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How Best Would You Handle This??? by sammieguze(op):
She is a just a course mate. Infact, i don't really know her till Monday when i borrowed her note to compare with mine and bam!!!....

She turned to a friend and started showing signs of wanting a relationship.

I pretended as though i don't understand what she was driving at though but she seems hellbent on communicating her feelings.

Now this is not the first time i am receiving such attention but am in a serious and committed relationship now and can't play any funny game.

I made her realise i am in a relationship by tellin her i am waiting for my girl to finish her lecture. She only jokes about it and changed the topic.

I don't want to play her and i don't want to just tell her off but presently, am confused on how best to handle her without making her feel scorned.huh

Actually thinking of just telling her sternly but then, i want to know how other guys handle this situation without any party being hurt?
Re: How Best Would You Handle This??? by thrizzle(m): 10:27pm On Dec 17, 2014
sammieguze:
She is a just a course mate. Infact, i don't really know her till Monday when i borrowed her note to compare with mine and bam!!!....
She turned to a friend and started showing signs of wanting a relationship.
I pretended as though i don't understand what she was driving at though but she seems hellbent on communicating her feelings.
Now this is not the first time i am receiving such attention but am in a serious and committed relationship now and can't play any funny game.
I made her realise i am in a relationship by tellin her i am waiting for my girl to finish her lecture. She only jokes about it and changed the topic.
I don't want to play her and i don't want to just tell her off but presently, am confused on how best to handle her without making her feel scorned.huh
Whenever you're with her make sure you mention your girlfriend, let her know you're happy being in that relationship and try to encourage her to go for other guys even if it's jokingly. Make sure you're not in a room with her alone and you'll be fine.
Re: How Best Would You Handle This??? by theorbiters: 11:00pm On Dec 17, 2014
Can a man take fire in his bosom and not get burnt? Na from clap dey take enter dance. Ask ursef, if ur gf was in ur position and u find out, how wud u feel? Well if u can deal with it, then fire on
Re: How Best Would You Handle This??? by guente02(m): 11:04pm On Dec 17, 2014
Hmmmmm.
Okay o.
I came hia to read comments
Re: How Best Would You Handle This??? by Applaner: 11:19pm On Dec 17, 2014
and u didn't si any boy to collect note from




op, mind ursef o
Re: How Best Would You Handle This??? by Equado(m): 12:07am On Dec 18, 2014
@ op...your relationship with your gf,would it lead to marriagehuhif not...you gat your answer
Re: How Best Would You Handle This??? by Edwardhead(m): 12:20am On Dec 18, 2014
give her my bbpin
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