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olassy239:
so you mean my post ??

Yes young lady. Your thread is misleading.

GoodGirl2:
Yes young lady. Your thread is misleading.

you are the first to say that

GoodGirl2:
Oh yes! Silly me for overlooking the word "reasonable". Now it makes sense.
Well, what can I say? In that case then, reasonable men must be among the minority because majority have no time, neither do they have the ability to look back and get "sentimental" over the woman who had his back "back in the days". When he gets to a new level, off you go.

Then our girls must stop at nothing to win the heart of few reasonable ones.

If a rich young dude can leave a lady that suffered with him for liability or paralystic girl, then I assure you that it is NOT for love and once karma comes, he will go back to square one.

My mother taught me how to fish out a reasonable young man with potentials and I will also teach my daughters.

Ahh guy u re so on point, many ladies do not know what love is, men want to see evidence of love and not money from you ladies


men are easily decieved, put up one or two acts and we are already decieved that u love us. but when a lady withholds her smile or cheerfulness and xx then the guy will think immidiately, if i marry this lady these are the things she will do to me

RedBenson:
Stop playing hard to get, you're losing opportunities. Not every guy can stand that shi!t.

Give him sex as earlier and as much as u can to portray ur seriousness to him too.

Stop frowning face while working on the street like the whole burden in the world is placed on ur head.

Be friendly when a guy approaches u even if u dont like him.

and as for me op i will prefer marrying a lady who has motherly attributes in her, o boy , how i love that

RedBenson:
A guy once said without lies and deceit, it will be very hard for a man to convince a woman. This goes to prove his point.

what d guy said is not far from d truth. many had relationship problems fell for deceit and d movies dey watch keep informing dem false lies about real life situation. look at dis for instance: d girl gained admission., read medicine., graduated and got employment with shell and married a prince from royal family. dey had three children and happily married. fine but how many percentage experience all dis.

Fourwinds:
what d guy said is not far from d truth. many had relationship problems fell for deceit and d movies dey watch keep informing dem false lies about real life situation. look at dis for instance: d girl gained admission., read medicine., graduated and got employment with shell and married a prince from royal family. dey had three children and happily married. fine but how many percentage experience all dis.

Definitely not everyone will be opportune to such. Not even 30%.

frisby:
LWKM! Since when did our girls become this empty-headed?
No wait! They aren't empty headed, at least they know ipads and kimberley kardashian

But I'm sure it's just a category of ladies. I've met smart young NIGERIA ladies, who know that a person's worth (theirs included) cannot be measured in something as trivial as what car you're driving.
Just like a child telling u "u're my friend" just because you carry a shiny box of cookies.
Infact I do not believe you sir...our girls simply aren't that empty headed

ha some heads are empty here. in my area here girls run after guys with cars or guy can show d girl his father or mother's house dat is all. dey won't border to check what d guy can do or his prospect

GoodGirl2:
I beg to differ. A few do stick around. MAJORITY will leave the woman who stood by them for someone who wants an already-made man.

And you know this how exactly?

Give us reliable statistics.

GoodGirl2:
Onyi, I am not justifying it and besides, I was saying it with a light touch.
What I was trying to say is that the human instinct to escape poverty is highest among people who've lived in poverty. They use any means necessary, including looking for wealthy spouses (doesn't make it right though).

den she should work for it not digging for gold. such desperate means can put her in trouble....ritualist can hunt for such girls.

Onyiridike:
Then our girls must stop at nothing to win the heart of few reasonable ones.

If a rich young dude can leave a lady that suffered with him for liability or paralystic girl, then I assure you that it is NOT for love and once karma comes, he will go back to square one.

My mother taught me how to fish out a reasonable young man with potentials and I will also teach my daughters.

Why not drop us some pointers. Might help save a couple heartaches.

Ps: I haven't read to the end of the page. So ignore if u already did.

Fourwinds:
den she should work for it not digging for gold. such desperate means can put her in trouble....ritualist can hunt for such girls.

U're still singing this old song?
Save your energy.

