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I could not fault this. I just had to agree. But apologize only when you are wrong o!! Else..

No....its when u can wait patiently to download 200MB movie with Java phone

What of 10 signs for women?

Whoever wrote this is not a Man

One of the wisest stuff I've read on Nairaland since the attack. Welldone, OP.

There are many males, but only few men.

Jennimma:
number 5 is a MUST or...

I dislike dulling to the core.


Nice thread op.

so you agree that we are the ones who make relationship work

PrettySpicey:
One of the wisest stuff I've read on Nairaland since the attack. Welldone, OP.

There are many males, but only few men.

Which attack be dat?

op your writeup isnt deep enough, u re likely to mislead people with this writeup, from your writing you re not yet even a man

Eberex:
Which attack be dat?

The one wey happen here

@ OP, Very manipulative writeup.
Keep telling ur little son that doctors are d best professionals and hopefully,he'll start aspiring be one. That's d parenting strategy d OP is trying 2 employ here.
What's d OP's definition of a MAN. I observed every point made was done within d context of marriage. Does "MAN" now only mean "married male?" A better and more sincere title 2 ds thread wld hav been "The kind of husband wives love to have."
You really think this kind of behaviour manipulation u've employed here could bring abt lovelier husbands? I dey laff u. How come wit all d marriage books flooding every bookshop,divorces and failed marriages are still on d increase?
1. Ensure ur man is mentally stable and emotionally mature in his dealings wit u b4 u make him ur husband
2. Let love/affection build between d both of u b4 u even think of considering him 4 marriage. I see guys marry girls simply because he's hardworking,smart,educated,bla bla bla,and ladies wed guys simply because he's (financially) ready 4 marriage. No place 4 affection and appreciation. Ok na!! We're Watching ur marriage in 3D
3. Find out what brings out d best and worst in ur partner(dats d reason 4 courtship) and try ur best (and within reasonable limits) to do only those that bring out d best
For d rest,ur marriage counselor,parents,elderly couples,etc can teach u.
@ OP,ur looking 4 perfect husband abi? Manipulative writeups like this thread will not help ur case

Ipledge:
That mean now a man...sad enough I don't have money yet

Don't worry, that will come with time. If you truly have 1-10, they will stay with you for life and you'll be valued and blessed for it too.

Best post ever. Enusmith, I'm so glad I followed you. You post intelligent and valuable topics. Keep it up.

PrettySpicey:
One of the wisest stuff I've read on Nairaland since the attack. Welldone, OP.

There are many males, but only few men.

I'm a MAN!

avuekwe:
Best post ever. Enusmith, I'm so glad I followed you. You post intelligent and valuable topics. Keep it up.

Yeah right!

tosyne2much:
This is a FP material jhor

11. When you start seeing beyond the kitty-cat and bosom of a lady


12. When you can help a lady financially without thinking of getting under her skirt


13. When you stop causing problems, booking unnecessary space, rushing to make the first comment on every thread and derailing every thread in the section


14. When you stop hiding indecency on your laptop or mobile phone

i love this

Phlakes:
i love this

thanks miss

ADD THIS ONE TOO: When he stops calling and asking questions like : where re you? give the phone to so so person so i can talk and be sure you are where you are''

JeffreyJamez:
I'm a MAN!

By their fruits we shall know them

PrettySpicey:
By their fruits we shall know them

but im a man

pappyrose:
What of 10 signs for women?

Haha... It's there in Romance section by me, check it out...lol

emusmith:
Haha... It's there in Romance section by me, check it out...lol

Better, lemme check make I know if I be woman

avuekwe:
Best post ever. Enusmith, I'm so glad I followed you. You post intelligent and valuable topics. Keep it up.

Aww! Thanks Avuekwe, Omotefyne!

