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She comes to your house on a visit for the
first time, You both get along together, Laughing and sharing life experiences. Then it was getting dark and therefore time for her to go home, But it has started
raining heavily. So she waited until it was late. You both decide she stays for the night. And both of you slept on the same bed WITHOUT ANYTHING HAPPENING (No Sex). Later in the morning, She dresses up and leaves while you wave her goodbye.
The next day, while you both are talking on phone, you ask her when next she ll visit you, Then she asks you;
VISIT ? THE ONE I CAME, WHAT DID YOU DO ?
And now she doesn't give the guy attention again . always busy to pick calls sef
!! QUESTION::
What do you think ?
Was the guy WISE in not sexing her
or Otherwise
what should the guy do after this kinda situation

Thats what you get for being a dulloyo... Dumbraye..



who told you she didnt have an umbrella in her bag ehn..lol

The guy was not wrong for not sexing her. He was simply being respectful but she had other ideas. I guess he misread the situation and he needs to find a way to get her to come back so he can blow her back out and then dump her ass.

she is a LovePeddler,,thats all

that's why i keep telling guy 'don't dull'.... fvck respect.... she had an umbrella in ha bag but still decided to stay behind.... d dude na dulling guy jare... even if na pastor, abi hin bruhaha no dey work

25omega:
The guy was not wrong for not sexing her. He was simply being respectful but she had other ideas. I guess he misread the situation and he needs to find a way to get her to come back so he can blow her back out and then dump her ass.

Exactly.

Kimmo:
Exactly.

sounds like you are the "hit the nail straight to the head" type.
you really think she deserve that? awesome.

Good riddance!

She has demonstrated that she is not particularly interested in you but in something else.

Its not clear from your OP that she wants sex but the fact that she ain't interested in your person is crystal clear.

25omega:
The guy was not wrong for not sexing her. He was simply being respectful but she had other ideas. I guess he misread the situation and he needs to find a way to get her to come back so he can blow her back out and then dump her ass.

That's a very crude way of thinking brah.

striktlymi:
That's a very crude way of thinking brah.

you are totally right but read the story. the girl wanted sex and she ended up not talking to him because he respected her.

If I were the guy, I would














... Sleep on the couch while she takes the bed. Life does not revolves around sexxx.

Deshannel:
sounds like you are the "hit the nail straight to the head" type.
you really think she deserve that? awesome.

Absolutely. If I were in her shoes, I'd expect the OP to behave the respectable way he did. And it might be the start of a nice relationship.
And if she was so overcome by lust, she should have made a move. Not expect the guy to magically know she was an easy lay and make a move.

Kimmo:
Absolutely. If I were in her shoes, I'd expect the OP to behave the respectable way he did. And it might be the start of a nice relationship.
And if she was so overcome by lust, she should have made a move. Not expect the guy to magically know she was an easy lay and make a move.

Though I'm not trying to generalise, I guess women have it inborn in them that men are suppose to magically know when they want it, and should also be the one to always initiate the "event".
Anything otherwise will make them cheap and worthless

25omega:
The guy was not wrong for not sexing her. He was simply being respectful but she had other ideas. I guess he misread the situation and he needs to find a way to get her to come back so he can blow her back out and then dump her ass.

But she is not giving attention again ... aw person go cum tak get her

3DCYCLOPS:
Thats what you get for being a dulloyo... Dumbraye..

who told you she didnt have an umbrella in her bag ehn..lol

its not a matter of bin mumu and she doesn't have umbrella ....

achinaboy:
she is a LovePeddler,,thats all

so ways ur advise

hfinest1:
that's why i keep telling guy 'don't dull'.... fvck respect.... she had an umbrella in ha bag but still decided to stay behind.... d dude na dulling guy jare... even if na pastor, abi hin bruhaha no dey work

she doesn't have an umbrella nd ofcourse it ways just a way of respecting her so she wouldn't feel otherwise of bin taken advantage of

Kimmo:
Exactly.

they question is how do u get back someone wey no dry giv u attention again .... she don dey look else wer na

Deshannel:
sounds like you are the "hit the nail straight to the head" type.
you really think she deserve that? awesome.

so u fink she dersev to get screwed right ?

striktlymi:
Good riddance!

She has demonstrated that she is not particularly interested in you but in something else.

