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Re: So What Does A Lady Gain From A Broke Guy In A Relationship? by evesdon4u: 11:46am On Dec 29, 2014
Prexxy1:
they are caring.

Very caring...[color=#000099][/color][/b][b]
Re: So What Does A Lady Gain From A Broke Guy In A Relationship? by Mrsfaithhh: 11:53am On Dec 29, 2014
AreaFada2:



But prostitution is the norm these days na. It's not looks like. It is mostly.

The question exposes the materialistic nature of most girls now. Even many girls who say "I don't care about money" here on NL actually do care a lot in real life. Only few are bold enough to admit.

A girl "takes curtain" and bleep 20 men a day for money. Another meets up with several sugar daddies in various hotels for iphone6, BB or cash. Yet another bleeps her boss in the office for promotion or sleeps with clients to secure millions of deposit and meet target.
Even the one that expects cash anytime she bleeps her so called "boyfriend".

What do they all in common?

They all bleep for material gain, cash, favour or some other benefit = PROSTITUTION. Overt or covert.
And these women are prostituting with?.....M E N..
MEN+WOMEN=prostitutes

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Re: So What Does A Lady Gain From A Broke Guy In A Relationship? by evesdon4u: 11:59am On Dec 29, 2014
God! I just love Nairaland...You responses to this dumb question just made my day. You sure nailed it M'Lady...
Re: So What Does A Lady Gain From A Broke Guy In A Relationship? by Alvelt14(m): 11:59am On Dec 29, 2014
totally rubbish, everything is just wrong
Re: So What Does A Lady Gain From A Broke Guy In A Relationship? by dungburu: 12:00pm On Dec 29, 2014
Women believe love is sweet, but they prefer it with bread and butter. Moreover , they are like bank account, the more the money, the more the interest u get from them.
Re: So What Does A Lady Gain From A Broke Guy In A Relationship? by Sunshinelady(f): 12:01pm On Dec 29, 2014
AmberQueen:
How cliche...

No biggie tho. Provided he does not expect her to provide al his needs.

I bet his mother isn't dead.




. Gbam!
Re: So What Does A Lady Gain From A Broke Guy In A Relationship? by Nobody: 12:04pm On Dec 29, 2014
Richiy:
I don't know why girls have so much financial expectations from guys. Nobody is your father. Nobody has any responsibility towards you at all. If you have needs, ask and do not think it is your almighty right to receive.

It is everybody for themselves. Answer your fathers name. You mustnt except some boy, rich or poor to carry your burdens.

If you want to love somebody, love completely, remove unneeded expectations. Love is sweeter and easier that way.

Wow! And to think that this is coming from a lady gives me joy. Someone should marry this girl asap.

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Re: So What Does A Lady Gain From A Broke Guy In A Relationship? by Sunshinelady(f): 12:06pm On Dec 29, 2014
Mrsfaithhh:

1.No "sum1" musnt but "you" can date/marry a poor guy.
2.Don't u bliv dat a poor guy mite b forever poor?
3.Wat is d probability dat d poor guy will not continue to b poor?
Hop I answerd smiley
. grin
Re: So What Does A Lady Gain From A Broke Guy In A Relationship? by isacolukay(m): 12:08pm On Dec 29, 2014
What a lady stands to gain from a broke guy?


PREEK .

Studies have shown that a broke and idle man gains a harder erection and at a more frequent rate when compared to rich guys.

No wonder poor families tend to have more children compared to rich families.
Re: So What Does A Lady Gain From A Broke Guy In A Relationship? by abeylevels(m): 12:11pm On Dec 29, 2014
Ladies are quite amazing.

A similar post came up in which someone was asking what a guy gains from a relationship without sex.
A lot of ladies claim that sex is not love.
And if the guy loves you, he will not ask for sex. Or better still wait till wedding night.
The same should go for this post. If a Lady cannot give sex, then she should also not expect total financial responsibility from the guy. Gifts can be given by both parties but Ladies who dont give sex should also not expect the guy to lavish money in her.

