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Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by jadelyn007(f): 5:03pm On Dec 21, 2014 |
coogar:you don't want your elders to boss over you, but you want to boss over your wife? Interesting! 5 Likes |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by SAMBARRY: 5:04pm On Dec 21, 2014 |
Nonso23:Pele its obvious you sucked cow milk as a child instead of human breast milk. No wonder you just whine irrationally 2 Likes |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by annawhite(f): 5:05pm On Dec 21, 2014 |
coogar:cougar ........ |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by vanitty: 5:06pm On Dec 21, 2014 |
Truth be told, it would have been better were the father to have given the car to both his children ( his daughter and inherited son)! Something is a bit off in that relationship hence why the man blew his gasket. 1 Like |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by 1miccza: 5:07pm On Dec 21, 2014 |
Rxpetite:I quite agree with you on that 2 Likes |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by jadelyn007(f): 5:11pm On Dec 21, 2014 |
My humble contribution, People should stop making mountains out of mole hills! Again I don't think the car gift is the problem here. There are deeper issues that have been left unaddressed. No Nigerian man will pick offences over a car gift to his wife from his Father-in-law unless they have never been in good terms, which doesn't tell well. As a couple the wife should respect her inlaws and endeavor to be at peace with them. The husband too should respect his inlaws and endeavor to be at peace with them. That being said, no man is an island, we have family for a reason. Bearing grudges against your inlaws never end well. 2 Likes |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by SAMBARRY: 5:14pm On Dec 21, 2014 |
Ok so how do you know he has ulterior motives and he's trying to undermine his manliness? Your ego told you so right? Matthewbriggs: |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by Nobody: 5:32pm On Dec 21, 2014 |
thandii1: Somebody give this person a standing ovation! 4 Likes |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by Matthewbriggs(m): 5:33pm On Dec 21, 2014 |
SAMBARRY: where did I state he has ulterior motive. What has my ego got to do in this context. Looks like you did not read what you quoted. Leme re quote a section of it that answers your question. This time do read it in slow motion. The answer to your question is in the first 3 paragraphs.
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Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by ochon: 5:34pm On Dec 21, 2014 |
Mondisweets: Teespice: @Nonso23, no mind me. I'm just kidding on the siggy stuff. This section's threads have denigrated to: Men vs Women arguments Male Vs Female bashing. Feminists vs non-Feminists E-fights. There's obviously a breeding anger between some people, and hence they end up making every sensible/insensible thread about women vs men. This section is a ghost of its glorious past. 3 Likes |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by cococandy(f): 5:36pm On Dec 21, 2014 |
crackhaus:then why do you bother telling ladies how to act? Are you a girl? And what do you know about womanhood? Sauce for the goose ehn? 10 Likes |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by cococandy(f): 5:37pm On Dec 21, 2014 |
Specialist900: Pride filled broke things 1 Like |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by cococandy(f): 5:38pm On Dec 21, 2014 |
LordReed:Lmao. Their thinking no reach that side. 1 Like |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by Nobody: 5:41pm On Dec 21, 2014 |
ochon: Hopefully, the mods will one day wake up from their coma and address this. |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by SAMBARRY: 5:45pm On Dec 21, 2014 |
You said so jare. Hayiiinn there was no way fil will have presented the car in a contemptuous manner or to spite the man . in security must have been worrying him and as per the relationship that exists between him and his fil.dont give me that line. Go and sell it to tonto dike Matthewbriggs: |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by cococandy(f): 5:50pm On Dec 21, 2014 |
V0lv0: 1 Like |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by cococandy(f): 5:51pm On Dec 21, 2014 |
Sophyrocks: 1 Like |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by cococandy(f): 5:53pm On Dec 21, 2014 |
coogar few weeks after his self-confession, about a dozen chics bombarded his email begging him to have their babies. some of the dozen chics included married women & a 44-year-old tpia. as far as the dude was concerned, it was mission accomplished.Chai coogar. What do you gain from exaggeration and lying 1 Like |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by cococandy(f): 5:57pm On Dec 21, 2014 |
thandii1:when I read that post I thought to myself classic case is charcoal pot calling glass dishes black 2 Likes |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by Matthewbriggs(m): 6:01pm On Dec 21, 2014 |
SAMBARRY: Pls answer this questions 1. @ bolded what information made your to arrive to such conclusion. 2. @bolded are you trying to say FIL are so perfect and can do no wrong. 3. How much do you know about the mans relationship between him and his FIL before the car gift. That made you arrive to a conclusion that he is insecure. 4. Do you belive a gift can be rejected if not given with the right intention/context. Answer these 4 questions directly. 2 Likes |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by cococandy(f): 6:03pm On Dec 21, 2014 |
bukatyne: 1 Like |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by SAMBARRY: 6:04pm On Dec 21, 2014 |
Number 1.because he's his daughter's husband so he has to treat him right if not it can affect his daughters relationship .He's an elderly man so he knows 2. Matthewbriggs: |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by SAMBARRY: 6:06pm On Dec 21, 2014 |
