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Re: Would You Accept A Break Up Gift? by bigiyaro(m): 11:07pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
U mean if you are married, u will need a divorce to enable u focus on personal issues or whatever? If you don't love the the guy anymore, for whatever slime reason, just get the hell out of his life. Don't try to leave the back door open with your pathetic 40k incase u want to come back in. Trust me, he will pick up the pieces n move on, it will be as if you were never there. 7 Likes |
Re: Would You Accept A Break Up Gift? by stigman(m): 11:08pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
Women, if it is the man now, it will be all men are the same, the truth is that you are leaving him because he is broke 7 Likes |
Re: Would You Accept A Break Up Gift? by boxer022(m): 11:08pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
This is a very delicate case. I want you to understand one thing, the fact that you started your relationship from friendship is very lovely and I like that. The problem there is that there is no way a guy who graduated with his friend from friendship to relationship cannot agree to go back to just been friends. That apart, the fact that you decided to make some changes in your person life should not affect your relationship as there might be a situation where you might need some kind of encouragement from someone close to your heart. I want you to forget completely about the breakup gift you are planning to give him as he might misunderstand your intention for giving it to himv and might also see it as a bribe for him to leave you as he is facing financial problems. If you really love him as you sasy then continue the relationship and make whatever adjustment you need to make to your personal life. 3 Likes |
Re: Would You Accept A Break Up Gift? by Nobody: 11:09pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
nieema:I understand...I really do. But its just cos u no longer envisage both of u together. Wen u both tell each other I love u, u feel like u don't love him as much as he does. Like your lyin to him and to urself. Let's be sincere and 4get about the refocus of a tin...after all u no be pastor. Its not like u have a ministry ahead of u. |
Re: Would You Accept A Break Up Gift? by Nobody: 11:09pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
ireneony: yea! Got it . Mayb d MOD does not get tins d way u do 1 Like |
Re: Would You Accept A Break Up Gift? by Nobody: 11:11pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
Who gives break up gifts lol thats the first . It must be the guilt 2 Likes |
Re: Would You Accept A Break Up Gift? by Nobody: 11:11pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
40k? Well, that can get me Recharge card 1 Like |
Re: Would You Accept A Break Up Gift? by mizzy007(m): 11:12pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
If its a car YES I will accept 3 Likes |
Re: Would You Accept A Break Up Gift? by Dannylux: 11:12pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
It's not just easy to return with being friends with a lover who you still have affection for. It can hardly work unless you've totally lost interest. Wth is a break up gift? to soothe his pain or something? If you intend to help him out with his financial difficulties kindly do so, and please do not call it "A Break Up Gift"... Who does that? |
Re: Would You Accept A Break Up Gift? by inme: 11:13pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
nieema: @Bolded, this is the reason why you want to end the relationship, forget the long story If he was doing well and have all the money to lavish on you, you would never want to leave his side for a moment. Money over everything, I mean EVERYTHING 10 Likes |
Re: Would You Accept A Break Up Gift? by watchindelta(m): 11:13pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
I will reject it. but anything make me take it, i will gv u one hot one b4 u go surely am telling u. |
Re: Would You Accept A Break Up Gift? by Nobody: 11:13pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
Dannylux: Exactly lol never heard of that . Its actually insulting if u ask me. 2 Likes |
Re: Would You Accept A Break Up Gift? by onadana: 11:15pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
What are you saying tell us the truth.....you are tired of the broke guy..not that there is anythng wrong with that....i wonder what you want to fix with yourself.Its your choice babe....regardless of our advice.....its your call. 1 Like |
Re: Would You Accept A Break Up Gift? by miriamgroove: 11:16pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
Seriously... If u were in the guys shoe, hw il u feel? 2 Likes |
Re: Would You Accept A Break Up Gift? by sulmeza(m): 11:17pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
OlamiB:lol..dat's d major reason am followin her...d day she changes is d day i'l unfollow her..lol 1 Like |
Re: Would You Accept A Break Up Gift? by Holuwarsweun(m): 11:17pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
