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Elantracey:
no way, I've dated one before and I know where it landed me .

That's just one out of billions of men

LaurelP:
That's deep
But what if he doesn't love u that much?

What if "she" doesn't love me that much.. I'm a guy.

Honestly it's not in the best place to be, to love someone that doesn't love you.. But the hope is that I fall in love with someone who also wants to love someone more and not the other way around... So it becomes a win-win situation for both us.

But if I end up in a relationship where I love the girl and she doesn't love me... I'd stick to it for a while maybe... Love atimes can be contagious so she may start developing feelings along the way.

All this ofcourse is hypothetically speaking.

The best scenario is to love and be loved.

Beennkumar:
Not really. Someone will always love more than the other.

Really?

I don't quite agree. I have been in a situation where I thought I loved him more while he thinks he loves me more. Both parties always try to show the other that what they feel is stronger. In that case, who loves more?

Personally, I feel that love is a choice and should be given selflessly and without conditions. Some people measure the degree of love to give, LOL. Their show of love is dependent on how much love their partner gives. That is not love, cos love is giving without expectations.

Definitely someone who loves me cos i will end up loving him more with time cos women grow in love.

STENON:
Someone I love.

and when they dnt love u in return wat now happen?

LaurelP:
I like ur nose
@Dp

and u have an amazing look. ur eye....whoops

Stephxoblessed:
Definitely someone who loves me cos i will end up loving him more with time cos women grow in love.

well this is kind of true sha but mostly limited to women

If I don't love that person as much as he loves me I can't marry him, I believe it should be 50/50

I hear my friends always blabbing about marrying someone who loves them instead someone they love and I just don't understand.if I don't love you as much as you love me I won't take that rlationship seriously.

I want to love and be loved

Alezy:
well this is kind of true sha but mostly limited to women

Yes it is

Elantracey:
Like my mum has advised me several times its better for a lady to marry someone who loves her to someone she loves but will be best if they love each other because we ladies tend to grow affection more easily when we live with a man than the other way round and guys don't sincerely love easily so if they don't love you from the start it won't be easy to get their love when married no matter how much you love him .

Hmmm...for real?

[quote author=Beennkumar post=28900314]Both parties must love each other.

Anything besides this is a fake relationship, and sooner or later, its negative effects would be felt.[/quote

deife:
Hmmm...for real?

yea for real