!

For V's like some of us, we need to read books how to really/ truly satisfy our woman.

She deserves it na!

Forget Indecency Films, e nor real o...we know wetin dem dey take na...


10. You don't have to say this: "Don't you know I'm the man of the house?"

Lol! She will just know you are the baba!

You don't have to say it...
If indeed, you have tried to work on yourself from No. 1 - 9, Then No. 10 will just come naturally.

Only children tell their younger ones, "don't you know I'm older than you?" lol!



NB: No one is perfect o, we are all striving towards it.

I believe childishness can be put away and maturity can be brought in.

You can add yours....

Wow. So true

farano:
When you quit hugging ladies because of their bosoms

explain this


op abeg remove dat money stuff jare

Dopeyomi:
No I rap!

kul
will contact you soon do u reside in Lagos

emusmith:
hmmm...

nice response. Best reply to her gibberish