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I was with a group of friends recently and we were catching up with weekend grove, we extended our discussion to courting and marriage. We concluded that there is a question that a man/woman should not ask his/her partner. Here it goes


















Have you ever cheated on me before?
























I had this babe I was madly in love with (7 yrs ago) and I eventually left her to further my studies abroad. I called her every often and eventually sold the idea of she studying in germany to her, I saved and she was able to go on with her studies in germany, I got a schengen visa and went to meet her (after 2 yrs of not seeing physically) I enjoyed my 2 day stay and on my way to the train station, I asked her the question 'have you cheated on me since we last met?', she tried to dodge this question and I reassured her,telling her I wouldn't blame her, that I just wanted us to start afresh well again, and that I would also confess my sins to her. That was a big lie. She told me she cheated on me with 2 guys, and yes, they had sex.




















I wept.





































Relationship stopped, she begged me for months, was just never gonna be the same.


I told my wise councils, and they all said the same thing that

'You should have never asked that question'.

Same happened to a lot of my friends.

So gals/guys,if you really want to keep your relationship/marriage, don't ever ask this question.

Do you know any other question one should not ask his/partner? Feel free to add yours,who knows you might be helping some one out there!

awwwww! Germany tinx! cool story am no more bored,thanks.

mirexxx:
awwwww! Germany tinx! cool story am no more bored,

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thanks.

thanks, real life story though, I might have ended up marrying her (who knows? And live happily never ever after)

There is no question you can't ask. It all depends how you asked.

its beta I ask n bounce dan remain in a LIE

Doortun:
There is no question you can't ask. It all depends how you asked.

its really all about 'truth hurts'. Some peops can never handle the truth.(Like me)

oshe11:
its beta I ask n bounce dan remain in a LIE

look around u bro! New, old, sweet, dirty partners, etc. Most guys and girls are liars. But they might end up a loving partner if we don't interfere in their past and start new lives...