serioui if I were d guy I no go accept am 1 Like |
Re: Would You Accept A Break Up Gift? by F22RAPTOR(m): 11:17pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
nieema:you think you can eat your cake and have it? try harder 5 Likes |
Re: Would You Accept A Break Up Gift? by Gakin95: 11:18pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
Tell him the truth,you have someone else who is distracting you,the most annoying thing you posted us that he us in financial difficulty therefore you will bribe him with 40k...........Rubbish!!!!! i'd rather become a pope 4 Likes |
Re: Would You Accept A Break Up Gift? by nobullshit(m): 11:18pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
nieema: If that is the case, delete the term " BREAKUP" off ur mind sweetie because, after every breakup, the measurement arent likely to be same when trying to measure up after the breakup therefore, try making him understand that, u just want to focus on something personal for now. THAT IS, IF UR SURE THAT HE TRULY LOVES YOU IF NOT, SHATTER-OFF NOT JUST BREAKUP. |
Re: Would You Accept A Break Up Gift? by Nobody: 11:19pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
Nairalane:hahaha...but its true shaaa... 1 Like |
Re: Would You Accept A Break Up Gift? by tomiobj(m): 11:20pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
Afrobasic:Abi o |
Re: Would You Accept A Break Up Gift? by damola1: 11:22pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
9 out of 10 problems are money related. A man must address money issues. 'Love' as it's called, is simply an emotional feeling that flourishes when in the midst of constant cash flow!... Small issue madam get, she just think am, let me just do away with all the wahalas in my life, include this guy, let me just dey my lane until i fix this other issue. But if the man na correct bobo wey load wella, nna men, na asset, so, lai lai... drop am ke?...In fact his presence alone will help me solve this issue I found myself in. You know notice, the babe even believe say in the future when she don settle her matter, she go still meet the guy for there, to show you how much the guy rely on the girl.... Men, should be smart, money answereth all things! 4 Likes |
Re: Would You Accept A Break Up Gift? by obowunmi(m): 11:26pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
In 2012, I gifted an ex- 100,000 naira. She thought we would get married, she cried.... now she's married with a son. She moved on and I felt at peace. |
Re: Would You Accept A Break Up Gift? by shinechinedu(m): 11:26pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
May God never allow me to come across any lady like you! Gosh your heartlessness is on a new level. What more can I say? Too much of hollywood 2 Likes |
Re: Would You Accept A Break Up Gift? by Coolguy89(m): 11:27pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
Jboy8844:yea real love is priceless 1 Like |
Re: Would You Accept A Break Up Gift? by diamondoluwole: 11:28pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
[color=#550000][/color]To my own opinion, is like the guy is not meet up to your need that's why you're using some excuses to end the relationship. Can't you just continue the relationship but tell him you need to focus on some things. If you really love him you know need to end it @ all.. Just let him knw you have higher priorities for now and that he should understand that you really love him. Its important that he knows you still love him that's just it. Smiles tomiobj: 1 Like |
Re: Would You Accept A Break Up Gift? by Nobody: 11:29pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
OP, it is one thing to break up with a guy primarily because he has financial problems (i know that is probably why you are breaking up with him) and it is a bigger insult to try to offer him money as a parting gift! Move on to the next guy you have found and leave the guy to nurse his wounds. I ain't buying that your story of needing space cos i know another man is involved and he was the one who gave you the 40k to pay the guy off. WOMEN!! 10 Likes |
Re: Would You Accept A Break Up Gift? by seedorfg(m): 11:30pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
Uhm how i wish busayo could just give me a breakup gift , lobatan, 1 Like |
Re: Would You Accept A Break Up Gift? by Coolguy89(m): 11:30pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
You need to focus on somthing,wats dat thing dat is so important than love of ur life,if u r just tire of him tell him or u found someone else dats it. |
Re: Would You Accept A Break Up Gift? by tosinendowed(m): 11:31pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
fuckshit:where did dis one come from.....fu ck kor spoon ni |
Re: Would You Accept A Break Up Gift? by holluwai(m): 11:33pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
@op say the truth...... You've met someone else. It's usually hard for a woman to just walk away from a relationship esp when it's been for 2yrs. The guy no long catches you fantasy...period! |
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