Elantracey:
What's wrong in a father buying his daughter a car since he couldn't afford one at that moment and obviously its needed ?

Chillisauce:
Where do women see this kind of men they get married to?
Wonders shall never end.

carefreewannabe:


On Nairaland.

Chillisauce:


Some marriages are scary I tell you.

Your father buying you a car as gift and husband dey para. So after rejecting your father's gift, in the future h gets new wife. Kick you out. What next.e

Nigerian women are the worst suffer heads on earth I tell you.
That country needs a miracle.

carefreewannabe:


But why would a woman get married to such a man?
Poverty can't be the answer in this case as her father can afford it to buy her a car.

Bigsteveg:
Heard the story recently, it's about a couple, the wife's car got bad and they worked out a way where he dropped and picked her off managing 1 car. Later the wife's father buys her a car and she takes it home, on getting home the husband exploded that the father in law should not interfere in his family.
Was he right?

Guys, i'll like to hear your opinion, what will be your response if your wife suddenly brings a car home as a gift from the father?

Chillisauce:


maybe societal pressure in order to answer Mrs okegbulem

alutaa:
If your Mother in-law bought a new set of cooking pots for his daughter in-law and gave it to his son, will the daughter in-law be happy?

To all ladies that said that there is nothing wrong, if your mother in law start buying cooking pots and plates for your kitchen, will you be happy with that?

What the father in-law did that was wrong is to give the car to his daughter directly without informing his son in-law. Best way to go about it is for the father in-law to present the car to them as a couple instead of giving it to his daughter directly.

alutaa:
If your Mother in-law bought a new set of cooking pots for his daughter in-law and gave it to his son, will the daughter in-law be happy?

To all ladies that said that there is nothing wrong, if your mother in law start buying cooking pots and plates for your kitchen, will you be happy with that?

What the father in-law did that was wrong is to give the car to his daughter directly without informing his son in-law. Best way to go about it is for the father in-law to present the car to them as a couple instead of giving it to his daughter directly.

carefreewannabe:


Probably.

If she didn't want the pressure, let her have her marriage.

Chillisauce:


maybe societal pressure in order to answer Mrs okegbulem

alutaa:
If your Mother in-law bought a new set of cooking pots for his daughter in-law and gave it to his son, will the daughter in-law be happy?

To all ladies that said that there is nothing wrong, if your mother in law start buying cooking pots and plates for your kitchen, will you be happy with that?

What the father in-law did that was wrong is to give the car to his daughter directly without informing his son in-law. Best way to go about it is for the father in-law to present the car to them as a couple instead of giving it to his daughter directly.

Chillisauce:


Similar thing happened to my school friend. They had one car which the husband uses to work. She worked part time and always had to use taxi.

She has a wealthy dad who then bought a cleaner car (4 WD) for her. The dad has just just 2 girls.

One day the hubby wanted to stylishly take the car on the basis that her hand is not too strong for driving.(see sense)!

My friend was like 'babe, drive your own and I drive mine'. It was so funny, everyone laughed over it.

Now back to topic , Op . What exactly is the problem here?

Bigsteveg:
Heard the story recently, it's about a couple, the wife's car got bad and they worked out a way where he dropped and picked her off managing 1 car. Later the wife's father buys her a car and she takes it home, on getting home the husband exploded that the father in law should not interfere in his family.
Was he right?

Guys, i'll like to hear your opinion, what will be your response if your wife suddenly brings a car home as a gift from the father?

EfemenaXY:


And would it still be disrespectful if the car was directly given to the man in question by his very own parents?

alutaa:


The girl parent or the guy parent doesnt not matter. The most important thing is the way the gift was presented. It should be presented to them as a couple. This way, both the boy or the girl authority will not be undermine in the union.

There is a reason for the statement that 2 shall become one..........

chuksbogus:
How could u say this!! it's a clear massage to
the man that he us incapable of marrying his
daughter. before that he should have made the
man aware or seek his opinion.What the in-
laws did is very bad
I mean very bad.

EfemenaXY:


Stop acting coy.

You were out all guns blazing because as a male, you feel slighted that the father-in-law stepped in, but you suddenly start getting cool when I ask if it would make a difference if the giver was/is the guy's own parents.

A man who loves his wife wouldn't want to see her suffering. The car was given to her by her father for gawd's sake! FAMILY. It was from a secret admirer. So why the unnecessary ego trip?

LordReed:


What a joke. A man that will tell me as a father that I need his permission to buy my daughter a gift because he is her husband has proved himself a donkey. She is my daughter and no man can tell when or how I should give my daughter a gift.

So you will ask your daughter's husband permission? Was she sold? Is she a slave?

EfemenaXY:


Stop acting coy.

You were out all guns blazing because as a male, you feel slighted that the father-in-law stepped in, but you suddenly start getting cool when I ask if it would make a difference if the giver was/is the guy's own parents.

A man who loves his wife wouldn't want to see her suffering. The car was given to her by her father for gawd's sake! FAMILY. It was from a secret admirer. So why the unnecessary ego trip?