GoodGirl2:
Most male campus students have girlfriends.
Where do they get their girls from?

it seems u don't understand ur female folks. let me tell u one incident dat happened when I was in school(university).dere was dis girl in my department.,slim and guys were like don't date her it is child abuse..to amuse ourselves. but a guy(owe peugeot 504). from anoda department came and deir dating started rite from part 1 till part 3. all of suddenly a military(owe peugeot 306 modern) man who came for a programme(maybe post graduate) toast dis girl and she fell for him. infact her form boyfriend was depressed.

frisby:
U're still singing this old song?
Save your energy.

am I fighting boxing.? y are u telling me to save myvenergy. it is not an old song it still continues. abi ritualists don repent. heheheeeee. I saw a post of a beheaded girl here recently

Fourwinds:
it seems u don't understand ur female folks. let me tell u one incident dat happened when I was in school(university).dere was dis girl in my department.,slim and guys were like don't date her it is child abuse..to amuse ourselves. but a guy(owe peugeot 504). from anoda department came and deir dating started rite from part 1 till part 3. all of suddenly a military(owe peugeot 306 modern) man who came for a programme(maybe post graduate) toast dis girl and she fell for him. infact her form boyfriend was depressed.

that's just life for you.
Just as you have moronic men who bring bad names to the true men, there will always continue to fish brained females who'll always toss away items of value for thrash simply because said thrash appears to glitter.

If you fished in the right seas, you'd realize that there are still loads of ladies in this same country who will make you see the femalefolk in a very different light.

The rotten ones just happen to be the "loud" ones and those dating these stupid few are the only ones coming to these places to cry blue murder.
There are men who consider their ladies gems. Such people have no reason to come and make noise about it. It's the dissatisfied ones that come here to make it seem that "men r dis" and "women r dat"

So keep ur chin up.
If u are a reasonable guy with realistic n honest expectations, you'll find a lady deserving of you time and energy.

Not everything in skirt/pants is worth your time.

frisby:
And you know this how exactly?

Give us reliable statistics.

What could be more reliable than observation?

Fourwinds:
it seems u don't understand ur female folks. let me tell u one incident dat happened when I was in school(university).dere was dis girl in my department.,slim and guys were like don't date her it is child abuse..to amuse ourselves. but a guy(owe peugeot 504). from anoda department came and deir dating started rite from part 1 till part 3. all of suddenly a military(owe peugeot 306 modern) man who came for a programme(maybe post graduate) toast dis girl and she fell for him. infact her form boyfriend was depressed.

I find it funny how men whine endlessly about being dumped by "heartless" women yet they are the masters of that game.
They dump women left, right and center but cry like wounded wolves when they are given a taste of their own medicine.

frisby:
If u are a reasonable guy with realistic n honest expectations, you'll find a lady deserving of you time and energy..

I think you should direct this post to the OP as well. That young lady needs to learn the ways of life. She has a long way to go. I suspect she's a clueless girl in her late teenage years.
When she comes here with a long list of what women should do in order to get married, is she not endorsing the very concept of unrealistic expectations from unreasonable members of the opposite sex?

Let her learn today that you can be a "normal" woman and still get hitched.

frisby:
that's just life for you.
Just as you have moronic men who bring bad names to the true men, there will always continue to fish brained females who'll always toss away items of value for thrash simply because said thrash appears to glitter.

If you fished in the right seas, you'd realize that there are still loads of ladies in this same country who will make you see the femalefolk in a very different light.

The rotten ones just happen to be the "loud" ones and those dating these stupid few are the only ones coming to these places to cry blue murder.
There are men who consider their ladies gems. Such people have no reason to come and make noise about it. It's the dissatisfied ones that come here to make it seem that "men r dis" and "women r dat"

So keep ur chin up.
If u are a reasonable guy with realistic n honest expectations, you'll find a lady deserving of you time and energy.

Not everything in skirt/pants is worth your time.

great observation

GoodGirl2:
I find it funny how men whine endlessly about being dumped by "heartless" women yet they are the masters of that game.
They dump women left, right and center but cry like wounded wolves when they are given a taste of their own medicine.

hmmmm. Goodgirl2 oya let's wine and dine and dance now

bond77:
after all the changes and she still remain single, what next?

Babalawo next

If e nor work, change ur babalawo

bond77:
after all the changes and she still remain single, what next?

plastic surgery...If it still doesnt gv d required result,suicide is d next best tn

My own definition is a good host in sitting room,a quality chef in kitchen, and one hell of a nasty beetch in my bed.

If she meets everything above, then I don't care about the rest.

kossyablaze:
RULE 9...Avoid straffin unnecesarily!!!*modified*If itz not GEJ come 2015-19...I will denounce my citizenship!

av u?

olassy239:
av u?

lol still working on it...how u been?

kossyablaze:
lol still working on it...how u been?

a while