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DonaldGenes:
You're widely Material .A very good one a that but this issue of recharge card ehhh

Well I never asked him such before..........I had a urgent need and I had to ask him of which he's aware of the person I needed to call at that time. Mind you I was only interested in his wellbeing as is brothers house is choked up and its time for him to be on his own. I am not desperate to tie the knot and for your information I work and earn a decent living

striktlymi:
Remsonik,

If your guy is still acting all worked up then go and talk to him about it.

Let him know the reason you reacted that way and if he still feels insulted ask him to let you know what he wasn't particularly happy with.

If his reason for being upset has a proper footing then an apology would be in order.

If he has an ounce of maturity in him, he should also apologize for going back on the agreement.

Thank you so much,he called me very early this morning and we thrashed it out.

remsonik:
Thank you so much,he called me very early this morning and we thrashed it out.

Fantastic!

striktlymi:
I do not agree with the above post.

Being a guy doesn't give one the right to go back on any agreement reached with the lady without proper cobsultation with her. Its very disrespectful.

If at all the guy thought it wise to breach the agreement, he should have discussed this first with the lady in order for them to be on the same page.

The 'Alfa male syndrome' shouldn't apply here.

Did you notice that my last point had to do with him reneging on their agreement?

I guess you have a job and doing well. Dump his bottom and look for someone else. Don't allow any man to put you under or make you unhappy. If you'd wanna stick with him make his life double miserable too because what a man put in a relationship he will surely reap the processed. They ain't worth it a beg.

striktlymi:
I do not agree with the above post.

Being a guy doesn't give one the right to go back on any agreement reached with the lady without proper cobsultation with her. Its very disrespectful.

If at all the guy thought it wise to breach the agreement, he should have discussed this first with the lady in order for them to be on the same page.

The 'Alfa male syndrome' shouldn't apply here.

Imagine the nonsense. Even if it is his money, he doesn't have the right to spend it anyhow he want so long he"d decide to carry his girlfriend along.

Op should dump his bottom for being so arrogant and disrespectful. No woman should tolerate his type abeg

.....4) Apologize to him and make him understand
that the reason you were upset was because you
had an agreement and he reneged on that
agreement meaning he didn't respect your
agreement
Basically what am saying is state your case
without getting emotional about it.......


@Striktlymi

IDEApro:
Imagine the nonsense. Even if it is his money, he doesn't have the right to spend it anyhow he want no long he wanted to carry his girlfriend along.

I totally agree...

The things some ladies condone just because a guy cannot quit babying about and subdue his ego is quite alarming.

bisous:
.....4) Apologize to him and make him understand
that the reason you were upset was because you
had an agreement and he reneged on that
agreement meaning he didn't respect your
agreement
Basically what am saying is state your case
without getting emotional about it.......


@Striktlymi

The underlying message from your post is one of condoning some of the excesses of the male specie.

I consider it inappropriate for a lady to become recluse when a guy does something wrong.

Your last point presupposes that the lady goes back to plead with the guy because she voiced out against his excesses.

I agree that voicing out need not be rude, but in this case the guy totally missed it.

I am only glad that it has been resolved now.

striktlymi:
I totally agree...

The things some ladies condone just because a guy cannot quit babying about and subdue his ego is quite alarming.

Oponu like you.

Which right does a girlfriend have over her lover's finance?

Her right and privilege ends in advisory capacity and Op should stop biatching.
Until she is made a wife which the man decisions will positively or negatively affect her she has no business contesting the guy's vision or missions.

The guy is even loving and romantic enough to have inform her of his decision.

IDEApro:
Oponu like you.

Which right does a girlfriend have over her lover's finance?

Her right and privilege ends in advisory capacity and Op should stop biatching.
Until she is made a wife which the man decisions will positively or negatively affect her she has no business contesting the guy's vision or missions.

The guy is even loving and romantic enough to have inform her of his decision.

You seem very confused!

remsonik:
Well I never asked him such before..........I had a urgent need and I had to ask him of which he's aware of the person I needed to call at that time. Mind you I was only interested in his wellbeing as is brothers house is choked up and its time for him to be on his own. I am not desperate to tie the knot and for your information I work and earn a decent living

i love you sincerelly, Will you marry me then?


Yes or No!

striktlymi:
You seem very confused!

Exactly... I initially confused you being mischievous with feminist perspective on the issue.

remsonik:
He insisted on changing his old car while we agreed the money will be used to get a decent flat for him as he stays with his elder brother then he can change his car next year. He said the car is too old and no one uses that type again that it doesn't dignify him. I insisted that a man's worth isn't measured by how flashy they look of which I am not complaining even his peeps are not complaining.

you 've got a point here ! A mans worth isn't measured by how flashy he is. Infact, i will prefer a nice apartment and my freedom instead of squating with my elder bro without my privacy.. That guy is childish, how old is he ?

I missed the reconsolidation part in your story. Apparently he was angry with you for insulting him

remsonik:
I had a misunderstanding with my sweetie for like a week now and he is angry with me. He hasn't been responding well to my chats and calls. Yesterday I needed to call an aunt of mine who had an accident and I was already home from work. My estate gate was locked and I didn't have a dime on my phone, I chatted him and told him to please send me credit cos I knew he will still be on his way back from work,he said he doesn't have. This morning he sent me the credit and when I tried to call him back to thank him and just have a good chat he was still sounding like he didn't want to talk to me of which he didn't pick my call but he called me back. Is he still angry? Did he send d credit in annoyance or because he actually cared?? why did he call me when he still sounding angry on the call??

ehya

ifex370:
if you ask me!!! na hu I go ask

Guy, you funny oooo...lol

remsonik:
Well I never asked him such before..........I had a urgent need and I had to ask him of which he's aware of the person I needed to call at that time. Mind you I was only interested in his wellbeing as is brothers house is choked up and its time for him to be on his own. I am not desperate to tie the knot and for your information I work and earn a decent living

ehya

He probably care but he can't stand you right now. I wonder what you did?