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| 10 Don'ts In Choosing A Life Partner by popp(op): 1:42pm On Jan 03, 2015 |
Cheers people. I would like to list out the ten things u don't need to do while choosing a life partner. 1.beauty, don't marry because he or she is beautiful or handsome. This is important because,beauty fades and when it fades, the lov u hv for him or her will dwindle as well. 2. Wealth. Jst like I said about beauty, you don't need to marry because he or she is wealthy. Wealth can come and wealth can also go. And when it eventually goes, that marriage will become hell on earth. 3.living lovers. You don't need to pack your things and start living with your spouse when nothing has been done. This will make him or her get use to you and the whole thing will be come bored.he needs to miss you atimes and u need to miss him. That's when the emotional and psychological chord is built. 4. Pitty. Don't marry out of pitty or simpathy, "I've dated this guy or this babe for long, if I don't marry him or her, it will be as if I'm wicked"or " let me jst marry her just to help her or her family" NO! Pls don't. 5.desperation. Don't be desperate to marry. Either because all your mates are getting married, as a result, you also want to get married. Please note this; don't jump in so that you will not jump out. 6. Sex. Don't marry because he or she is like a tiger or tgeress in bed. Time shall come when that zeal for sex will no longer be flowing like before. 7.imposition. "My mum wants me to marry her, let me do cos if I don't, my mum won't be happy. Pls I said, DON'T. Instead, find a way to let your mum see reasons with you. 8.family affairs. Don't marry him or her because " we're family friends, let me marry him or her in order to keep the existing relationship between the both families going. 9.status. Don't marry him or her cos he or she suits your status. "I'm a prince and she is a princess, let me marry him or her cos it'll suit. 10.privilage. Don't see marrying him or her as an opporturnity to gain that which u've been looking for. This happens to guys out side the shores of the country."Let me marry him or her so as to get my card". But, marry him or her because of luv. When every other thing can go, the luv can not go and that is what will sustain and bind the marriage till death calls. |
| Re: 10 Don'ts In Choosing A Life Partner by Nobody: 1:58pm On Jan 03, 2015 |
This is a new year. You guys should stop this 10 this and 10 that |
| Re: 10 Don'ts In Choosing A Life Partner by Fabdedon(m): 2:01pm On Jan 03, 2015 |
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