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Re: Is Checking Your Spouse's Phone Wrong? by Nobody: 7:42pm On Dec 28, 2014

People always talk about this blind trust I don't understand, i don't see how your partner going through your phone proves lack of trust. Why will you be worried about being trusted or not if you are really trust worthy? Abeg to each his own jare.

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Re: Is Checking Your Spouse's Phone Wrong? by Dyt(f): 7:46pm On Dec 28, 2014

Tallesty1:
laughing my lungs out.

You are responsible for whatever happens to my ribs this evening.

*can't just stop laughing*

Not yet

One asked me if it contains kimberlite
I was like what's that
He said can I dig diamond there
I said before nko
Raw diamond

Re: Is Checking Your Spouse's Phone Wrong? by Dyt(f): 7:51pm On Dec 28, 2014

bukatyne:
Ok

Draw a clear line between business and pleasure

If they see you are married, that should scare them to back off if conditions are right.

I do not think it is healthy for there to be a lot of admirers at This stage.

Hahahaha
Infact they prefer married women
Both single/engaged and married men, u wld be surprised how they flock arnd looking for prey

I am not distracted as I am and been used to it

Re: Is Checking Your Spouse's Phone Wrong? by TrishaP(f): 8:29pm On Dec 28, 2014

Tallesty1:
Is it advisable to keep what will hurt your partner in your phone?

Not advisable

Re: Is Checking Your Spouse's Phone Wrong? by Tallesty1(op): 8:52pm On Dec 28, 2014

Dyt:
Not yet

One asked me if it contains kimberlite
I was like what's that
He said can I dig diamond there
I said before nko
Raw diamond

Epic.

Lmao............

Re: Is Checking Your Spouse's Phone Wrong? by Tallesty1(op): 8:59pm On Dec 28, 2014

byvan:
No wonder divorce will keep soaring even higher, no faithful couple will attach much to their device. The day my spouse starts complaining about my touching his phone, i don't need a diviner to tell me that the marriage is gone.

Exactly.

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Re: Is Checking Your Spouse's Phone Wrong? by Emaprince: 9:05pm On Dec 28, 2014

byvan:
If you are not hiding something, why will you be worried about your phone being checked?

you are the only woman that made sense here!

I thought women are the ones that love to go through their men's phones all time but they are here advicing others to stay away if they want to live long..smh..I'm very sure they don't do what they preach here..

People who protect their phones has something diry going on..

"What you don't know won't kill you"..until HIV catch you..

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Re: Is Checking Your Spouse's Phone Wrong? by Nobody: 9:13pm On Dec 28, 2014

Emaprince:
you are the only woman that made sense here!

I thought women are the ones that love to go through their men's phones all time but they are here advicing others to stay away if they want to live long..smh..I'm very sure they don't do what they preach here..

People who protect their phones has something diry going on..

"What you don't know won't kill you"..until HIV catch you..

Exactly, the whole "if you want to live long" BS makes no sense, you wont worry about your phone if you aren't hiding something. Some throw the " You don't trust your spouse card " to escape confronting the fact that their spouse is cheating and they did rather shy away from that fact. This advice of what you don't know won't kill you is a dangerous one, i rather know and tailor my life accordingly, no one died .

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Re: Is Checking Your Spouse's Phone Wrong? by Infomizer(m): 11:02pm On Dec 28, 2014

Na my spouse ba? Why should I mind?

Re: Is Checking Your Spouse's Phone Wrong? by bukatyne(f): 8:24am On Dec 29, 2014

Dyt:
Hahahaha
Infact they prefer married women
Both single/engaged and married men, u wld be surprised how they flock arnd looking for prey

I am not distracted as I am and been used to it

Re: Is Checking Your Spouse's Phone Wrong? by nickxtra(m): 3:13pm On Dec 29, 2014

You go wound o!

Re: Is Checking Your Spouse's Phone Wrong? by tammie24: 11:24pm On Dec 29, 2014

If u want to be free to do whatever u want whenever u want to, don't get married!

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Re: Is Checking Your Spouse's Phone Wrong? by Tallesty1(op): 5:32am On Dec 30, 2014

tammie24:
If u want to be free to do whatever u want whenever u want to, don't get married!

Re: Is Checking Your Spouse's Phone Wrong? by NifemiOlu(m): 6:35am On Dec 30, 2014

Tallesty1:
What are the things she is not supposed to check?

I'm an educational psychologist. I've pupils' sensitive information on my phone including parents' information. So in that case, she's not allowed to touch my phone. That applies to all professionals in behavioural sciences as clients' information is to be secret.

Re: Is Checking Your Spouse's Phone Wrong? by Rockstar07: 8:09am On Dec 30, 2014

kemiola89:
Like someone stated earlier it depends on your reasons for using your partner's phone, if it is just to make calls or browse then I have no problem with that.

Going through your partner's phone just to check their activities is not ideal for a healthy relationship.

Perhaps. Tho it's bad but it's a two way things anyway. A Man/Woman that has element of unfaithfully in their doings usually raise eye brow when their spouse is checking their phone.

Re: Is Checking Your Spouse's Phone Wrong? by reaky(m): 8:14am On Dec 30, 2014

After reading my girlfriend whatsapp chat
I die that night
When I resurrected
I was disappointed
Till today I have not recovered

Talking about married people pls if you want
To live long it's a no go area
Because you might not have d chance like me
Of resurrection

There is this married woman in my street
After I updated her whatsapp chats start coming in
To my surprise I opened one with d name semi(seminerian) On reading the chats I found out that they are sex mate

Tell me why d husband will not die if he checks her phone?

Re: Is Checking Your Spouse's Phone Wrong? by littlemistress: 1:20pm On Dec 30, 2014

I believe marriage should be a transparent entity. Though not married, as a matter of principle, I don't go through my man's phone. Not for anything. He goes through mine, he knows I've got admirers & I'm aware he has too but I believe snooping on his phone is unhealthy for my health! In marriage, I hope we can find each-other more trustworthy as to share everything & anything!

Re: Is Checking Your Spouse's Phone Wrong? by SAMBARRY: 1:29pm On Dec 30, 2014

Well

Re: Is Checking Your Spouse's Phone Wrong? by Nobody: 4:18pm On Dec 30, 2014

SAMBARRY:
Well

Lolz, say something about the topic

Re: Is Checking Your Spouse's Phone Wrong? by SAMBARRY: 4:30pm On Dec 30, 2014

brito:
Lolz, say something about the topic

NTA
nothing to add because previous posters have said it all

Re: Is Checking Your Spouse's Phone Wrong? by Nobody: 4:34pm On Dec 30, 2014

SAMBARRY:
NTA
nothing to add because previous posters have said it all

is it wrong or right?

Re: Is Checking Your Spouse's Phone Wrong? by Nobody: 4:57pm On Dec 30, 2014*

I don't think there's a right or wrong here. It depends on your perspective.

I don't like it myself. I value [my] privacy.

Re: Is Checking Your Spouse's Phone Wrong? by SAMBARRY: 5:18pm On Dec 30, 2014

brito:
Lolz, say something about the topic

to each their own. Some people may like the idea and some others may not

Re: Is Checking Your Spouse's Phone Wrong? by sheweezy(f): 7:25pm On Dec 30, 2014

From experience, better stay off, what you don't know won't kill you. Everytime I check my spouses phone i get heartbroken that it affects me for days, I just told myself if I want my marriage to last, no matter how tempted I am I won't check the phone. Gallery alone is heartbreakimg not to talk of messages. So my advice always keep off.

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