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Vixo:
After suya.....straight to the slaughter house aiit?

I can buy you suya worth 20grand o.....with alot of onions too!

herald9:


When them wan come buy Okro abi

Classicalmusic:
That's not true. Market is even the simplest place. My friend saw this pretty girl and he was like, guy, should i talk to her? I said yeah go ahead

To cut the story short, my nigga told the girl that she looks like his mom and blah blah. Now they're lovers.

pro01:
I've approached girls and exchanged numbers with them in markets, banks, under the sun, in the rain, and pretty much everywhere (except in a salon, cos I have no business there in the first place). In fact, one big booty girl I met in a bank (while queuing to deposit money) sometime in 2011 eventually proved to be one of my most enjoyable affairs till date.

As I see it, the most important conditions are that (1) You are comfortable, (2) she is comfortable, and (3) your looks/approach/something about you makes a good impression. It also helps to keep things light-hearted, with a whiff of 'no-big-deal' nonchalance.

The bottom line is that a confident man has the prerogative to approach any woman anywhere, anytime and the woman has the prerogative to cooperate or decline. If she is inclined, they can exchange numbers and see where it leads. If she declines, you simply move on with utmost indifference. One should never feel reluctant to take chances simply because one thinks that the environment/circumstance isn't conducive enough. If you ask, it might be given. On the other hand, if you do not ask, it shall NOT be given. It's that simple.

striktlymi:
I don't believe there is any ideal or wrong place to try and woo a lady, except say for private places like the lavatory.

I believe one can woo a lady successfully in the above mentioned places when the major factors like attraction and the manner of approach etc are in play.

striktlymi:
.....and you know that because you go about with me?

keppyy:
Professional approacher...

ubong560:
Lol. I am an engineer by profession, so i am exposed to these ladies at my will.

pro01:
I've approached girls and exchanged numbers with them in markets, banks, under the sun, in the rain, and pretty much everywhere (except in a salon, cos I have no business there in the first place). In fact, one big booty girl I met in a bank (while queuing to deposit money) sometime in 2011 eventually proved to be one of my most enjoyable affairs till date.

As I see it, the most important conditions are that (1) You are comfortable, (2) she is comfortable, and (3) your looks/approach/something about you makes a good impression. It also helps to keep things light-hearted, with a whiff of 'no-big-deal' nonchalance.

The bottom line is that a confident man has the prerogative to approach any woman anywhere, anytime and the woman has the prerogative to cooperate or decline. If she is inclined, they can exchange numbers and see where it leads. If she declines, you simply move on with utmost indifference. One should never feel reluctant to take chances simply because one thinks that the environment/circumstance isn't conducive enough. You'd deprive yourself a great deal of wonderful experiences and successes in life if you habitually wait for only ideal circumstances to take action. If you ask, it might be given. On the other hand, if you do not ask, it shall NOT be given. It's that simple.

herald9:
Hmmm
Bros..what type of engineering will be stationing you in the market?

herald9:
Hmmm
Bros..what type of engineering will be stationing you in the market?

Clinton594:
1. MARKET PLACE :
Trust me on this and you can try it then share your adventure. A woman is so insecure at the market place, she's vigilant at any movements around her taking notice of the people who touch body and snatch handbags/purses. The last thing she's going to do is give you the attention.

2. UNDER THE SUN:
9ja no be yankee where you can just move up to a lady walking or standing under the sun and start yabbing nonsense. She'll just look at you like a conductor shouting Oshodi , no be person go tell you say sun dey puncture woman skin wella.


3. AT THE BANK :
Lols, Abeg no go paint your dignity black joor. Imagine Nigerian bank where almost all conversions are sounding like whispers and every one dey form English teacher. You wan begin dey chyke woman. who tell you say na only she dey hear wetin you dey talk . just pray she doesn't make a scene. if she does, your own don be oh .

4. IN THE PRESENCE OF HER FRIENDS:
An average 9ja babe go like play hard to get in front if her other babes, She go feel like KingKong blowing you off and you know what follows suit for the other ladies.
Ehe, sorry for you if you gbagaun ... no be person go tell you wear face cap dey find your way if you no wan receive the biggest laff of your life.

5. IN THE LADIES SALOON :
Hehehe , if you've been trying to catch up on a lady and she purposely walks into a saloon..... my dear brother its not the same as she walking into a supermarket/store.
Sir, just turn around , live to fight another day

herald9:
When I said market, I'm talking about the Naija type.

What will a dude be doing in the market?
A girl would probably think that you have no levels and they would treat you as such.

So why not quietly buy your things,Keep it somewhere,tidy your wear and wait for her on the way.

It would save you a lot of embarrassment Bro.

