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Hi all, merry Xmas. I am actually 26 frm the eastern part of naija. I happened to be the 3rd born and only son of my parents. The rate at which they talk about me marrying has started to disgust me. Am in d village now and they are acting so desperate and asking everytime I return whether I have seen a wife?

I explained it to my mum that I haven't seen the right girl and even though I see, that I still have things to put in place financially and stablilze at work and all but she doesn't care about my side of reasoning.

It's just somehow and thier talk is making me feel as if I have a problem. Like e.g they say all my sisters are married including my junior one or that my cuz who is my mate is married with a son who is 3years.

Pls advice guys how can I handle this?

Come on! Marriage should be once in a lifetime,remeber rush in leads to rush out. Take you time with it.

obitee69:
Hi all, merry Xmas. I am actually 26 frm the eastern part of naija. I happened to be the 3rd born and only son of my parents. The rate at which they talk about me marrying has started to disgust me. Am in d village now and they are acting so desperate and asking everytime I return whether I have seen a wife?

I explained it to my mum that I haven't seen the right girl and even though I see, that I still have things to put in place financially and stablilze at work and all but she doesn't care about my side of reasoning.

It's just somehow and thier talk is making me feel as if I have a problem. Like e.g they say all my sisters are married including my junior one or that my cuz who is my mate is married with a son who is 3years.

Pls advice guys how can I handle this?

the same way u handle office/work pressure

obitee69:
Hi all, merry Xmas. I am actually 26 frm the eastern part of naija. I happened to be the 3rd born and only son of my parents. The rate at which they talk about me marrying has started to disgust me. Am in d village now and they are acting so desperate and asking everytime I return whether I have seen a wife?

I explained it to my mum that I haven't seen the right girl and even though I see, that I still have things to put in place financially and stablilze at work and all but she doesn't care about my side of reasoning.

It's just somehow and thier talk is making me feel as if I have a problem. Like e.g they say all my sisters are married including my junior one or that my cuz who is my mate is married with a son who is 3years.

Pls advice guys how can I handle this?

*Just passing by*

I don't know what to say...

Well...

You could just say you aren't ready. Its a phase and it will pass. The pressure will still die down. Whatever you do, do not rush into marriage.

You know I will really hate for you to be unhappy.

OP no mind dem oooo, if u rush go kick penalty, u go miss am oo.... Tak a deep breath lik CR7, move back wella lik messi, bend sideways lik hazard, look straight @ goal lik suarez, dem tak a good shot lik Gerard... I tell u, even if na manuel neuer dey dere, u go score... I hop u grab