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Proposing On 31st. Help Needed! Should I Make It Private Or Public? by tkconcept(op): 3:26pm On Dec 29, 2014
I prefer suggestions from the ladies particularly. I plan to propose to my girlfriend on the last day of this year. while we were talking smtime ago she said smthing that made it seem she prefers a private proposal just the guy and the girl. But i feel a public proposal will be more romantic and trilling. (public as in a few of her friends and a few of mine just to witness). Tnx in anticipation. smiley
Re: Proposing On 31st. Help Needed! Should I Make It Private Or Public? by MayflowerB(f): 3:30pm On Dec 29, 2014
I think d public proposal will do.....dont worry she'll end up loving it.
Re: Proposing On 31st. Help Needed! Should I Make It Private Or Public? by LogoDWhiz(m): 3:34pm On Dec 29, 2014
Take her to the top of a mountain!
Its public and its private!


Gals like public stunts like this.
Makes it memorable.

Just don't overdo it!

But if she seem cool with private. Make it private!

Different strokes for different folks
Re: Proposing On 31st. Help Needed! Should I Make It Private Or Public? by tkconcept(op): 3:36pm On Dec 29, 2014
LogoDWhiz:
Take her to the top of a mountain!
Its public and its private!


Gals like public stunts like this.
Makes it memorable.

Just don't overdo it!

But if she seem cool with private. Make it private!

Different strokes for different folks
lool, and come to think about it, there are alot of mountains in Jos oh!
Re: Proposing On 31st. Help Needed! Should I Make It Private Or Public? by Creamish(f): 3:37pm On Dec 29, 2014
If she gave u a hint on privacy, then i think datz ur cue. U may end up being the only person who appreciates the public proposal at d end of the day. Best u can do is a couple of ur very close friends if u must insist on a public proposal...(a few of dem preferably just so it still somehow conforms to a private affair & since ur all close pals, she wont feel embarrassed..)

U know a private proposal could still be thrilling...it all depends on how u do it. U can take her out the whole day (spa, beach, bowling etc) and cap it all at an evening dinner/ movie (ring in popcorn pack), anything..

Nwayz congrats on taking d bold step & goodluck too! wink
Re: Proposing On 31st. Help Needed! Should I Make It Private Or Public? by LogoDWhiz(m): 3:43pm On Dec 29, 2014
tkconcept:
lool, and come to think about it, there are alot of mountains in Jos oh!
Lol. Na so
Re: Proposing On 31st. Help Needed! Should I Make It Private Or Public? by veave(f): 3:49pm On Dec 29, 2014
If she wants private, make it private. Don't gaaan do one public thing and fall your hand oh...
Re: Proposing On 31st. Help Needed! Should I Make It Private Or Public? by tkconcept(op): 3:51pm On Dec 29, 2014
Creamish:
If she gave u a hint on privacy, then i think datz ur cue. U may end up being the only person who appreciates the public proposal at d end of the day. Best u can do is a couple of ur very close friends if u must insist on a public proposal...(a few of dem preferably just so it still somehow conforms to a private affair & since ur all close pals, she wont feel embarrassed..)

U know a private proposal could still be thrilling...it all depends on how u do it. U can take her out the whole day (spa, beach, bowling etc) and cap it all at an evening dinner/ movie (ring in popcorn pack), anything..

Nwayz congrats on taking d bold step & goodluck too! wink
wow! u are just a bloody romantic! i was about to say yes oh! then i remembered u were not proposing lool. tnx
Re: Proposing On 31st. Help Needed! Should I Make It Private Or Public? by Nobody: 4:00pm On Dec 29, 2014
Is she shy,if yes.....just do it privately,she wl appreciate
Re: Proposing On 31st. Help Needed! Should I Make It Private Or Public? by Creamish(f): 4:15pm On Dec 29, 2014
tkconcept:
wow! u are just a bloody romantic! i was about to say yes oh! then i remembered u were not proposing lool. tnx
lolz... uwc smiley
Re: Proposing On 31st. Help Needed! Should I Make It Private Or Public? by Nobody:
for example if I want to propose to kristiana1,I will invite her and chibwike and tallesty1 and naijaboiy and marieolae and some few nairalanders to France and also our parents will be present,I will kneel and propose to her in a restaurant in France with something she will never forget in her life.
Re: Proposing On 31st. Help Needed! Should I Make It Private Or Public? by Nobody: 4:34pm On Dec 29, 2014
I feel public proposal is a setup. How does 1 reject it if pple are watching and expectin u to say yes? Plz since she has given u a hint, stick to private o. Just make sure its very romantic and something she'll always remember and smile.
Re: Proposing On 31st. Help Needed! Should I Make It Private Or Public? by Tallesty1(m): 5:28pm On Dec 29, 2014
Unibenstudent:
for example if I want to propose to kristiana1,I will invite her and chibwike and tallesty1 and naijaboiy and marieolae and some few nairalanders to France and also our parents will be present,I will kneel and propose to her in a restaurant in France with something she will never forget in her life.
I won't show
Re: Proposing On 31st. Help Needed! Should I Make It Private Or Public? by Nobody: 5:30pm On Dec 29, 2014
Tallesty1:
I won't show
seriously brother u have to be there..u will flown in with with a private jet piloted by the best pilots in town.
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