TDstarr:
av seen a girl who literaly gave me green light, i walked up to her but she started acting weird cos her female friend was there, they have fish brain

faithugo64:
In the church when service is ongoing

faithugo64:
In the church when service is ongoing

pro01:
I've approached girls and exchanged numbers with them in markets, banks, under the sun, in the rain, and pretty much everywhere (except in a salon, cos I have no business there in the first place). In fact, one big booty girl I met in a bank (while queuing to deposit money) sometime in 2011 eventually proved to be one of my most enjoyable affairs till date.

As I see it, the most important conditions are that (1) You are comfortable, (2) she is comfortable, and (3) your looks/approach/something about you makes a good impression. It also helps to keep things light-hearted, with a whiff of 'no-big-deal' nonchalance.

The bottom line is that a confident man has the prerogative to approach any woman anywhere, anytime and the woman has the prerogative to cooperate or decline. If she is inclined, they can exchange numbers and see where it leads. If she declines, you simply move on with utmost indifference. One should never feel reluctant to take chances simply because one thinks that the environment/circumstance isn't conducive enough. You'd deprive yourself a great deal of wonderful experiences and successes in life if you habitually wait for only ideal circumstances to take action. If you ask, it might be given. On the other hand, if you do not ask, it shall NOT be given. It's that simple.

pro01:
I've approached girls and exchanged numbers with them in markets, banks, under the sun, in the rain, and pretty much everywhere (except in a salon, cos I have no business there in the first place). In fact, one big booty girl I met in a bank (while queuing to deposit money) sometime in 2011 eventually proved to be one of my most enjoyable affairs till date.

As I see it, the most important conditions are that (1) You are comfortable, (2) she is comfortable, and (3) your looks/approach/something about you makes a good impression. It also helps to keep things light-hearted, with a whiff of 'no-big-deal' nonchalance.

The bottom line is that a confident man has the prerogative to approach any woman anywhere, anytime and the woman has the prerogative to cooperate or decline. If she is inclined, they can exchange numbers and see where it leads. If she declines, you simply move on with utmost indifference. One should never feel reluctant to take chances simply because one thinks that the environment/circumstance isn't conducive enough. You'd deprive yourself a great deal of wonderful experiences and successes in life if you habitually wait for only ideal circumstances to take action. If you ask, it might be given. On the other hand, if you do not ask, it shall NOT be given. It's that simple.

striktlymi:
For someone who holds that opinion about ladies, I believe she acted pretty smart not accepting you.

herald9:
He probably gave you the goodies to hold for him...then he acted as if he was just passing by...

And the girl might just be one of these ordinary street girls Na.

There are two things involved.

Vixo:
Herald dey find E-war oooo....heheheheheheh

No sir...those who ask questions can't loose their way

TDstarr:
for ur info i nailed her , waited for her to be alone den collected the number so i stil made my point by agreeing with the op

herald9:
Hmmm
Bros..what type of engineering will be stationing you in the market?

ireneony:
Don't toast a lady inside the bus, after paying for her fare. Guys try and be a gentleman sometimes is not everytime you pay for a lady fare, that you will asked for her contact

Bennymontana:
I DON'T believe there are places you can't toast a babe;u can toast a woman anywhere,anytime,even if she's mouring sef it all depends on your manner of approach...
1.Market place,u first analyse the chick you wanna toast,if she's apprehensive and all,ur approach should be somewhat passive and make her feel secure,help her in making decisions based on choice etc and have a good sense of humour,from there you proceed...
2.Under Hot sun;of course you don't just walk up to her and start toasting her str8 up...u can wait and stylish stalk her till she leaves the sun or use ur sense of humour and try and strike a conversation about the hot sun and then you can proceed from there
Banks;that's the easiest sef;because contrary to what you think,that's where lots of girls seek for toasting...however,there are various styles and ways to strike a conversation with the lady you wanna toast,ask if she has a pen,pay her a compliment,she"ll respond well,cos everybody's tryna be all civil in the bank,she won't want to make a scene,however;you can be passive about it and wait for her outside to finish what you"ve started...
In the salon...very easy;I"ve done this lots of times and it works...socialize with all the ladies in the salon,make dem laugh and feel comfortable with you,decide to get ur nails done,gist and gossip with them and act ignorant asking questions about different kinds of weavons,styles etc which you don't actually give a Bleep about and from there,u strike convo with the lady you wanna toast
With her friends;to me,it dosent matter,first of all be confident,av a gud sense of humour and socialize with all of them,when they"re all comfortable with you;you single out who you wanna toast for a brief one on one...be very brief;get her connect;say bye to all of them and you proceed from there....
There; you have it all...you can toast a girl ANYWHERE it all depends on your manner of approach however,seems op looks @ toasting as if,when u meet a girl you start telling her your whole mind...who toasts like that? There are steps and approaches to take and if you get it wrong,den it bound to fail...making you have the crab mentality places you can't toast a babe...op seems you need small OT

striktlymi:
I hear ya!

Same way I have Genevieve in my apartment begging me to marry her.