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Re: Why Is Gold-digging More Of A Woman Thing? by chibwike(op): 6:11am On Dec 26, 2014
tpacalipse:
Yeye people! Gold digging has no other definition. Gold digging is gold digging and every sane man can sport a gold digger from a distance. As a matter of principle, a dime of my dough was never spent on a lady till I got married. And if a penny is spent from my money, my wife knows about it. I married her because she no be thief. Mind you, I am comfortable. Yeye pipu!
who be the yeye pipu
Re: Why Is Gold-digging More Of A Woman Thing? by Nobody: 7:38am On Dec 26, 2014
1one:
If I don't hype myself gringrin

Who will tonguetongue
you will allow me do the hyping tongue
Re: Why Is Gold-digging More Of A Woman Thing? by 1one: 7:39am On Dec 26, 2014
Elantracey:
you will allow me do the hyping tongue
You wouldn't do a good enough job tongue
Re: Why Is Gold-digging More Of A Woman Thing? by Mynd44(mod): 7:40am On Dec 26, 2014
Tallesty1:
lols, picture this scenario.

A wealthy man is dating a lady because he loves him, the lady professes her for him too and everything seems rosy. He takes care of her financial needs, sponsores her in school or maybe her business.

Then finally he goes down on his knees and propose but she said "NO".

She knew from the begining that she can't marry the man. She only needed his money.

He doesn't meet her taste but yet she couldn't refuse dating him because he has money.

So what can we call what the lady did?



BTW the dictionary defines gold digger as a woman who uses her sexual attractions to accumulate gifts and wealth or advance her social position.

http://www.thefreedictionary.com/gold-digging
And a guy who has been sleeping around with a girl for years with no intention of marrying her even though he says he will is a what?
Re: Why Is Gold-digging More Of A Woman Thing? by Nobody: 8:11am On Dec 26, 2014
tosyne2much:
@ the bolded=» you could be right but not in all cases.. No matter how rich a guy may be, he will still come across gold diggers who will try to screw him and drop him as quickly as possible when his cash flow no longer meet their standard

@ the striked=» you are talking off point.. I was just a baseless point

Merry Xmas
When a guy go after a rich lady, ravish her money and dump her, what would that be called?
Re: Why Is Gold-digging More Of A Woman Thing? by Nobody: 8:14am On Dec 26, 2014
VickyyB:
No gender is a gold digger.
The phrase is mostly used when a broke arsè guy has been dumped by his gf.
No gf for a lazy man or probably, he could get an ashewo for 200naira or a low class girl. smiley
Lmao
Re: Why Is Gold-digging More Of A Woman Thing? by tosyne2much(m): 8:15am On Dec 26, 2014
VickyyB:
When a guy go after a rich lady, ravish her money and dump her, what would that be called?
there's actually no adjective to qualify that since it sounds awkward grin
Re: Why Is Gold-digging More Of A Woman Thing? by Truckpusher(m): 8:17am On Dec 26, 2014
VickyyB:
When a guy go after a rich lady, ravish her money and dump her, what would that be called?
They are actually called 'hustlers' or 'con men' though not common in Nigeria. grin
Re: Why Is Gold-digging More Of A Woman Thing? by Nobody: 8:18am On Dec 26, 2014
Mynd44:
Gold digging is not out of greed. It is just personal preferences.

She likes guys with money cos they spoil her, she goes for them

He likes girls with big boobs cos he enjoys it, he chases them.

Where is the greed?
Tell them biko.

Watch on this section. A guy will create a thread on how he like girls with big breast etc and he'll get praises from his fellow men.