We should encourage gifts from both sides. The lady should not say because she is schooling then she expect the guy to do all the giving.
A gift as small as a pen is good enough.
Lets not encourage a parasitic relationship.....
Re: So What Does A Lady Gain From A Broke Guy In A Relationship? by Sunshinelady(f): 12:11pm On Dec 29, 2014
Mrsfaithhh:

So rich guys give interrupted sex. Anyone who is willin can go for a poor guy but stop makin it look like goin for a rich guy makes one a badoo ,stop painting it like it always dosnt go well,stop sayin "what if he treats u like trash,he won't treat u well because he wld c u as his property" dats just misleading...well I hav observd most poor guys won't even do u goood cos they ar eida frustrated or insecure..wen u cough they say u want to leav dem cos they ar broke.. U won't even enjoy d rrelationship sef..I v bin there bfor..so y d stress wen u can b happy..my guy is rich and guess wat? He dosnt treat me like his property as u guys always claim rich guys do.
. U just read my mind. Poor guys are so insecure & jealous, if u r talkin to ur own brother dey culd assume u want to leave dem for ur brother cos dey r poor. D problem in datin a poor guy is mainly d attitude problems. There could be some good ones though
Re: So What Does A Lady Gain From A Broke Guy In A Relationship? by SkinnyDude(m): 12:17pm On Dec 29, 2014
Mcquine:
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for Nairaland
Re: So What Does A Lady Gain From A Broke Guy In A Relationship? by Sunshinelady(f): 12:19pm On Dec 29, 2014
Mrsfaithhh:

U make serious sense here.Not biased.dem wan take,dem no wan giv.I remained a virgin till I got married but if I tell u wetin all dis broke bottom boyfrends use my eyes see because they must bleep.they ar not offering anytin yet want to hav everytin.If u ar broke Guys den don't bug any lady who dosnt want sex in a relationship just d way she's sacrificin her enjoyment to b poor wit u sacrifice ur enjoyment for bleeping..ifa hearm.they wl bleep som oda chick still
. My sister am telling u. Its better to go for a comfortabl dude @least, or if u must date a broke dude just make sure he is sensible & mature. Cos many of dem carry wahala for head
Re: So What Does A Lady Gain From A Broke Guy In A Relationship? by felifeli: 12:20pm On Dec 29, 2014
Mrsfaithhh:
Guy:babe u knw I love U.
Babe;I knw honey.
Guy;I knw I can't giv u anytin . But I lov u.
Babe:tomorrw is my brtday
Guy: wow happy brtday in adv babe. U knw I'm broke wuld hav taken u out.
Babe: embarassed
So wat does a babe gain here?

Broke guys always have the biggest p3nis . Check them out ladies grin grin grin grin
Re: So What Does A Lady Gain From A Broke Guy In A Relationship? by Misogynist2014(m): 12:21pm On Dec 29, 2014
Foölish thread. Women abroad are hardworking, I'll be pleased if these 'women' can emulate the good ones. The situation is even worse than what we read on Nl. My money is my own, not ours, woe betide any lady that thinks I'm ATM. angry Who is that silly op?
Re: So What Does A Lady Gain From A Broke Guy In A Relationship? by Hamatrony(m): 12:22pm On Dec 29, 2014
lilmax:
What's the difference between poor and broke? You guys misuse words

Bein Poor means lackin sufficient money 2 live in a standard state while Broke means havin completely/partially run out of money

Wen poor, I tink it simply means u hardly av somtin 2 eat bt wen broke, it means wat u av wit u isn't enuf 2 carryout d task needed 4....I knw of a man, n few detailz concernin som of his acctz, I realised dat ds man do admit dat hez broke wen he has below #500k in his acctz lipsrsealed, I nw start 2 imagine dat ds man shuld just giv me #100k or even #50k n see wat am gonna mak out of dat fvckin money Bt wit dat amount of money, ds man cnt say hez "poor" bt "broke" undecided
Re: So What Does A Lady Gain From A Broke Guy In A Relationship? by carik(m): 12:22pm On Dec 29, 2014
Richiy:
I don't know why girls have so much financial expectations from guys. Nobody is your father. Nobody has any responsibility towards you at all. If you have needs, ask and do not think it is your almighty right to receive.

It is everybody for themselves. Answer your fathers name. You mustnt except some boy, rich or poor to carry your burdens.

If you want to love somebody, love completely, remove unneeded expectations. Love is sweeter and easier that way.

Gbam!

