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Hello guys have been wondering how u guys cope with boring and quite ladies,because my girlfriend is that kind of person I have been dating her for 2months now and the thing is we don't really talk she is quite while am more of the conversation and fun type so I need ur advice. how do I cope with her or should i just break up with her because am getting fed up.

How did you meet her?

Something is wrong somewhere, no lady is quite and boring when she is with the person her heart accepts.

I'm the Quite type myself so i don't have to cope but i do talk when there is something important to say.

emusmith:
How did you meet her?

actually I met her at a conference which I attended

cromz:
actually I met her at a conference which I attended

What's you objective:

1. friend zone her

2. marry her

3. Have carnal knowledge with her

Which?

I'm introverted so I go for talkatives


My Advice:
Next time talk about money or about marriage








Thank me later

Hmmm. Bro, she is "forcing" herself to "love" you back. Save yourself the heartbreak and call it off.

Introduce the idea and you'll see that she won't object to a break.

My objective would have been to marry her but since I can't create a mutual understanding with her I think I would friend zone her

Tymax:
Hmmm. Bro, she is "forcing" herself to "love" you back. Save yourself the heartbreak and call it off.

Introduce the idea and you'll see that she won't object to a break.

but before we started dating she was showing green lights even though she's kinda shy

cromz:
but before we started dating she was showing green lights even though she's kinda shy

Bro, I understand. It's the "commitment" part of the relationship that she is running away from. Please don't keep breaking your heart over a girl who is not terrified to lose you.

Tell her you want to take a break cos you feel drained. Watch her reaction. I'm sure she wouldn't panic. She would even be relieved that you are suggesting it and not her.

Tymax:
Bro, I understand. It's the "commitment" part of the relationship that she is running away from. Please don't keep breaking your heart over a girl who is not terrified to lose you.

Tell her you want to take a break cos you feel drained. Watch her reaction. I'm sure she wouldn't panic. She would even be relieved that you are suggesting it and not her.

guy thanks for d advice

And the funniest thing is that she calls often and the conversation No dey last one minute

Since you are more of the outgoing conversationalist then I think being with a lady who is kinda quiet is not exactly a terrible combo.

Tallesty1:
Something is wrong somewhere, no lady is quite and boring when she is with the person her heart accepts.

EXACTLY!!

You know alot about women,how come??

Tallesty1:
Something is wrong somewhere, no lady is quite and boring when she is with the person her heart accepts.

I agree with u but am not sure if I should fully break up or take a long break

kristina1:
EXACTLY!!

You know alot about women,how come??

How come kwa?


How you wan make I take answer this one?

Tallesty1:
Something is wrong somewhere, no lady is quite and boring when she is with the person her heart accepts.

You are very correct, she can't be quite when she meets someone that spines her brain.

@op my advise is this
Spice up the relationship, the guy is the major determinant in a relationship.

Finally made my decision I think am going to break up with her

It anoys me like damn,she'l js sit dere,nodding her head,mtcheww

sammirano:
You are very correct, she can't be quite when she meets someone that spines her brain.

@op my advise is this
Spice up the relationship, the guy is the major determinant in a relationship.

Don't be so sure , there are girls that are extremely quiet .

tammyboy1:
It anoys me like damn,she'l js sit dere,nodding her head,mtcheww

exactly guy she go just dey nod head like adama lizard

cromz:
Hello guys have been wondering how u guys cope with boring and quite ladies,because my girlfriend is that kind of person I have been dating her for 2months now and the thing is we don't really talk she is quite while am more of the conversation and fun type so I need ur advice. how do I cope with her or should i just break up with her because am getting fed up.

make her fun,why are u her boy friend?
I am very quiet,but when am around my boy friend,I am much fun,no dull moments...that's why I like football,cos I knw guys like to talk abt it...its usually fun when you both can relate to something...
But I wonder how you met her,if she is that quiet and boring though

tollyB:
make her fun,why are u her boy friend?
I am very quiet,but when am around my boy friend,I am much fun,no dull moments...that's why I like football,cos I knw guys like to talk abt...its usually fun when you bith can relate to something...
But I wonder how you met her,if she is that quiet and boring though

thanks forbd tip

btw u forget to tell us how she normally shouts wen u bang her

cromz:
thanks forbd tip

you welcome glad I could help