Its not clear from your OP that she wants sex but the fact that she ain't interested in your person is crystal clear.

so y did she now ask dat question nd y is she not giving attention any more

25omega:
you are totally right but read the story. the girl wanted sex and she ended up not talking to him because he respected her.

so what's ur advise for ur nigga

major466:
If I were the guy, I would


... Sleep on the couch while she takes the bed. Life does not revolves around sexxx.

so is it because he didn't slip on couch now

y would she Mak dat kinda statement nd decide to ignore calls nd form busy schedules since den

I respect the guy gor not himiliating himself by having sex with her on the first day she visited as it will make the girl look cheap. As for the girl she does not want to love the guy but only cares about sex. She should be very watchful as she may be selling herslef cheap to the wrong person who might harm her.

Kimmo:
Absolutely. If I were in her shoes, I'd expect the OP to behave the respectable way he did. And it might be the start of a nice relationship.
And if she was so overcome by lust, she should have made a move. Not expect the guy to magically know she was an easy lay and make a move.

so u wud av made d first move or show signs if u wer in d girl's shoe?

wats now ur advise for ur nigga

Deshannel:
Though I'm not trying to generalise, I guess women have it inborn in them that men are suppose to magically know when they want it, and should also be the one to always initiate the "event".
Anything otherwise will make them cheap and worthless

dats just it...... wat if d guy approached her nd she took on d angry side ..... u no say Na fvck up e go b for d guy.....

demisig:
she doesn't have an umbrella nd ofcourse it ways just a way of respecting her so she wouldn't feel otherwise of bin taken advantage of

dats true..... but iono why girls just belive guys shld magically know when they want s*x and give them or wen dey dnt want s*x.... and if u misinterprete, trouble....




girls tho

Deshannel:
Though I'm not trying to generalise, I guess women have it inborn in them that men are suppose to magically know when they want it, and should also be the one to always initiate the "event".
Anything otherwise will make them cheap and worthless

So true! But I expect any fully adult lady to go for what she wants in a straightforward manner and not just hope silently like a schoolgirl.

demisig:
so u wud av made d first move or show signs if u wer in d girl's shoe?

wats now ur advise for ur nigga

I'd control my urges because that's just inappropriate, especially since we just had a nice visit together.
But, if for some reason I was that overcome by lust, I'd definitely make the first move.
My advise is the same as bolded below. The babe doesn't deserve any better.
I'd have way more respect for her if she'd simply said she really hoped you'd make a move last night and was too shy to make one herself, instead of making you look like an idiott for being a well behaved man.

25omega:
I guess he misread the situation and he needs to find a way to get her to come back so he can blow her back out and then dump her ass.

demisig:
they question is how do u get back someone wey no dry giv u attention again .... she don dey look else wer na

Well, going by her behaviour, the girl can't be difficult to get.
Leave her alone for a while, maybe a month sef, long enough to ensure she isn't expecting you to call/sms her anymore.
Then text her one day, and say it's been a while, it'll be fun to hang out somewhere. She'll definitely reply, cos it sounds like free food/fun.
Take her to a restaurant, let her buy what she wants but whatever you do, don't eat there. Say you have a great dvd at home that she'll like or something (better not be a horror movie) Take the food home and go from there.

Kimmo:
Well, going by her behaviour, the girl can't be difficult to get.
Leave her alone for a while, maybe a month sef, long enough to ensure she isn't expecting you to call/sms her anymore.
Then text her one day, and say it's been a while, it'll be fun to hang out somewhere. She'll definitely reply, cos it sounds like free food/fun.
Take her to a restaurant, let her buy what she wants but whatever you do, don't eat there. Say you have a great dvd at home that she'll like or something (better not be a horror movie) Take the food home and go from there.

wow this is real sh!t from a woman. poster oya over to you.

25omega:
wow this is real sh!t from a woman. poster oya over to you.

lolllzzzzll

boxer022:
I respect the guy gor not himiliating himself by having sex with her on the first day she visited as it will make the girl look cheap. As for the girl she does not want to love the guy but only cares about sex. She should be very watchful as she may be selling herslef cheap to the wrong person who might harm her.

I don't fink ladies care abt dat ....... most of em just wanna get want they want whenever they want it won't caring who is hurt in d process

now she form busy nd lik its it was a crime to have showed her such respect...... well its not written on their forehead Sha so one can not tell easily wat their intentions are