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Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by Teespice(f): 1:42pm On Dec 21, 2014 |
ochon: will you marry me? *puppy face* |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by Nobody: 1:42pm On Dec 21, 2014 |
Hahahahahaahahahahaa.... |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by LordReed(m): 1:46pm On Dec 21, 2014 |
Nonso23: LoL! I am supposed to say "hey don't agree with my post cos the boys will hate me" right? Sheesh. 8 Likes |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by Nobody: 1:46pm On Dec 21, 2014 |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by Nobody: 1:48pm On Dec 21, 2014 |
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Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by Nobody: 1:52pm On Dec 21, 2014 |
thandii1: 5 Likes |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by Nobody: 1:52pm On Dec 21, 2014 |
None of them can be like my son ochon... Husband material too badt |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by Nobody: 1:53pm On Dec 21, 2014 |
I pray that i never be become a widower or my wife become a widow. What changes in the last 5 years since i got married? Has it become a do or die affairs with the female folks? What happens to constructive criticism and argument? Must it be my way or the high way? There is a reason why two people will leave their families and become one. Just like most male folks stated, context is everything. No sane man will say no to anything that will alleviate his family finances or make life better for them. But, if the gift comes with a hidden agenda, no sane man will accept it. I have a good relationship with my FIL (my best friend) and my wife have a good relationship with her MIL (she even talk to my mum more than me). I am part of his family just like my wife is part of my family. I respect my FIL and he also respected me. In situation that the OP mentioned, i know my FIL will call to discuss it with 'US' just like i use to call him and seek his opinion sometimes before i buy some gift for his wife. Everything comes down to respect. Sidenote Why is it that all the male are against this issue (except for 1 male ) and most the females are in support? You dont go into marriage with a set mind and expect it to work. Marriage is more of give and take. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by Nobody: 1:55pm On Dec 21, 2014 |
Im his mother send in your CV and fill in the application form Teespice: |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by Nobody: 1:58pm On Dec 21, 2014 |
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Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by bukatyne(f): 2:02pm On Dec 21, 2014 |
LordReed: Even Jesus wey use him Blood buy us no reach this one 1 Like |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by Nobody: 2:02pm On Dec 21, 2014 |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by Nobody: 2:05pm On Dec 21, 2014 |
Nonso23: That is why i dont pray to become a widower or my wife become a widow. Most of the comments are scary ( might be some of the ladies are not yet married. Marriage changes some of our outlook, expectation and opinion). Or, am i old skool? 3 Likes |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by Teespice(f): 2:05pm On Dec 21, 2014 |
Mondisweets: ahn ahn Oya where is the form? |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by Nobody: 2:14pm On Dec 21, 2014 |
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Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by Nobody: 2:17pm On Dec 21, 2014 |
Teespice:Wait let me go get it quickly |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by thandii1: 2:20pm On Dec 21, 2014 |
Nonso23: But You keep coming back for the irritating conversation I called you out because you were whining about the inability to have a decent argument in here due to obnoxious female posters. The male posters are equally guilty. The evidence is still on this thread. You are not making any sense anymore bro. I've made my point, moving on.. Do enjoy the rest of your WarAgainstObnoxiousFemales. Lol Cheers! 9 Likes |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by Limerick: 2:29pm On Dec 21, 2014 |
Mondisweets:i pray o |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by Nobody: 2:34pm On Dec 21, 2014 |
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Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by bukatyne(f): 2:45pm On Dec 21, 2014 |
Nonso23: So because LordReed is not on your side of the divide, he is making a mockery of hinself? And who made your side the right one? And you are complaining of other posters It is okay 10 Likes |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by Nobody: 2:47pm On Dec 21, 2014 |
coogar: Dayuuuum!!! Coogz, don't tell me the women on this forum are that desperate and dumb? Who's that nyggah? - he has to be the greatest dream seller to ever walketh on NL!! Definitely a first ballot hall of fame candidate! 2 Likes |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by Nobody: 2:47pm On Dec 21, 2014 |
LordReed: Honestly, what I said to you has nothing to do with the topic itself. The topic is too short, and vague, for me to have an opinion. Hence I never posted anything prior to calling you out. And I still don't have an opinion. The OP never talked about the relationship between the man and his FIL, and context is everything. I called you out because of your tendency to always look at things from the female's perspective. Last week (or two weeks ago), you asserted that you were just doing it for fun, and playing the devil's advocate. However, it seems it's slowly but surely creeping into you subconsciously. Once you get caught up in it, you will start believing your own hype based on the fictitious folks egging you on, on this medium. And you might start transferring your character on here to your everyday life - and that's problematic. You can never win playing a role, or looking at things, from a perspective that's not innate to you. It's just basically like playing your opponent's game in any sport. Thus denying yourself any chance of winning cos 9 out of 10 times, you can never beat people in their own game/comfort-zone. To have any chance of winning, you've to play your own game - and stick to doing things, based on your perspective as a guy. Relationship between a man and a woman has to symbiotic, with both parties bringing what's natural to them - to the table. Hence both sexes are different in a lot of ways, and everything is structured for both to maximise their natural gifts. However, once you leave your own comfort zone, and start playing female - it negates what makes you a man. Thus giving undue advantage to the female in her