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Re: So What Does A Lady Gain From A Broke Guy In A Relationship? by Sarhamsyn(m): 12:24pm On Dec 29, 2014
lilmax:
What's the difference between poor and broke? You guys misuse words
Poor leds to broke and broke leds to poor.
Re: So What Does A Lady Gain From A Broke Guy In A Relationship? by SkinnyDude(m): 12:26pm On Dec 29, 2014
Tallesty1:
Broke people should stop thinking about relationship. The distractions alone will not allow them to concentrate and work harder.
when konji comes, how will they cope?
Re: So What Does A Lady Gain From A Broke Guy In A Relationship? by Mrsfaithhh: 12:30pm On Dec 29, 2014
Sunshinelady:
. U just read my mind. Poor guys are so insecure & jealous, if u r talkin to ur own brother dey culd assume u want to leave dem for ur brother cos dey r poor. D problem in datin a poor guy is mainly d attitude problems. There could be some good ones though
50% of d ladies here sayin dey don't mind hav never dated a poor guy, d oda 20% won't date dem in real life,but they can date dem wit dia comments on nl,d oda 20 % ar datin poor guys but won't marry dem if notin changes,just 1o% are sincere.
Hate me for being real.datin a poor guy?been there done dat,n never again .
NB:Poor guys;ur business shud b workin hard and gettin somtin not dating els u get so distracted.cos u r gona b "a provider wen u r married..so wen do u want to hustle hard? Wen u r married?
Re: So What Does A Lady Gain From A Broke Guy In A Relationship? by honfarouk(m): 12:31pm On Dec 29, 2014
You ladies are forgetting that no condition is permanent...... God can reverse the irreversible... mrs faithhh jst pray ur bf doesn`t go broke oooo
Re: So What Does A Lady Gain From A Broke Guy In A Relationship? by AreaFada2: 12:32pm On Dec 29, 2014
Mrsfaithhh:

And these women are prostituting with?.....M E N..
MEN+WOMEN=prostitutes
.

Well, men who patronise prostitutes are NOT called prostitutes.

Some guys don't know their adorable "girl friends" are in fact prostitutes.

Prostitution is so common now that 50% of firstborn kids don't belong to the man believed to be biological father.

30% of all kids don't belong to the man they believe to be biological father.

Research after research is showing that 9ja women are the most unfaithful.

Yes, it's easy to dismiss these studies as useless, biased, etc.

Femi Kuti found out a while ago via DNA test that that 2 of his kids don't belong to him.

We all still remember MKO Abiola's paternity case.

An acquaintance in Europe got a red face from embarrassment. DNA test needed to bring his only child in 9ja to Europe showed the child is not his. A child that just finished primary school.

The reason is simple. The constant quest for money and material goods. Lots of women believe men are the easiest source.

We can shift blame as we like BUT at the end of the day, some women make a conscious decision to sleep around.

Whether those they sleep around with are aliens, men or whatever is not relevant here.

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Re: So What Does A Lady Gain From A Broke Guy In A Relationship? by felifeli: 12:39pm On Dec 29, 2014
honfarouk:
You ladies are forgetting that no condition is permanent...... God can reverse the irreversible... mrs faithhh jst pray ur bf doesn`t go broke oooo

Bros yu are speaking like a broke guy. Tell truth are you broke ? grin grin grin
(Never mind ......
no condition is permanent ;....
the young shall grow, ....
monkey no fine but mama like am, ....
na poor I poor I no craze I no lazy ....
etc etc )

Say all of the above prayer points every morning when you wake up and every night before sleeping and it will be well with you grin grin grin grin
Re: So What Does A Lady Gain From A Broke Guy In A Relationship? by Mrsfaithhh: 12:45pm On Dec 29, 2014
AreaFada2:
.

Well, men who patronise prostitutes are NOT called prostitutes.

Some guys don't know their adorable "girl friends" are in fact prostitutes.

Prostitution is so common now that 50% of firstborn kids don't belong to the man believed to be biological father.

30% of all kids don't belong to the man they believe to be biological father.

Research after research is showing that 9ja women are the most unfaithful.

Yes, it's easy to dismiss these studies as useless, biased, etc.

Femi Kuti found out a while ago via DNA test that that 2 of his kids don't belong to him.

We all still remember MKO Abiola's paternity case.

An acquaintance in Europe got a red face from embarrassment. DNA test needed to bring his only child in 9ja to Europe showed the child is not his. A child that just finished primary school.

The reason is simple. The constant quest for money and material goods. Lots of women believe men are the easiest source.