When a girl states her preferences, every insults on earth will let loose.
Re: Why Is Gold-digging More Of A Woman Thing? by Nobody: 8:22am On Dec 26, 2014
Tallesty1:
undecidedundecidedSay what you know nah. Gold-digger is a woman who uses her sexual attractions to accumulate gifts and wealth or advance her social position. http://www.thefreedictionary.com/gold-digging
Stereotyped definition.
And why did she dump him? Apparently because there was no gold to digcrycrycrycry
Some women are allergic to broke arsè. wink
Same way you might dump your girlfriend for a better one. smiley
So women are that cheap?crycrycrycry.
Same way some guys are cheap...
At 45, that high class chick will be like an old Local Government Buildingcrycrycry.
Phew! Marriage is overated. smiley
Re: Why Is Gold-digging More Of A Woman Thing? by ROZZAYY(f): 8:27am On Dec 26, 2014
Hmmmm sits down to read comments
Re: Why Is Gold-digging More Of A Woman Thing? by Nobody: 8:28am On Dec 26, 2014
tosyne2much:
there's actually no adjective to qualify that since it sounds awkward grin
Truckpusher:
They are actually called 'hustlers' or 'con men' though not common in Nigeria. grin
Double standard & hypocrisy at its extreme.

Thank God for all my wise fellow ladies who use and dump men for they shall live long. wink
Re: Why Is Gold-digging More Of A Woman Thing? by Truckpusher(m): 8:31am On Dec 26, 2014
VickyyB:
Double standard & hypocrisy at its extreme.

Thank God for all my wise fellow ladies who use and dump men for they shall live long. wink
What's your beef with what I wrote.

You prolly think that calling one a con man or a hustler is a good adjective......smh grin

Those two adjectives is as worse as calling one a gold digger.
Re: Why Is Gold-digging More Of A Woman Thing? by tosyne2much(m): 8:32am On Dec 26, 2014
VickyyB:
Double standard & hypocrisy at its extreme.

Thank God for all my wise fellow ladies who use and dump men for they shall live long. wink
look at you. More often than not, men do chop, bleep and zoom off

The number of men that chop and clean mouth outweigh that of ladies
tongue
Re: Why Is Gold-digging More Of A Woman Thing? by Nobody: 8:34am On Dec 26, 2014
tosyne2much:
look at you. More often than not, men do chop, bleep and zoom off

The number of men that chop and clean mouth outweigh that of ladies
tongue
Hahaha!

They both enjoyed the sex. Stop give yourself hope that you used her. smiley
Atleast, you did the stressful work.
Re: Why Is Gold-digging More Of A Woman Thing? by tosyne2much(m): 8:36am On Dec 26, 2014
VickyyB:
Hahaha!

They both enjoyed the sex. Stop give yourself hope that you used her. smiley
Atleast, you did the stressful work.
what do you mean by the bolded. Could you pls elucidate ?
Re: Why Is Gold-digging More Of A Woman Thing? by chibwike(op): 8:37am On Dec 26, 2014
VickyyB:
When a guy go after a rich lady, ravish her money and dump her, what would that be called?
Silver-digging.
Re: Why Is Gold-digging More Of A Woman Thing? by Nobody: 8:39am On Dec 26, 2014
VickyyB:
Stereotyped definition.

Some women are allergic to broke arsè. wink
Same way you might dump your girlfriend for a better one. smiley

Same way some guys are cheap...

Phew! Marriage is overated. smiley
I respect your muscles cool
Re: Why Is Gold-digging More Of A Woman Thing? by tosyne2much(m): 8:40am On Dec 26, 2014
chibwike:
Silver-digging.
Chibwike I here congratulate you in advance for FP grin
Re: Why Is Gold-digging More Of A Woman Thing? by UjSizzle(f): 8:40am On Dec 26, 2014
Depends on what you define as 'gold'.

There's money, sex, beauty, intelligence and just good 'ole company. All with the aim of enjoying without giving back in proportional measure.

I believe both men and women are guilty of this.
Re: Why Is Gold-digging More Of A Woman Thing? by tosyne2much(m): 8:40am On Dec 26, 2014
chibwike:
Silver-digging.
Chibwike I hereby congratulate you in advance for FP grin
Re: Why Is Gold-digging More Of A Woman Thing? by ROZZAYY(f): 8:41am On Dec 26, 2014
VickyyB:
Hahaha!

