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Re: A Message To All Guys by Tymax(m): 10:42pm On Jan 04, 2015
MizMyColi:


LoL @Siggy

You're right.
As humans, we're naturally inclined to want things we can't have.

But we can change ourselves by giving and committing to those who are willing to do same for us, by doing things differently to get profitable results.

Nobody ever said Love is easy, but in the arms of the right person --- there's no greater fulfilment.
Interesting! It's like you are in love. grin [tickles her] Confess. grin
Re: A Message To All Guys by MyParadise(m): 10:42pm On Jan 04, 2015
MizMyColi:


I highly doubt the OP is male.

Whether he is a male or not. I think i personally like the article and have learnt from it cos most points in that article i have personally experienced them myself.

The only thing is that I always like to fight negative traits in my life. And anything that would help me achieve them are welcomed by me.

So, i welcome that article.
Re: A Message To All Guys by jmoore(m): 10:45pm On Jan 04, 2015
matrixx9:
i'm a Guy ...My Idea of love light seem too hard for fellow guys but its true
You wrote that stuff on your own?
Re: A Message To All Guys by Nobody: 10:48pm On Jan 04, 2015
matrixx9:
how
Firstly, u said it is good that a lady buys something for her bf right? pls, how can i convince my girlfreind to my me gift. I think she is online right now.
Re: A Message To All Guys by MyParadise(m): 10:49pm On Jan 04, 2015
jmoore:

You wrote that stuff on your own?

I dnt think he wrote the article by himsef cos the way it is arranged it just look like it was copied from other site with a mobile phone. Maybe he should speak for himsef
Re: A Message To All Guys by MizMyColi(f): 10:51pm On Jan 04, 2015
Matthewbriggs:
Breaking up with someone is not a crime. Especially if the reasons are genuine. Its better to breakup with someone you no longer love than to keep on tolerating that person because you are afraid of hurting his or her feelings.

All this BS about karma does not hold water, In this scenario.

That is the more reason why it is important you carry your brain along when trying to make the decision whether to toast her or not to. It is important one scrutinizes his or her feelings to be sure his or her decision is not based on infatuation.


It's not about Karma MBriggs.

Your first paragraph doesn't quite capture the OP's intention.

How do you love up on someone so much only for you to turn your back on them after they decide to love you back, perhaps even more than you showed them? There's an anomaly that should be corrected somewhere.

It's about turning on our humanity towards a fellow human.

One reason I don't support sharking shacking kind of loving up is that one gets bored easily.
From experience, guys are more prone to that.

It boils down to same ish, no matter how much you advocate using your brain, you'll fall for whom you'll fall for.

And you'll get bored if you'll get bored.
We could do without overly mathematicalizing love.

Ultimately, we ought to be proactive. When the boredom comes; owh trust me, it will.
What measures do we take to spark it all up again?
This would normally require us going beyond ourselves, and ego, maybe. But with the right person, it's worth it, I think.

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Re: A Message To All Guys by matrixx9(m): 10:52pm On Jan 04, 2015
MyParadise:


I dnt think he wrote the article by himsef cos the way it is arranged it just look like it was copied from other site with a mobile phone. Maybe he should speak for himsef
. i just copied it from My previous post on facebook.. i posted this on FB before
Re: A Message To All Guys by matrixx9(m): 10:56pm On Jan 04, 2015
mynairatime:
Firstly, u said it is good that a lady buys something for her bf right? pls, how can i convince my girlfreind to my me gift. I think she is online right now.
..I dont think i can do that. you understand your girl's personality better.. besides gifts are voluntarily given..
Re: A Message To All Guys by MizMyColi(f): 10:56pm On Jan 04, 2015
Tymax:

Interesting! It's like you are in love. grin [tickles her] Confess. grin

Lolest
No need for tickling jarey.

Yes I am smiley

lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
No further comments biko o
Re: A Message To All Guys by Nobody: 10:57pm On Jan 04, 2015
ireneony:
When a guy break up with me, I don't see it as anything.....
.
I have only experience heart break just once.
Most ladies put so much hope on a guy and thinks their life revolves around them...and this will automatically cause them heartbreak
Ladies, learn not to put all your trust in a man, cos once a man break that trust that bonds you together you will definitely feel heartbreak.

Ladies believe in yourself and don't let a man define you. Throw away that low self-esteem into the dustbin..



