wasak: ..
Hope u ll forget ur pa**.too when u go ds evening... I think ur ex is more important....

kennygee: Ok, thank you all nairalanders, i have talked to my Man and we have sorted things out. He is going to get me anoda pair of glasses or we'll both go and get mine in my ex's house. Thank you all for your honest reprimands. We have kissed and made up.

Idowuogbo:
awwww.. see love e

kennygee:
you are the only person who has reached out to me. That's why i think he is over reacting.

Sagamite:

I have said it several times:

"When a woman stops loving you, you are worse than her shyt!"

https://www.nairaland.com/1436171/black-berry-wahala-wit-girlfriend/9#18135449

Most likely only a girl still madly in love with you would come running to your rescue when you fall ill, after she has broken up with you for cheating on her. If she did not love you, she would probably, at best, wish you well over the phone and give you a layman's advice on what medication to take.

When kasala burst now (metaphorically and intramurally o), she would start claiming she was only "naive" and he seduced her. I have said it before:

"The most frequent defence by women is to transfer blame to the man by claiming to be "naive" and "vulnerable"."

https://www.nairaland.com/1436171/black-berry-wahala-wit-girlfriend/9

Bobo na ma ko fokasibe! (The guy go just fokasibe)

Allwility: @op Your boyfriend's threat shows your relationship has gone a lil bit toxic but guess who brought in d toxic fumes?...you!
Your present is just your rebound guy....(smh for him). Your actions, intended actions and defence of your naive actions here on NL show you're still into your ex. Go and come back when you are ready for a real relationship. Thank you!

kennygee: He is not. I think i have gone past the rebound stage.

Sagamite:

"Never believe what a woman says, believe what they do".

Idowuogbo:
Oh yea? Dat givenchy go dear o! Msteeeeeeeeew! Rubbish

kennygee: I end all my relationships amicably. I am friends with all my exs and i don't get intimate with them believe it or not. I jst thought i was being there for a friend. I can cook for an ill friend. I am nt attachd to my ex i was jst trying to be nice.

kennygee: He is not. I think i have gone past the rebound stage.

2s£xy:
Lo.

I dealt with one who calls herself betty aliu when she claimed to kiss a dude but 'told' her man like this OP did, however left out the kisses, except on nairaland.

She had to run up to Ogugua to help her delete the thread, she also took down her profile pic.

kennygee: I was wrong about going to his house, i know. I jst think he is over reacting. An ill person isn't thinking abt intimacy, he is thinking of how to get better. I won't see my ex again, i promised my bf that. But i am going back to get my shades, even if he decides to come with me.

thareta: I don't see no wrong in it. If ur ex is still ur friend, there's no wrong in going to see an ill friend.however why cook for him? On the part of your boyfriend. Its really normal 4 him to get jealous and mayb you've showed him in the past that your still inluv with your ex.

Well said
now you have seen his reaction, u should understand where he is coming from hence, in the future do not do things that you know would gt him worked up. If hiz not comfortable abt ur ex, then itz time to put ur ex at arms length coz your present bf matters more right now. Just explain to him and tell him u won't hurt him that way again.

kennygee: I found out four months ago that my ex was cheating on me with his girlfriend who he lied to me about claiming to have ended the relationship. We parted ways amicably even though i loved him.
I am seeing someone else now and we're having issues because yesterday, my ex called me to tell me he was ill (really ill) so i went to see him after church to be sure he's ok.(his gf doesn't stay in abuja with him, she's in lagos) i cooked for him, he ate and i left. My boyfriend got angry when i told him and now he is mad at me and threatening to break my sim card. I think he is over reacting. What is wrong with being there for an ill person, is it bad because he is my ex? Everything i did, i did from the goodness of my heart, nothing more.

kennygee:
I found out four months ago that my ex was cheating on me with his girlfriend who he lied to me about claiming to have ended the relationship. We parted ways amicably even though i loved him.
I am seeing someone else now and we're having issues because yesterday, my ex called me to tell me he was ill (really ill) so i went to see him after church to be sure he's ok.(his gf doesn't stay in abuja with him, she's in lagos) i cooked for him, he ate and i left. My boyfriend got angry when i told him and now he is mad at me and threatening to break my sim card. I think he is over reacting. What is wrong with being there for an ill person, is it bad because he is my ex? Everything i did, i did from the goodness of my heart, nothing more.

kennygee:
I was wrong about going to his house, i know. I jst think he is over reacting. An ill person isn't thinking abt intimacy, he is thinking of how to get better. I won't see my ex again, i promised my bf that. But i am going back to get my shades, even if he decides to come with me.

kennygee:
I found out four months ago that my ex was cheating on me with his girlfriend who he lied to me about claiming to have ended the relationship. We parted ways amicably even though i loved him.
I am seeing someone else now and we're having issues because yesterday, my ex called me to tell me he was ill (really ill) so i went to see him after church to be sure he's ok.(his gf doesn't stay in abuja with him, she's in lagos) i cooked for him, he ate and i left. My boyfriend got angry when i told him and now he is mad at me and threatening to break my sim card. I think he is over reacting. What is wrong with being there for an ill person, is it bad because he is my ex? Everything i did, i did from the goodness of my heart, nothing more.

kennygee:
I found out four months ago that my ex was cheating on me with his girlfriend who he lied to me about claiming to have ended the relationship. We parted ways amicably even though i loved him.
I am seeing someone else now and we're having issues because yesterday, my ex called me to tell me he was ill (really ill) so i went to see him after church to be sure he's ok.(his gf doesn't stay in abuja with him, she's in lagos) i cooked for him, he ate and i left. My boyfriend got angry when i told him and now he is mad at me and threatening to break my sim card. I think he is over reacting. What is wrong with being there for an ill person, is it bad because he is my ex? Everything i did, i did from the goodness of my heart, nothing more.

kennygee:
I promised him i wouldn't go back there after i do my pick up.

olalat:
u appear like a very syubborn lady. If i may ask, what makes you have so many exes. You need self assesdement. I can deduce why your bf is so uncertain about you.