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Once a lady become so close to a guy and you start hanging out as friends, the next thing you will see is, he will start asking for relationship or sex...

Guys why Una be like this

What type of guys have you been hanging with? Stop running around with boys who don't understand what friendship and connect with those who appreciate you as a friend and value you as a human being.

I'm different nd unique.

why on earth would i wanna be pals with a lady?

ireneony:
Once a lady become so close to a guy and you start hanging out as friends, the next thing you will see is, he will start asking for relationship or sex...

Guys why Una be like this

one thing about u I don't like is dt u stereotype alot

pasqal09:
why on earth would i wanna be pals with a lady?

What is the difference between a guy and a lady?
They are both humans so why can't you be friends with a lady?

I wonder why folks get comfy making sexist comments

Because you girls always think we are fool

AgapeCharis:
one thing about u I don't like is dt u stereotype alot

i say what i observe around my environment/nigeria

My best friend is a lady

fear go catch d guy to ask of such

wunmi590:
Because you girls always think we are fool

i dont u nderstand your statement

Mynd44:
What type of guys have you been hanging with? Stop running around with boys who don't understand what friendship and connect with those who appreciate you as a friend and value you as a human being.

Well said.
There are also good guys out there.


Though i never see them sha

it is based on how you present yourself.
a Guy go come ask me for sex when we no dey date.

is he possessed ?

i always treat ladies like my sisters oooo.i dey handle dem like china plate.

na u knw oo

ireneony:
i say what i observe around my environment/nigeria

Sorry to say but ur conclusions based on some minimal observation is kinda myopic.

All guys aren't d same

jingh:
it is based on how you present yourself.
a Guy go come ask me for sex when we no dey date.

is he possessed ?

babe that is not true....there was this guy in my department he knew that i have a boyfriend then.....he do come to visit and i will go and visit him too, will also hang out...so oneday he told me he will come over to my side to sleep over, but i refused....but i later agreed cos my girlfriend will be coming over too, since we are all in the same department it will be easy for us to relate, i stay in a flat in school and they will be enough space for everyone....
he came over, later my girlfriend called me she couldn't make it again.
before we slept we chatted...so i allowed him to sleep on the bed while i was sitting on the rug watching a movie i slept off..
it was 1am i decided to move my body i was suprised to see hims sleeping close to me, he even put his hands around my waiste...
i got angry and warned he and went to the parlor to continue....
ever since that incident i stayed cleared from him.

I'm actually guilty of this. when I discovered that I had an unusually high sexual appetite n I couldn't just see any girl as a friend I stopped keeping female friends. as of today 80% of the girls around me r girls I've had a thing with, I'm having a thing with or I want to have a thing with. that's y when I meet a new girl I like defining my relationship with her so I know if we r on d same page n want the same thing. I ask direct questions. I don't beat about the bush. ever since I started this I've been able to do away with girls that aren't on d same page with me. funny thing is I get a lot of calls n messages like, " Brume, u just boned me abi cos of all those ur wives".

ireneony:
babe that is not true....there was this guy in my department he knew that i have a boyfriend then.....he do come to visit and i will go and visit him too, will also hang out...so oneday he told me he will come over to my side to sleep over, but i refused....but i later agreed cos my girlfriend will be coming over too, since we are all in the same department it will be easy for us to relate, i stay in a flat in school and they will be enough space for everyone....
he came over, later my girlfriend called me she couldn't make it again.
before we slept we chatted...so i allowed him to sleep on the bed while i was sitting on the rug watching a movie i slept off..
it was 1am i decided to move my body i was suprised to see hims sleeping close to me, he even put his hands around my waiste...
i got angry and warned he and went to the parlor to continue....
ever since that incident i stayed cleared from him.

he want to try his luck so dats different from asking for it.
if you didn't sleep in the same room, he may never Ve d urge to try dat.

jingh:
he want to try his luck so dats different from asking for it.
if you didn't sleep in the same room, he may never Ve d urge to try dat.

how will I be a friend to someone and I will be scared to sleep in the same room with him....
Some guys take things too far...which is not fair

n d funny thing is that girls do it too. a girl who says she can only be friends with u will still call n ask us for money for one thing or the other. my usual reply is," sorry dear I don't spend money on ladies who r just friends".

ireneony:
how will I be a friend to someone and I will be scared to sleep in the same room with him....
Some guys take things too far...which is not fair

I can't even sleep in d same room with a girl when I know nothing can happen. u r a woman n u should know that men r emotionally weak n get moved easily so u shouldn't have allowed him be in the same room alone with u in d first place.

AgapeCharis:
Sorry to say but ur conclusions based on some minimal observation is kinda myopic.

All guys aren't d same

she is just immature.. she would change soon

U met the wrong guys again. How do you present yourself?

Prixus:
I'm actually guilty of this. when I discovered that I had an unusually high sexual appetite n I couldn't just see any girl as a friend I stopped keeping female friends. as of today 80% of the girls around me r girls I've had a thing with, I'm having a thing with or I want to have a thing with. that's y when I meet a new girl I like defining my relationship with her so I know if we r on d same page n want the same thing. I ask direct questions. I don't beat about the bush. ever since I started this I've been able to do away with girls that aren't on d same page with me. funny thing is I get a lot of calls n messages like, " Brume, u just boned me abi cos of all those ur wives".

so all u do is kpansh up and down the earth?

Highflyer3:
My best friend is a lady

Same here

Mynd44:
What type of guys have you been hanging with? Stop running around with boys who don't understand what friendship and connect with those who appreciate you as a friend and value you as a human being.

no matter how nice they are, they end up acting this way.....that is guys for you.
The best thing thing to do, is not to keep guys as pals

Guilty!
I wasn't charged sha



Friends with benefit

Well shaa wen I was in skul
There were this ma female nebos we get along with
We were just friends in the lodge

Anytime her rummy travels I will come and spend de night with her in the lodge even if I may nurse feeling of sexual mins3 with her cus amu a human we re all humans so nobody shld pretend abt it
But ma self control is greater dan the sexual urge I will just wave it off
We just gist and sleep off even thoe ma oga go de rise and fall nothing just park

pasqal09:
why on earth would i wanna be pals with a lady?

Did you jes asked that qwestion

Mynd44:
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What is the difference between a guy and a lady? [\b]
They are both humans so why can't you be friends with a lady?

I wonder why folks get comfy making sexist comments

u kidding?

Not all guyz does dat.... U girls too take guys for granted50/50 do me i do u