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Each time I mention this to a girl their usual response is 'its a lie'. I graduated from the university last year and am currently serving. Mind you I have had female friends I liked and there are those that equally did like me so much buh we ended up not dating. please am I abnormal? cos the treatment I get each time I disclose this to the female folks is just dragging me crazy. please comments. thanks...

Yes is abnormal.....dating does not necessarily mean you must have sex

Physically, No... Technically, Yes.

When do you set to get married?
The first question I'll ask.

ireneony:
Yes is abnormal.....dating does not necessarily mean you must have sex

Wow... now wondering where I go from here. am that kind of guy ' too shy to ask and too proud to lose'. Thanks for your comment it was really important.

tempem:
When do you set to get married?
The first question I'll ask.

I want to get married on or before I turn 30.

Ambition matters a lot bro... What do you think when it comes to love relationship? What are your reasons for not dating? Studying is the reason why many students shun dating. But you're now a graduate, so what is stopping you?...Psychologically, YES!

SeverusSnape:
Physically, No... Technically, Yes.

Please can you explain further?. Cos am in a state of dilemma. Thanks

No..you are not abnormal...but you really need to get laid ASAP..

25yrs worth of Konji all on one chick?..Damn!

Exjoker:
Ambition matters a lot bro... What do you think when it comes to love relationship? What are your reasons for not dating? Studying is the reason why many students shun dating. But you're now a graduate, so what is stopping you?...Psychologically, YES!

Bro those where really deep questions that I have no clear cut ans for. Thanks for the comment. I really appreciate.

Johnrake69:
I want to get married on or before I turn 30.

It's not a crime, you could look out to date someone now.
And courting for at least 4-5 years, by then you'll get to know the person better before marriage.

ireneony:
Yes is abnormal.....dating does not necessarily mean you must have sex

did he mention anything like sex?

Johnrake69:
Please can you explain further?. Cos am in a state of dilemma. Thanks

Yes I can, When I say physically, you may think there's something wrong with you, But there's probably not, because I've seen people who are physically challenged, but are in a healthy relationship.

Technically, This has to do with your ability to interact with the ladies; I believe this is where you have some deficiencies, Cause a graduate like you should have had the experiences, You mustn't even woo, If you play your cards well, The relationship will just start naturally.

Good luck sir.

sseunth:
did he mention anything like sex?

am trying to tell him, if his someone that dont approve of premarital sex, he can still date.

Guy you need to go VILLAGE go ask grandma;;;;;*hmm*

Maamin:
No..you are not abnormal...but you really need to get laid ASAP..

25yrs worth of Konji all on one chick?..Damn!

Lolzzz... Dude that was funny. friends with benefit; one night stand; were always available options. Buh I really want to be committed for the first time in my life.

FLAWLES:
Guy you need to go VILLAGE go ask grandma;;;;;*hmm*

Grandma is late!... Among her grandchildren, I was her favourite. Thanks for the comment anyway.

Johnrake69:
Lolzzz... Dude that was funny. friends with benefit; one night stand; were always available options. Buh I really want to be committed for the first time in my life.

Committed is gud,if she is also committed to u..these days relationships are story for the gods O!

All the best sha!

Johnrake69:
Grandma is late!... Among her grandchildren, I was her favourite. Thanks for the comment anyway.

.lol beht me i don't believe this your story ooo; (go her GRAVE)lolz

Depends on your idea of dating and what you really want..

I started dating @ the age of13.

Very abnormal 25 yrs nd u've neva dated before mehn that is serious

FLAWLES:
.lol beht me i don't believe this your story ooo; (go her GRAVE)lolz

Comments like yours make my situation even worse. So your advice?

Neobulletzz:
Very abnormal 25 yrs nd u've neva dated before mehn that is serious

Wow... now am made. your comment is not encouraging at all. Thanks for your comment. So now I know I have a problem

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Johnrake69:
Each time I mention this to a girl their usual response is 'its a lie'. I graduated from the university last year and am currently serving. Mind you I have had female friends I liked and there are those that equally did like me so much buh we ended up not dating. please am I abnormal? cos the treatment I get each time I disclose this to the female folks is just dragging me crazy. please comments. thanks.

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Bro, I can deduced that u are such a guy who feel shy to confront a lady n express yah feelings... d same tyn happened to me, but wat I did was dat, I started with d lady on social media (2go precisely, n dat was den.. ) Since I knew dia was no physical contact, I was free den n I expressed my mind, so from dia I was able to..... dat was wen I was in 200lvl, we are still dating up till now, mind u am serving ma fada land here in abia state n I studied 5years course plus ASUU strike... just telling u all dis to let u know how far we av bn 2geda... So if u can't withstand d eye to eye contact y can't u try dis.... Abeg, Redeemption Camp don full

You are not,maybe dating nor dey your destiny,try the monastery...

Dunno 'bout others but I think you are normal......now dat u are thru with school u can put more effort in tryna date.
Guess You've been occupied with school or maybe u fear rejection.... IMO

klins4213:
You are not,maybe dating nor dey your destiny,try the monastery...

Shuuuuuuuu! menh that was harsh. thanks for the comment.

Davidovinci:
Dunno 'bout others but I think you are normal......now dat u are thru with school u can put more effort in tryna date.
Guess You've been occupied with school or maybe u fear rejection.... IMO

Thank you man. Really appreciate your comment

ireneony:
am trying to tell him, if his someone that dont approve of premarital sex, he can still date.

okk u try

Witches in your village is at work

Johnrake69:
Thank you man. Really appreciate your comment

You welcome

lilmax:
Witches in your village is at work

Really? Please explain.