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Your engagement is the perfect time to
encourage a loving and positive
relationship with your man's mother, so
use this time wisely to get in your future
mother-in-law's good graces.
During all of the pre-wedding
arrangements, the mother of the groom
can feel left out,
she doesn't have many responsibilities
on the big day, but you don't have to
make her feel like she has to wear beige
and be silent!
After your man pops the question, invite
his mother to lunch with you and your
mom, and share in the excitement of
your upcoming nuptials. Include her in
various events during wedding planning,
and ask her to attend every bridal shower
-- even the bachelorette party, if you
dare!
Your engagement is the perfect time to
encourage a loving and positive
relationship with your man's mother, so
use this time wisely to get in your future
mother-in-law's good graces.
There are several ways you can honour
your future mother-in-law in the months
leading up to your wedding. Here are five
tried and true tips for getting your guy's
mom involved with the wedding:
1. Include her in the planning: Usually,
the mother of the bride assists her
daughter with most of the wedding
planning, but there are no rules when
it comes to who can help you choose
your wedding gown or the perfect
invitation suite. When you invite your
maid of honour and mother along on
these momentous occasions, ask the
groom's mother to join you. Use this
time to discuss the style of dress
your mother and the groom's mother
plan to wear so there are no surprises
on the big day. Organizing the
seating chart is another wedding
project that can be a major headache
for the bride and her mother. Not sure
if your groom's stuffy great aunt
should sit at the same table with her
free-spirited nieces and nephews?
Call on your guy's mother for her
thoughts; she's likely to lend you
some valuable advice.
2. Utilize her talents: Odds are the
groom's mother has a few useful
tricks up her sleeve to benefit you
when it's time to plan your wedding,
so don't underestimate any talents
she might have to offer. If your fiancé
is always raving about his mother's
homemade treats, ask her if she'd be
interested in jarring tiny samples of
her famous coconut chip cupcakes
as wedding favours. Is your future
mother-in-law handy with a pair of
scissors and a tube of glue? Request
her assistance with DIY wedding
projects, like designing the table
numbers or assembling ceremony
programs. Even if your mother-in-
law-to-be isn't a culinary or artistic
genius, she may be savvy in other
ways. Does she have a knack for
scoring deals at great prices because
she isn't afraid to haggle with a
salesperson? If you're on a tight
budget, she might be a great
bargain-hunting companion when
shopping for big-ticket wedding
items, like floral arrangements or the
cake. If she has neat handwriting, ask
her to address your wedding
invitations with an elegant script or
calligraphy. If her greatest talent is
tying a perfect bow, ask her to tie the
sash at the waist of your gown
before you walk down the aisle!
3. Request her help with out-of-town
guests: As the bride, your days
leading up to the wedding are going
to be filled with vendor meetings,
bridal showers and dress fittings.
Out-of-town guests are going to be
busy making travel arrangements
during this time, and it's the groom's
mother's responsibility to organize
hotel accommodations for them.
Research hotels nearby, and block
off rooms at discounted rates for
guests. Appoint the mother of the
groom as the go-to person for
guests' questions regarding travel
arrangements and wedding weekend
itinerary information. Since these
out-of-town guests have more than
likely jumped through hoops to be
with you and your fiancé on your
wedding day, think of thoughtful
ways to keep them entertained during
downtime. The groom's mother can
also help you choose the best items
for hotel welcome bags, like bottled
waters, snacks and aspirin for guests
who have a little too much fun at the
wedding after-party. Designate a time
in the days before the wedding to
help your guy's mom put the bags
together and drop them off at the
hotels where guests will be staying.
Finally, if any of her friends or family
members missed the invitation RSVP
deadline, have her follow up with
them for you.
4. Assist with rehearsal dinner details:
The rehearsal dinner is the perfect
occasion for the families of the bride
and groom to become acquainted, so
create a comfortable atmosphere for
the event to encourage casual
conversation. Traditionally, the
groom's parents host the rehearsal
dinner, but there's nothing wrong
with offering your assistance to make
planning a little easier on your future
in-laws. Work together on the guest
list, and remember that while you
should invite the key players of the
wedding -- your immediate family
members, the wedding party and
their spouses -- it's completely up to
you, the groom and his parents
whether to include dates for single
wedding party members and any out-
of-town guests. Be sensitive to
budget constraints, and if you need
to, politely negotiate where the event
takes place. Though not very
common in Nigeria, the rehearsal
dinner is the first party to kick off the
weekend's festivities, so don't
neglect any personalized details of
the evening! Offer your florist's
number to the groom's mother to
assist with centerpieces, or lend her
some of your favourite framed
engagement photos to decorate an
entry table. A slideshow featuring
childhood pictures of the bride and
groom is a memorable end to the
rehearsal dinner. Make it easy on the
mother of the groom, and delegate
the slideshow as your maid of
honour's responsibility.
5. Recognize the mother-son dance
tradition: The father of the bride isn't
the only parent who gets to enjoy the
spotlight with a dance during the
wedding reception. The traditional
mother-son dance is a great way for
the groom to honour his mother on
his wedding day. To get the pair
excited about their dance, invite your
man and his mom over for a home-
cooked meal to discuss song
choices. Have your music collection
nearby in case they want to read
lyrics or listen to songs over dinner,
and consider music that resonates
with your fiancé and his mother.
There are no rules when choosing a
song for the dance, so feel free to
think outside the box. Maybe the
groom wants to sway with his mom
to the classic sound of Victor Olaiya,
but if an upbeat swing dance is more
their style, encourage them to go for
it! As long as the song reflects their
special mother-son relationship, the
dance will be a sweet memory for
years to come.

dos dis cover dead mother in law

holatin:
dos dis cover dead mother in law

bros its for d living alone

Kennywills7:
bros its for d living alone

really ??
i no know oooo