comfort zone. You don't pander to people - you just play your role. Hence I called you a mangina. If you've got a gf/partner, you can experiment your character on here in your relationship for a week, and see the reaction you're going to get. Most of the chics in this section are kids with family issues, and single mums with marital issues. And their musings and thought-process are based on jejune tales and ideologies they try to find solace in, to mask their insecurities. There's no point taking them seriously. Their opinions are always harebrained and devoid of what's practicable in reality. Hence they're mostly uncouth, and when you clap-back at them (which you always have to do as a grown man and the protector...you should never let a woman talk shiit/down to/on you), they'll start playing the victim tune - like Kool and the Gang. If you haven't noticed, the old and married ones (in stable marriages ) among them rarely contribute to threads like this one. And that's basically because they've got a better understanding of things. Just stop playing to the gallery with these kids. 11 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by Nobody: 2:57pm On Dec 21, 2014 |
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Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by bukatyne(f): 3:03pm On Dec 21, 2014 |
Nonso23: Well everyone is entitled to their opinions and I sincerely hope you do not mind if another poster's opinion of you is insultive. 1 Like |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by aderonila18: 3:07pm On Dec 21, 2014 |
bukatyne: Don't mind them, what a childish way to reason. So many little boys here masquerading as men, nairaland is about giving your opinion. State yours and you can choose to disagree with others but it's pathetic how they try and convince us sane man who has enough guts not to join the pack and stand on his own opinion is pretending. Very insecure little boys 5 Likes |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by Nobody: 3:09pm On Dec 21, 2014 |
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Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by Bigsteveg(m): 4:07pm On Dec 21, 2014 |
carefreewannabe:The circumstances are very very different, u don't walk out of marriage same way u walk out of relationships. 1 Like |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by LordReed(m): 4:09pm On Dec 21, 2014 |
SirShymex: Every opinion I post here is 100% mine, I take full ownership. There is nothing fictitious about my posts, I am me, love me or hate me is entirely up to you.
FYI I am very married, to the most beautiful, understanding and caring woman a man can have the pleasure of having as a wife. There's nothing to experiment except become the opposite of what I am.
When they start handing out prizes for playing to the gallery, I will compete with all gusto, LoL. 8 Likes |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by Nobody: 4:31pm On Dec 21, 2014 |
LordReed: Err, you said you were playing the devil's advocate the last time. What changed? You got caught up in the hype, and decided to ride the wave, no? - I like that. Life is about the survival of the fittest, and everything in life, either consciously or subconsciously is competitive by nature. That's the natural instinct. And what makes us human. Heck, every human being competes within himself/herself, hence you always have two conflicting inner introspection of things. Good vs. bad. God vs. devil. Depending on what your mentality is. Siblings compete. Friends compete. Families compete. Evidently, it's only natural for male and female to always compete. That was why a natural hierarchical structure was created - to limit the competition to an extent - and maximise the symbiosis of the relationship a la civilisation. Rules of engagement. Morals. Commandments. Etc.. Basically, you're entitled to your opinions. And I don't believe those attacking you are doing so, based on your opinions. It has more to do with you being hypothetical and positing your theories, from an opposing perspective - under male banner. That's an asinine thing to do. You need to understand that: just as women are always emotional, men are also very passionate especially when it comes to their egos (balls of steel lol). So, when you're under that banner - you can't pander to emotional beings and their innate emotional impulses. Also, when you do that, expect people to always call you out. Guys like you are the ones who always end up getting friendzoned. Most women are naturally attracted to those who can dominate them. Hence you see most of them salivating over strong physical forces of nature - in lieu of weak guys. The roles are there, and regardless of how folks want to live in denial - thus having internal conflicts with what was instilled in them from a young age, and the society, based on insecurities - no one can change reality. Stop it. Leave the yin and yang, the symbiotic relationship alone, and stop trying to project everyone into only the female perspective. Anyway, you sound like the comedian, Steve Harvey. A guy who can't keep a woman, and has been married three times. Yet he can walk around like an expert in relationships, with women as his clients. Then write a book telling women to "Think like a man" with women making it a best seller. That's how most women function - and why a comic can hoodwink them with comic relief, and ride that wave to wealth. He's a comedian for a reason...and his calling is to make people laugh - not reality. Not knocking your hustle but whatever folks say to you also comes with the territory. Regardless, stop telling porkies - you're not married. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by LordReed(m): 4:39pm On Dec 21, 2014 |
SirShymex: Folk like you are usually so steeped in lies you can see nothing but. I won't waste my time attempting to prove anything to you. I've told you love me hate me your serve mate, I remain me. 7 Likes |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by Nobody: 4:46pm On Dec 21, 2014 |
LordReed: Lol, now you're getting emotional like a chic. Can you see why I told you to change clothes and become 'Ladyreed'? I don't know you to hate you...but playing ostrich, whilst engulfed in white knight syndrome is nauseating. Err, I actually like how you write and create things to encourage conversations. However, your perspective is somewhat emetic, and it makes me wanna puke sometimes. Get back to the basics, my nyggah. 3 Likes |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by LordReed(m): 4:52pm On Dec 21, 2014 |
SirShymex: LoL me emotional? Meanwhile it is you about to puke, how so very rich. Want some smelling salts to hasten your upchuck? LoL. 5 Likes |
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