The man Wey wan break my heart, they never born am


No! Am not going to do that.
Re: A Message To All Guys by MyParadise(m): 10:58pm On Jan 04, 2015
matrixx9:
. i just copied it from My previous post on facebook.. i posted this on FB before

I tot as much cos the way it was arranged looked copied. Anyway thanks for making up such a wonderful write-up. I personally benefited from ur wisdom.
Re: A Message To All Guys by matrixx9(m): 11:00pm On Jan 04, 2015
MyParadise:


I tot as much cos the way it was arranged looked copied. Anyway thanks for making up such a wonderful write-up. I personally benefited from ur wisdom.
uwc
Re: A Message To All Guys by Nobody: 11:02pm On Jan 04, 2015
matrixx9:
..I dont think i can do that. you understand your girl's personality better.. besides gifts are voluntarily given..
Ok! that is where i was going but she was demanding i was giving her, is it not time for me to also demand from her? Since she can afford it.
Re: A Message To All Guys by jmoore(m): 11:03pm On Jan 04, 2015
matrixx9:
. i just copied it from My previous post on facebook.. i posted this on FB before

Which year was it posted on FB?
Re: A Message To All Guys by AfricanApple(f): 11:06pm On Jan 04, 2015
if your heart was broken, why not ask yourself 'why did I leave my heart in such fragile state, why had I not trained it' we just have to blame ourselves a times or better still no one, pack the heart, fix them back and always move on.
it is when you live as if a man owns your life that you will start afresh
Re: A Message To All Guys by matrixx9(m): 11:06pm On Jan 04, 2015
jmoore:

Which year was it posted on FB?
2014
Re: A Message To All Guys by jmoore(m): 11:09pm On Jan 04, 2015
matrixx9:
2014
The article is good but I doubt if you are the original author. I have seen this post in 2013.
Re: A Message To All Guys by MyParadise(m): 11:13pm On Jan 04, 2015
AfricanApple:
if your heart was broken, why not ask yourself 'why did I leave my heart in such fragile state, why had I not trained it' we just have to blame ourselves a times or better still no one, pack the heart, fix them back and always move on.
it is when you live as if a man owns your life that you will start afresh

Personally, i have lived nt to see heartbreaks as failure but as a tool that fortifies us for greater battle we wud fighting fight letter in life.

My point is that we should learn to handle it rather than fight it cos if one dnt get hurt in relationship one might likely face it in marriage. And that time that person will be so distressed and devastated.
Re: A Message To All Guys by Matthewbriggs(m): 11:14pm On Jan 04, 2015
@ MizMyColi I am not against taking measures to spark it up again. Nor am I saying a guy should break up once the honeymoon phase of a relationship wears off.

All I am saying is breaking up with someone you no longer love is better than holding on to them in the name you not wanting to hurt their feelings. A break up is not the end of the world. It is just the beginning of a new journey. The focus of the OP should be tailored towards instilling the right mindset necessary to handle breakups, than to make it look like breaking up with someone you no longer love is a heartless act.
Re: A Message To All Guys by AfricanApple(f): 11:24pm On Jan 04, 2015
MyParadise:


Personally, i have lived nt to see heartbreaks as failure but as a tool that fortifies us for greater battle we wud fighting fight letter in life.

My point is that we should learn to handle it rather than fight it cos if one dnt get hurt in relationship one might likely face it in marriage. And that time that person will be so distressed and devastated.
normally heart break is not a failure, I wonder why people see it that way. but one thing that I still don't get, you will think you have learnt in the former relationship but there are always new things to learn in the next one, there are even more mistakes to be made, perhaps more heartbreaks. there isn't a particular road to love, just ride on with it as it moves. you see life generally is complicated love is not an exemption

@2nd paragraph, so true
Re: A Message To All Guys by Mzgracie(f): 11:33pm On Jan 04, 2015
MizMyColi:


Lolest
No need for tickling jarey.

Yes I am smiley

lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
No further comments biko o



Hmmmmmm



Mizmycoli darling.....
Re: A Message To All Guys by MizMyColi(f): 11:44pm On Jan 04, 2015
Mzgracie:




Hmmmmmm



Miz mycoli darling.....
wink
Re: A Message To All Guys by mirexxx(f): 11:45pm On Jan 04, 2015
MyParadise:


I use to brag around in my early twenties just like u sounded here bt deep in my hrt i knew i was lying to myself.

No matter how hard u think u r. When u dnt feel little bitterness in u when u r dumped mark my words it actually means u never ever loved that individual.

I feel hurt wen i am dumped but i cant just come out nw and say i didnt feel hurt. It actually means i never loved that person.

We should learn how to work on emotional pains rather than fight it cos the more u fight it the more it gets back to u.
u're right dear
Re: A Message To All Guys by badassProdigy(m): 12:00am On Jan 05, 2015
OP who did dis to ur sista? enhh who? grin
Re: A Message To All Guys by matrixx9(m): 6:39am On Jan 05, 2015
badassProdigy:
OP who did dis to ur sista? enhh who? grin
nah you grin
Re: A Message To All Guys by Tymax(m): 7:12am On Jan 05, 2015
MizMyColi:


Lolest
No need for tickling jarey.

Yes I am smiley

lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
No further comments biko o
grin grin
Re: A Message To All Guys by BeeBeeOoh(m): 7:19am On Jan 05, 2015
Uaray baaaddddddtttttttttttt nigga.. wink wink
lurex2rhyme:

has any1 told u dat u r a genius b4? is like seein d ans b4 writin d examz.
Re: A Message To All Guys by matrixx9(m): 1:26pm On Jan 05, 2015
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