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Like they say, those that fails to prepare are preparing to fail. This is so true when it comes to marriage. How prepared are you as a single lady or a guy for marriage? Let me say this, one of the reasons why many marriage are breaking today, is as a result of lack of preparation for it. People rush into marriage without adequate preparation for it. The high rate of divorce we experience today can be traced to the same issue of preparation. You don't prepare in marriage, you prepare for marriage. Now that you are single is the best time to prepare for marriage. You have to be developing yourself for that stage in your life.

As a lady, how prepared are you for marriage? Some ladies today are busy painting their fingers, frying their hair, wearing butt pad, fixing nails and living artificial life instead of them to preparing for marriage. Some ladies did not even know how to cook, some don't know how to wash their dress and iron it let alone a man's own. When so many ladies are saying they cannot knee down to apologise to their husband, when many of them are still dating 4 to 10 guys at the same time, when many of them have not read one book on marriage and how to raise a family, it shows that they are not prepared yet for marriage. Many ladies today have serious bad habits and they want to take it to marriage. I just pity them. As a single lady, now is the time to prepare for marriage. Don't wait till u get married before u start to prepare. Prepare now.

As a guy, how prepared are u for marriage? How are you building yourself for it? Are you just doing low waist, smoking, drinking, womanising and galivanting all over the place without preparing for marriage? How are you planning to be financially stable when married? How are you preparing to be a good father that will not be a disgrace as the head of the home? How many books have u read on how to take care of your wife and kids and to be a good husband? How are u mentally, physically and spiritually building yourself as a guy? U think marriage is a joke? As a guy, now is the time to prepare.

Many people rush into marriage and their marriage crash within one year. Some marriages did not even survive six months because of lack of preparation.
Prepare now to avoid regret.
We should know that marriage also is not for kids but for adult. Not for boys, but for men, not for girls but for women. Not for the immature but for the matured. Start preparing now.

we really want to prepare sir! but there is yet to be a flow of income.
I rep d unemployed youth.

I'm not prepared for marriage. After graduating by 20 and get my M.sc, becomes employed. I would start at 23.

Prepare ni...

when marriage turn exam abi job interview?

Even those who over prepared are reportedly divorced
Others who hate the word divorced are living like aliens..Some living under one roof are not in greeting terms,neither dose things in common.
Some under one roof pass message to each other through letters,sms or through househelps.
May the Almighty who instituted marriage led wholeheartedly in this eternal investment called marriage..Without him the centre cannot hold!

10%.

Still have a lot of do.

LogoDWhiz:
10%.

Still have a lot of do.

ok.

kristina1:
Marriage no dey my mind for now,,education first,employment follows,,,then i can think of marriage

What if there is a man ready to give you the education and employment and all he just want from you is your hand in marriage

Nah nah.I swear to Gad,if I never make 1 billion am not wedding no body.

3DCYCLOPS:
Prepare ni...

when marriage turn exam abi job interview?

if u dnt prepare for marriage, u will fail when u get there. Ur marriage will nt last. Marriage is more serious than an exam or interview. Exam or interview can be just one day, but marriage is for life till death do u part. So, u have to prepare for it. People whose marriage are running 40years now prepares for it. They know what marriage is all about.

5%

Unibenstudent:
Nah nah.I swear to Gad,if I never make 1 billion am not wedding no body.

i am not talking about unrealistic dream.

2SWT:
5%

upgrade to at least 90%.

clevvermind:
i am not talking about unrealistic dream.

so dangote and otedola and co were never once like me ryt?

Unibenstudent:
so dangote and otedola and co were never once like me ryt?

they were once like you but they did not have that kind of money before they got married. do u know what is one billion naira?

clevvermind:
they were once like you but they did not have that kind of money before they got married. do u what is one billion naira?

10 of 100 million naira notes,if only u know what oil money is.

kristina1:
My brother,,he has to wait,if he mean business....cos am not changing my plans at all

My sister, am ready to do all that and i will wait.. Now let me rephrase the question

Will you marry me

kristina1:
Even if you mean it seriously,,the answer will still be no and i guess you r jokin

I was joking.. But it proves my point that you ......

kristina1:
Even if you mean it seriously,,the answer will still be no and i guess you r jokin

Ouch! That hurts.


*Brings out white handkerchief like Buhari*
One more falling hand, Kristy, and I'll lose it.

Ain't prepared for marriage so i din read everything;yah

JoeCutie:
Ouch! That hurts.


*Brings out white handkerchief like Buhari*
One more falling hand, Kristy, and I'll lose it.

My cutie.......i no go fall ur hand

clevvermind:
upgrade to at least 90%.

yyy??

Newkidoo:
I was joking.. But it proves my point that you ......

Finish ur statement nau

Newkidoo:
What if there is a man ready to give you the education and employment and all he just want from you is your hand in marriage

Hian. She didn't say she cant afford an education. She wants to get it first.

Kristina1; my dear you are on the right path. That is part of the preparation

Unibenstudent:
Nah nah.I swear to Gad,if I never make 1 billion am not wedding no body.

Oga this your talk ehhhhhhhhh

kristina1:
Finish ur statement nau

You are an independent girl!!!

Am very prepared