2.nobody is perfect. Only God is perfect. Every person has his flaws but ability to manage the flaws is what makes fil and son in law worth it 3. |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by thandii1: 6:08pm On Dec 21, 2014 |
Lmao @ lordreed not being married. Pesin wey don born sef. Oh my days! What will I not read on this thread. The desperation to force this adult to share your views is ridiculous. I mean, can't a man have an opinion. Jeez. 2 Likes |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by SAMBARRY: 6:12pm On Dec 21, 2014 |
3. Only an insecure man can reject a gift offered in good fate and he should even see that as an opportunity to redeem his relationship with fil if he's wise. Who knows maybe the fil used the car to repair their broken relationship 1 Like |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by Nobody: 6:18pm On Dec 21, 2014 |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by Matthewbriggs(m): 6:21pm On Dec 21, 2014 |
SAMBARRY: As I wait for your other answers. How does been an elderly man confer him such knowledge. Are you saying all elderly men know this fact. If yes based on what proof. Do you agree its one thing to know what is right and another thing to do what is right. How well do you know this FIL can you vouch for his character and his ability to not just know what is right but do what is right. 1 Like |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by Matthewbriggs(m): 6:24pm On Dec 21, 2014 |
SAMBARRY: Yes no one is perfect well said ... Now how sure are you that in this case his imperfection did not show up. How sure are you that the father in law did not have a flaw that might have resulted in the mans reaction to the gift. 1 Like |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by crackhaus: 6:26pm On Dec 21, 2014 |
V0lv0:This here is the problem I have with majority of you females on here, and why I will always continue to get on your case. You obviously don't know what an analogy seeks to achieve - or maybe you do, but because of this argument and the point it puts across, you girls decide to keep intelligent thought aside and talk nonsense about how comparing a wife to a car is wrong. Now look here, this is a famous analogy: - A good speech should be like a woman's skirt; long enough to cover the subject and short enough to create interest [Winston Churchill] According to your very flawed reasoning, how can speech be compared to skirt? Right? Here's another example: - You see, wire telegraph is a kind of a very, very long cat. You pull his tail in New York and his head is meowing in Los Angeles. Do you understand this? And radio operates exactly the same way: you send signals here, they receive them there. The only difference is that there is no cat [Albert Einstein] So how can Einstein compare the wire telegraph to a cat? This example is especially fitting just like the wife and car analogy - the cat/wife is a living thing, while the telegraph/car is an object. All that your talk about apple and meat (when what you actually meant to say is, apples and oranges... genius), was just you trying too hard to sound like you knew what you were saying. The analogy is PERFECT, but of course you females won't like it - which is basically what I enjoy doing to you knuckleheads on NL who don't pause for sound thought before coming at me totally blind, making it a lot more easy to pick y'all apart with chopsticks. A word of advice: don't ever tell a man to his face in real life that he's not a real man in the heat of an argument - if he's anything like me, you might just get your teeth knocked in before you finish that sentence. Y'all can keep yapping about childishness, or insecurity, or ego, or 'real man', all you like on NL - it really doesn't mean a damn thing especially coming from a woman on internet bandwidth. I bet y'all can't say the same shiit in real life, except maybe to a wimp...that's just cowardly. Now would you want your husband's mother to bring a new woman/cook for him on the excuse that he is suffering and not getting enough healthy meals from you? 6 Likes |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by Matthewbriggs(m): 6:29pm On Dec 21, 2014 |
SAMBARRY: How sure are you the gift was offered in good fate. Are you in the father in laws mind. Do you know the dynamics of the mans relationship with his FIL. Can you tell me right here right now how healthy their relationship have been. You are suggesting that the FIL is trying to use the car to mend the broken relationship. What data do you have that supports your statement. 1 Like |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by bukatyne(f): 6:37pm On Dec 21, 2014 |
Nonso23: So if LordReed decides to call you a ... you have no problem? Okay Goodbye |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by ochon: 6:39pm On Dec 21, 2014 |
ileobatojo: The mods have their roles to play, but majority of the role towards restoring this sanity lies with US the members. It's high time we grew up and act like sane humans. Some people are insulted for having dissenting views. Some people can't engage in a discourse without mudslinging. BOTH genders are guilty of this. All discussions are now prioritized along men-vs-women bashing. People (men and women) back their gender up just to get back at the opposing gender even when they're making no sense. Even though I didn't align with LordReed's perspective (because the OP's story is half-baked and didn't give any meaningful details as to why the husband is miffed) on this discourse, I feel he shouldn't have been insulted. We've different opinions, and shouldn't be insulted if those opinions aired are civil enough. I remember positing on the Adekunle's death thread these words, "I find this words hard to say. Even though you played a huge part in the murder of my Biafran brothers, sisters, children, fathers and mothers, I forgive you. R.I.P" some posters attacked me, insulting me and saying I'm not Igbo. Why? Because I had a different opinion and decided to forgive a man that played a part in a war that caused deaths to brothers. That's why I said the mods can't stop this madness, it starts with us. 1 Like |
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