We can shift blame as we like BUT at the end of the day, some women make a conscious decision to sleep around.

Whether those they sleep they with are aliens, men or whatever is not relevant here.
So men who sleep wit prostitutes ar not called prostitutes..ok. So wat ar dey called?Nigerian women ar d most unfaithful and nigerian men ar the most faithful? Enjoy Deceiving ursef biko

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Re: So What Does A Lady Gain From A Broke Guy In A Relationship? by honfarouk(m): 12:50pm On Dec 29, 2014
felifeli:


Bros yu are speaking like a broke guy. Tell truth are you broke ? grin grin grin
(Never mind ......
no condition is permanent ;....
the young shall grow, ....
monkey no fine but mama like am, ....
na poor I poor I no craze I no lazy ....
etc etc )

Say all of the above prayer points every morning when you wake up and every night before sleeping and it will be well with you grin grin grin grin

I PRAY SAY I BROKE OOOO.... i was in dat shoe, b4 the life changer came. So trust me am far from broke. bUt what am tryin to say here is dat no condition is permanent, your President is from a broken home nt broke home, dey had nothing but look at him today... so make una encourage dem... enough said abeg
Re: So What Does A Lady Gain From A Broke Guy In A Relationship? by AreaFada2: 12:56pm On Dec 29, 2014
Mrsfaithhh:

So men who sleep wit prostitutes ar not called prostitutes..ok. So wat ar dey called?Nigerian women ar d most unfaithful and nigerian men ar the most faithful? Enjoy Deceiving ursef biko
.

Well, perhaps you're not a scholarly or scientific person. If you're you would know meaning of research.

You can commission a research into Nigerian men and how they rank against men from other countries.

The latest research about women, ranking 9ja as the worst was carried out on behalf of Durex, the condom maker.

So deal with the message NOT the messenger.

Or urge KY-Jelly to do same for men worldwide. grin cheesy
Re: So What Does A Lady Gain From A Broke Guy In A Relationship? by Rexnegro(m): 12:57pm On Dec 29, 2014
Mrsfaithhh:
Guy:babe u knw I love U.
Babe;I knw honey.
Guy;I knw I can't giv u anytin . But I lov u.
Babe:tomorrw is my brtday
Guy: wow happy brtday in adv babe. U knw I'm broke wuld hav taken u out.
Babe: embarassed
So wat does a babe gain here?
Ask google wetin d babe gain...as if in a relationship there's a law that says the guys will be the only one always giving. Nigeria girls ? Stingy set of breeds ....

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Re: So What Does A Lady Gain From A Broke Guy In A Relationship? by queebeediva(f): 1:00pm On Dec 29, 2014
I wonder why dating a broke guy as you guys called it should be a problem. If he is broke financially dat doesn't mean he is broke in heart or God has completely deny him if he is hardworking. If the female in question love him despart his financal constrain how does it concen anyone? love is pure and with true love noting is impossible . But sha some guys just wasting their self no future ambition and yet thinks they will make million someday my bro na only you waka come. Lastly a good relationship should be supportive of eachother .
Re: So What Does A Lady Gain From A Broke Guy In A Relationship? by Nobody: 1:07pm On Dec 29, 2014
Money is to women as sex is to men.

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Re: So What Does A Lady Gain From A Broke Guy In A Relationship? by Nobody: 1:13pm On Dec 29, 2014
vizkiz:
why should the guy supply all her needs??

Is her father dead

And btw, its suppose to be a relationship not a Job oppurtunityundecided
Gbam!
Re: So What Does A Lady Gain From A Broke Guy In A Relationship? by stanisbaratheon: 1:14pm On Dec 29, 2014
Richiy:
I don't know why girls have so much financial expectations from guys. Nobody is your father. Nobody has any responsibility towards you at all. If you have needs, ask and do not think it is your almighty right to receive.

It is everybody for themselves. Answer your fathers name. You mustnt except some boy, rich or poor to carry your burdens.

If you want to love somebody, love completely, remove unneeded expectations. Love is sweeter and easier that way.




1000000000000000000 likes for this piece please

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Re: So What Does A Lady Gain From A Broke Guy In A Relationship? by MoraxLanre(m): 1:17pm On Dec 29, 2014
when that rich boy use them and dumb those mumun girl that is chasing or looking for Rich guys, they will now started chasing that broke guy here and there.

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