The honour is mine!

pappyrose:
Better, lemme check make I know if I be woman

Funny Chick! lol

@OP,u and these ur SIGNS(and wonders)
Well I'm still waiting for ur next book: "12 Signs You Are An Embryo Now"
U don turn Obasanjo ni

emusmith:
Hmmm... when you don't use Vaseline... Tosyne!!!

like seriously? When u dnt use vaseline to rub or am i missing something?

netizenbuzz:
Well, the way you treat your woman reflects on how you treat your kids. Feel better?? And you'd never understand if you really think this is all about pleasing a woman. See how it feels when someone tells you to do all you can to please someone else? You get defensive. Meanwhile a woman is told and brought up all her life so she can please "her husband"

Nobody wants to marry this kind of woman in this present age

emusmith:
When do we actually call a male a MAN?


" When I was a child, I think like a child... when I became a MAN, I put away childish things"

Meaning, there are some things that when we put away, we become MEN indeed!


Below are 10 signs that differentiate you From a child...



1. You are faithful to one partner.

Only children say one thing and mean another.
If you vowed to remain faithful to her till death do you both part, then stick to your word.

A man is known by his words!


2. You don't stay out late.

Whatever excuse you may want to give is not worth it.
Is it football? Buy your own cable... Metro is not expensive na!

Drinking? Stop it sef!


3. He is thoughtful.

A real man plans ahead. He has it all figured out. Don't let your colleague be the one to remind you of your wife's birthday or anniversary.

Some men are too busy that they can't notice when their wife is going through stress at work. ... hmm.... E nor good!


4. You apologize relentlessly.

Stop forming KingKong, dat era don pass!
You offended and in your head is the school of thought that men don't apologize to women.

My guy, which planet are you from?


5. You talk less when your lady talks much.

Women are not only endowed at the back but also in their mouth.

When she is hurt, she will talk, but your reply should be in few sentences.

Two wrongs cannot make a right!


6. You are financially buoyant to take care of her needs.

How could I forget this?
You said, she is disrespectful. Start giving her money and see submission in action.

# I'm not referring those Recharge Card Beggers on Social Networks oo#

Women are designed to receive! Take it!

Giving her tells her you care for her...

how can you say you care and you've not a spent a penny on her?
Give her again and again and watch her pay attention to you and your dreams.. lol.

# nobody care how much you know until they know how much you care# QED!



7. You don't ever lay a finger on your wife.

Na Small small e dey start o...stop jokingly hitting ladies...

Beating your spouse is insanity!

You and her are One, beating her is beating yourself.
Who does that? An insane man.

Are you insane?


8. You appreciate her ceaselessly.

Your girl buys you a wrist watch and you don't really appreciate because you think it's your money, after all...hah!

No matter how "hard" a woman is, appreciation causes her to do more without complaining.

Complaining is a sign that you're not recognizing her efforts in the house.

You think she is an house wife? Wrong!

She wakes 4AM for school runs, then market, kitchen, washing, shop, school runs etc...

With appreciation, a woman can lick your feet. lol!

9. Sexually Active.

I didn't forget oooo
Orgasm is part of what makes sexx pleasurable. Every woman wants it!

For V's like some of us, we need to read books how to really/ truly satisfy our woman.

She deserves it na!

Forget Indecency Films, e nor real o...we know wetin dem dey take na...


10. You don't have to say this: "Don't you know I'm the man of the house?"

Lol! She will just know you are the baba!

You don't have to say it...
If indeed, you have tried to work on yourself from No. 1 - 9, Then No. 10 will just come naturally.

Only children tell their younger ones, "don't you know I'm older than you?" lol!



NB: No one is perfect o, we are all striving towards it.

I believe childishness can be put away and maturity can be brought in.

You can add yours....

Where is the counter thread

Sorry, this type of a man doesn't exist!

So practically, to be a man, you have to prove it through a woman. I do not agree to this.

iamayodeji:
So practically, to be a man, you have to prove it through a woman. I do not agree to this.

Who else do you want to prove it through? Only gays do other wise!

chimerase2:
*observing proceedings from ukwu udara*

observing proceedings ķè. u funny ooo