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Choosing A Life Partner. by Capableben(m): 7:32pm On May 14, 2017
Choosing a life partner:

There are no laid down rules, formulae or principles for choosing a perfect life partner anywhere. Most times the choices are influenced by the peoples background, taste and religion.

Today i bring you some points that will go a long way in helping you choose a life partner, these may not work for everybody but will surely work for most people.

1. Values Compatibility:
Every normal human should have a set of values to lead his life everyday, there are things, activities or lifestyle that you value. Before you choose a life partner, you should be sure your values don't contrast but are compatible.

2. Steady source of income:
Marriage isn't for boys/girls; it is strictly for men/women that have a sense of responsibility. You don't wanna get married and have your parents still feeding you, hence, there should be a steady source of income first before taking a life partner.

3. Social Compatibility:
I keep telling my friends that my future wife will be my best friend as soon as we get married. She will be beside me anywhere i go and asides being my confidant, she will be my gossip mate. All these can only be possible if you two are socially compatible.
Imagine telling your partner that Donald Trump, the President of America has
shut his boarders against foreigners and she/he be like, "Has George Bush been changed?”. Social compatibility matters alot.

4.Spiritual compatibility:
Take a partner that will complement your spiritual life and not one that will undermine your efforts of spiritual growth.

5. Physical Compatibility:
How do you like your partner? Hourglass shape? Masculine with abs? Tall or short? Huge or petit? Go for what you want, because to each, his own. Don't make a choice today and say " this isn't what i bargained for” tomorrow. Physical compatibility matters.

6. Don't Limit Your possible Choices:
Some people for one silly reason or the other have sworn that that they can never marry outside their tribe, country or race. Thing is we are all human and some of us have our destinies tied outside our tribes,countries and races.
Do away with the eyes of a tribalist or racist when choosing a partner, love is the ultimate and paramount reason.

Noteworthy is also the fact that people nowadays choose partners based on the size of their pockets. This is utterly an act of blindness because love is irreplaceable no matter the opulence.

Source:
http://ogabenji.blogspot.com.ng/2017/05/choosing-life-partner.html?m=1#more

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Re: Choosing A Life Partner. by fav444(f): 8:03pm On May 14, 2017
May God give us our heart desire...

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Re: Choosing A Life Partner. by Nobody: 8:09pm On May 14, 2017
Number 2 make sense

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Re: Choosing A Life Partner. by walesalak(m): 8:42pm On May 14, 2017
well said. choosing a life partner isn't an easy something especially with fake life ppl live wth this days... God help us in discerning d right person. .

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Re: Choosing A Life Partner. by Fmartin(m): 8:47pm On May 14, 2017
Bumbae1:
Number 2 make sense
wadup cheesy

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Re: Choosing A Life Partner. by Nobody: 8:50pm On May 14, 2017
2,3,5 gat it... Nice one op

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Re: Choosing A Life Partner. by Headlesschicken(m): 8:57pm On May 14, 2017
grin Sexual compability, always taste d product before buying,some ladies do not last in bed,always complaining dt dey r tired,wen yuh just getting started,buh dia fada go gv u long note wen u come for dia hand in marriage, buh dey cnt even stay 4 three rounds smh....

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Re: Choosing A Life Partner. by Capableben(m): 7:38pm On May 15, 2017
Nma27:
2,3,5 gat it... Nice one op
yea, thank you.
Re: Choosing A Life Partner. by Capableben(m): 7:38pm On May 15, 2017
Headlesschicken:
grin Sexual compability, always taste d product before buying,some ladies do not last in bed,always complaining dt dey r tired,wen yuh just getting started,buh dia fada go gv u long note wen u come for dia hand in marriage, buh dey cnt even stay 4 three rounds smh....
lol, grin

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Re: Choosing A Life Partner. by Capableben(m): 7:38pm On May 15, 2017
walesalak:
well said. choosing a life partner isn't an easy something especially with fake life ppl live wth this days... God help us in discerning d right person. .
Exactly, all these factors revolve around God.

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Re: Choosing A Life Partner. by Capableben(m): 7:41pm On May 15, 2017
Lalasticlala grin
Re: Choosing A Life Partner. by Fuckshiit: 7:41pm On May 15, 2017
iôn fûçking need me â fûçking life partner cös they all blöödyfûçkiñg höés out there angry

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Re: Choosing A Life Partner. by Kennitrust(m): 10:21pm On May 15, 2017
Marriage is not anything to joke with


It create happiness and sadness


It can ruins u and can make u hold


Prayerfully choose ur partner

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Re: Choosing A Life Partner. by josephine123: 10:22pm On May 15, 2017
nice one op
Re: Choosing A Life Partner. by Nobody: 10:22pm On May 15, 2017
astrological compatibility comes first joor

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Re: Choosing A Life Partner. by AlphaStyles(m): 10:22pm On May 15, 2017
things to consider when choosing a Nigerian babe - her love for cash - grin

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Re: Choosing A Life Partner. by chibabe259(f): 10:22pm On May 15, 2017
Working dick should be added.

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Re: Choosing A Life Partner. by Goldenheart(m): 10:23pm On May 15, 2017
cool

Number 7 killed it....

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Re: Choosing A Life Partner. by lilfreezy: 10:23pm On May 15, 2017
breast and yansh must big, I don't like buying pillows in the market

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Re: Choosing A Life Partner. by oviejnr(m): 10:24pm On May 15, 2017
Let me bookmark this page, I have this new lady I've been talking to. I hope she's worth it or will drop at next available bustop grin

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Re: Choosing A Life Partner. by Goldenheart(m): 10:24pm On May 15, 2017
chibabe259:
Working dick should be added.
cheesy grin
E be like say them don cheat u bfr
Re: Choosing A Life Partner. by nattyjay(m): 10:24pm On May 15, 2017
Compatibility of z oza room

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Re: Choosing A Life Partner. by NothingDoMe: 10:24pm On May 15, 2017
Lala go and sleep
Re: Choosing A Life Partner. by Daslim180(m): 10:24pm On May 15, 2017
Ok
Re: Choosing A Life Partner. by Khutie: 10:24pm On May 15, 2017
chibabe259:
Working dick should be added.
Yhu eh! grin Yhu too lyk d*ck...

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Re: Choosing A Life Partner. by Flexherbal(m): 10:25pm On May 15, 2017
Nice!
Re: Choosing A Life Partner. by ednut1(m): 10:26pm On May 15, 2017
Its nothing but a gamble. Forget list

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Re: Choosing A Life Partner. by adexgii(m): 10:26pm On May 15, 2017
fav444:
May God give us our heart desire...
May God give us the best that will suit who we are

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Re: Choosing A Life Partner. by InvertedHammer: 10:26pm On May 15, 2017
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I can interprete women into a simple language.

Ladies: What qualities do you fancy in a lady?

Interpretation: What do you like so that I can "package" myself better?

/

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Re: Choosing A Life Partner. by oviejnr(m): 10:26pm On May 15, 2017
Fuckshiit:

iôn fûçking need me â fûçking life partner cös they all blöödyfûçkiñg höés out there angry
sad

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Re: Choosing A Life Partner. by olanreyman(m): 10:27pm On May 15, 2017
GOD help we the guys... I don't know what kind of ladies we have nowadays . They keep on proving that their only usefulness is fucking

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Re: Choosing A Life Partner. by InfinixMine: 10:27pm On May 15, 2017
Op, are you stating from experience?

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