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How To Seduce A Man by ireneony(op): 4:50pm On Dec 20, 2014*

Do you want to make him want you? Whether it’s to
make him like you or lust for you, here’s your guide on
how to seduce a man who isn’t your man yet.

Seducing a man is an art, and one that’s thoroughly
enjoyable.
Just watching a man feel flustered and awkward because
of the sexual tension you’ve created is a rush that few
things can give a girl.
A few of these tips may be sneaky and scheming, but
hey, we’re not playing dirty.
We’re only using the advantage of being a woman!
Find out how to seduce a man who’s not your own man,
and make him sweat with desire.
But what next, do you want him to fall in love with you
or are you happy with him trailing you like a lost pup?
Either ways, you’ll have a great time and he’ll love you
for letting him have a great time.
Everyone’s happy and the world is a better place!

How to seduce a man
If you want to understand how to seduce a man,
especially if he’s not your own boyfriend, use these ten
tips to do just that.
It’s subtle, devilishly innocent and he can never ever
blame you for seducing him.
After all, by using these steps on seducing a man, you’ll
make him believe that he’s actually the one who desires
you.

#1 Work your eye contact

Now you don’t want him to think you’re attracted to
him, so don’t overdo the little staring game. Look, but
always look away just as he looks at you. By doing that,
he’ll never be sure if you’re even staring at him. And
yet, he’d start to get more and more curious about you.

#2 Let him see your best side

Do you think you’re sexy? No? Then start feeling sexy,
dammit!
If you want to become a wily seductress, you need to
feel like one. And when you do, you’ll be able to perfect
this move and put it to maximum use. Men love boobs
and butt. You know that right?
Look your best when you’re around the guy you want to
seduce. Let him admire your curves and those toned
sexy legs of yours. When he falls in love with your body,
he’s definitely on his way to getting seduced by you.

#3 A little peek-a-boo

The fascinating thing about being a woman is that you
can do something outrageous like wearing extremely
short skirts and plunging necklines and still blame a
man for being a pervert. Of course, now we women
aren’t wearing these sexy outfits to please everyone, are
we?
We’re just wearing these cute outfits for the guys we
want to seduce. So all the other perverts can just look
away for all we care
If you want to seduce a man, never bare everything or
wear skimpy clothes. It draws the wrong kind of
attention. Instead, wear something that gives you an
opportunity to give him a little peek now and then. If
he’s standing around you, lean forward to pick a piece
of paper or your bag. A guy’s eyes are pretty quick when
it comes to sneaky boob grazes. Giving a guy the
chance to take a sneak peek now and then would only
make him want to see them more, and hopefully without
any clothes on.
Now taking the clothes off for him is your decision, but
this move will definitely seduce him and make him want
more.

#4 Smile for him

Men are automatically drawn towards women who seem
happier and more fun to be with. A smiling, flirty woman
is far more approachable than a surly, saggy woman.
When you’re having a conversation with him, smile
often. It’ll make you seem good natured and happy,
which will draw him to you. But don’t overdo the
smiling by making it obvious that you’ve got a thing for
him. You’re trying to seduce him, not let him know you
like him!

#5 Flirt with him

If you’ve got these first few steps down to the tee, the
guy you’re seducing would already be attracted to you,
sexually or otherwise. Now it’s time to warm him up and
let him know that you’re up for a bit of safe flirting now
and then. When you’re having a conversation with him,
start flirting with him and make him want to continue
the conversation with you. If his eyes are ready to pop
out in excitement or if he’s got bits of drool, you’re
doing a great job at this, aren’t you, you seductress?

#6 Lingering unexpected touches

When you’re having a conversation with him at lunch,
place your fingers over his palm while emphasizing a
point or hold him by his hand as you’re crossing the
street. If you’re sitting next to him, allow your feet to
touch his feet and pretend like you didn’t notice. Create
circumstances to let him touch you, and he’ll want
more

#7 Don’t throw yourself at him

If you want to know how to seduce a guy, never ever
throw yourself at him or let him know that you think
he’s hot stuff. By letting a guy know that you’re already
interested in him, he wouldn’t feel excited by any of your
antics. He’ll just assume you’re trying really hard to get
his attention. And you don’t want that.
When you let a guy know you like him, it’ll make him
start the game of playing hard to get with you. Instead
of seducing a guy, you’ll end up looking trashy and
clingy. Always make it look like he’s the one pursuing
you, even if you’re laying a seduction trail for him with
each step you take.

#8 Ignore him now and then

Every once in a while, when you feel like things are
going too smooth between the two of you, stop giving
him a lot of attention and conversation time. A guy will
always take things easy when he feels like he’s having a
great time with a girl. So at least at the beginning, don’t
ever let him feel like he’s able to make an impression on
you. Ignore him now and then, or just play hard to get
with him. It’ll shake up his insecurities all over again,
and make him woo you harder.

#9 Take him to the dance floor

Guys can never resist a girl’s curves. Take those sexy
curves and move them on a dance floor, and he’ll be
floored by you.
If you can work your way around getting this guy to take
you out clubbing, then you’re definitely on cloud nine of
seducing a man. Show off your skills on the dance floor,
and let him watch you. Dancing with each other is a
great way to build the sexual chemistry and leave a few
lasting memories with lingering touches.

#10 Create awkward situations

If you want to know how to seduce a man, get this right
and you’d leave the guy you want to seduce with a
heart full of love and a trouser that’s stretching on a
hard on!
Squeeze into a crowded elevator with him and
“unknowingly” let your butt graze against his leg. If he’s
sitting down in a chair, come from behind him and reach
across his table to get something when he’s not looking.
He’ll involuntarily turn and his shoulders have nowhere
to touch but your breasts. And that’s by accident, of
course. And when you hug him, make sure he can feel
your girly parts touch against him. Don’t make any of
these moves obvious and he’ll think he’s the lucky one
for getting to touch you in places he could only dream
of.
Give him the chance to touch you, and create awkward
situations around him. His pants will get tighter, and
he’ll do more than just fantasize about you.
So now that you know how to seduce a man who’s not
yours, what are you going to do next, make him fall in
love with you or use him as a sex buddy ? It feels so
good to have so many choices, doesn’t it?!