They both enjoyed the sex. Stop give yourself hope that you used her. smiley
Atleast, you did the stressful work.
Hmmm dis lass reminds me of my former moniker. She s gud!
Re: Why Is Gold-digging More Of A Woman Thing? by Nobody: 8:41am On Dec 26, 2014
tosyne2much:
what do you mean by the bolded. Could you pls elucidate ?
Woman represents mortar.
Man represents pistol.

Pistol waste energy while pounding mortar.
I'm not going to elucidate further more. Bye grin
Re: Why Is Gold-digging More Of A Woman Thing? by chibwike(op): 8:42am On Dec 26, 2014
tosyne2much:
Chibwike I hereby congratulate you in advance for FP grin
Lol...hw u take knw say e go make FP
Re: Why Is Gold-digging More Of A Woman Thing? by tosyne2much(m): 8:43am On Dec 26, 2014
VickyyB:
Woman represents mortar.
Man represents pistol.

Pistol waste energy while pounding mortar.
I'm not going to elucidate further more. Bye grin
I thought you said you are ______ ? How did you get to know that ? wink
Re: Why Is Gold-digging More Of A Woman Thing? by Nobody: 8:44am On Dec 26, 2014
ROZZAYY:
Hmmm dis lass reminds me of my former moniker. She s gud!
They stereotyped everything, thinking they enjoy it more while we are an object. grin
Re: Why Is Gold-digging More Of A Woman Thing? by tosyne2much(m): 8:44am On Dec 26, 2014
chibwike:
Lol...hw u take knw say e go make FP
make we dey look na grin
Re: Why Is Gold-digging More Of A Woman Thing? by Nobody: 8:45am On Dec 26, 2014
tosyne2much:
I thought you said you are ______ ? How did you get to know that ? wink
My biology class wasn't that bad. wink
Re: Why Is Gold-digging More Of A Woman Thing? by chibwike(op): 8:48am On Dec 26, 2014
ERCROSS:
Yes naa...
It because ladies r naturally endowed with instruments nd weapons to do the digging...
instruments like?
Re: Why Is Gold-digging More Of A Woman Thing? by tpia0003: 8:50am On Dec 26, 2014
chibwike:
Am kinda confused about this...why is it that when it comes to gold-digging...we always refer to women....are they the only ones that practice the act....

Do guys also practice the act.
yes.
Re: Why Is Gold-digging More Of A Woman Thing? by chibwike(op): 8:52am On Dec 26, 2014
Mynd44:
A lot of the folks here have some kind of people they wont date. I know a girl who won't date an Igbo guy. I know some girl who won't date a black man I know some woman who can't marry a man without at least a Bsc and no one has condemned them yet but when it becomes money you people start running around and opening threads.

From a cat without a grin
i dnt get u
Re: Why Is Gold-digging More Of A Woman Thing? by ROZZAYY(f): 8:52am On Dec 26, 2014
VickyyB:
They stereotyped everything, thinking they enjoy it more while we are an object. grin
Abi o, unfortunately I don't comment anymore on dese kind of threads. The only thing I'd say is, I know this thread is abt ladies again, but let me remind u all, yea yea ladies r gold diggers, the guys who marry ladies who we feel r gold diggers, like dere was one on celeb(forgotten her name, a model) he s old and ugly she s pweety and young, obviously she s in for d cash, most of d ugly old men who marry extremely buotiful ladies, who r prolly in it for d cash.
Sorry to burst ur bubbles, the guys know dat d ladies r dere for d money but dey aren't complaining, so make una stop to dey drink panadol for people headache, men or women who r with whomeva dey call golddiggers know dat the person is wit dem for d wrong reason but dey choose to stay, and dats nobody s business.
Let's stop d female bashing on nland abeg. Akpuom!
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