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LADIES: 7 Truths About Dating Younger Guys by Zulash(op): 11:14pm On Jan 04, 2015
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Nine women dish on what they've learned from playing cougar.

As the saying goes, "You're only as old as the man you're feeling." So, are Madonna, Mariah, and J-Lo all on to something with their considerably younger beaus? Or should we take a lesson from Demi and avoid robbing cradles?

We asked 10 women to tell us what they learned from dating a younger guy. Read on to see what they had to say!


1. They're Not As Independent
"Most of my ex's were younger. In my opinion, it never turned out well because they were intimidated by where I was in life in comparison ... and they were also really immature. They never took the initiative, or showed confidence. They weren't as independent as I am, and sometimes I just wanted them to plan the date for once." — Pam, 25

2. They're Drama-Free
"When I have the choice, I date men who are 30 years younger than me. Men in their 30's are still about having fun, adventuring, exploring and building their career, and they appreciate a drama free connection with a woman. They don't mind the power inequity, while men who are closer to my age feel the need to battle for the position." — Paula, 67

3. They Make Great Rebounds
"I dated a guy who was 6 years my junior after a bad breakup. He was basically a rebound. The s*x was AMAZING and his friends basically thought I was a goddess ...but I couldn't have a normal 'grownup' conversation with him at all, even about the simplest things. Introducing him to friends was a struggle, even if it was just at a chill house party. A typical introductory conversation went like this: 'What do you do, Joe?' 'I'm a student at Nassau Community College.' 'Oh what are you studying?' 'Liberal arts.' [Crickets chirping] Ultimately, as hot as he was, I just couldn't deal with how dumbed down he was." — Yasmin, 30

4. They're Full Of Life
"I switched to younger men many years ago. I find that younger men are a lot less judgmental, open to non-mainstream ideas, and have the energy to get out and have a life, outside of work." — Dixie, 51

5. They Can Be Mature ...
"I never thought I could see myself with someone younger, and sometimes I think about the cons — like when I'm 30 he'll still be in his 20's, but it's been an amazing experience. He treats me like a princess. I actually didn't know my boyfriend's age until a day after we started talking. He's surprisingly, extremely mature, even though he's two years younger than me." — Lindsay, 26

"I dated a much older guy before meeting my current younger one, and I think I didn't take the younger guy as seriously because of his age. When we began dating he was still in college, and I was handling a demanding job. I wasn't sure how to exactly bring him to work events without feeling like a cougar...or a tinge of embarrassment. It seems ridiculous now, because he's more mature and thoughtful than any of the guys I had previously dated. I was the immature one for not recognizing it early on ... and being caught up in superficial things like age." — Nicole, 25

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Re: LADIES: 7 Truths About Dating Younger Guys by mizkeleke(f): 11:18pm On Jan 04, 2015
Anyways Age is a number. Its more about maturity.
my opinion duo.
Re: LADIES: 7 Truths About Dating Younger Guys by Nobody: 11:26pm On Jan 04, 2015
IYA RAINBOW hooks WIZKID? undecided
Re: LADIES: 7 Truths About Dating Younger Guys by omophunky(m): 11:27pm On Jan 04, 2015
ALKARULEZZ:
IYA RAINBOW hooks WIZKID? undecided
For neck ?
Re: LADIES: 7 Truths About Dating Younger Guys by Nobody: 11:34pm On Jan 04, 2015
omophunky:
For neck ?
Yes.....like bow-tie
Re: LADIES: 7 Truths About Dating Younger Guys by Nobody: 11:37pm On Jan 04, 2015
Is you say so op
Re: LADIES: 7 Truths About Dating Younger Guys by slap1(m): 11:49pm On Jan 04, 2015
Hmm. I'd love to date an older lady.
Re: LADIES: 7 Truths About Dating Younger Guys by KELVINXY: 11:51pm On Jan 04, 2015
Its a well known fact

@Op how sincere can you be?
What led you to this research? wink
Re: LADIES: 7 Truths About Dating Younger Guys by badassProdigy(m): 12:04am On Jan 05, 2015
lovely...
Re: LADIES: 7 Truths About Dating Younger Guys by Mathematical(f): 12:09am On Jan 05, 2015
AGE IS A NUMBER HUH? SURE, BUT ON SOME CERTAIN LEVEL AGE REALLY DETERMINES... NOT THAT HE'S NOT MATURED BUH HE'LL SURELY LACK SOME DUMBNESS. tongue
Re: LADIES: 7 Truths About Dating Younger Guys by Nobody: 12:14am On Jan 05, 2015
ALKARULEZZ:
Yes.....like bow-tie
grin
Re: LADIES: 7 Truths About Dating Younger Guys by siegfried99(m): 12:26am On Jan 05, 2015
ALKARULEZZ:
IYA RAINBOW hooks WIZKID? undecided
grin grin^^

Never experienced dating an older lady though
Re: LADIES: 7 Truths About Dating Younger Guys by Lobolintin(m): 12:34am On Jan 05, 2015
Dated a woman 10years older than I was some years ago.... She's really something else.. Tho, thought me a lot of shits.. Hahahah... Older women til GEJ finishes 2nd term
Re: LADIES: 7 Truths About Dating Younger Guys by upsyLi(m): 12:36am On Jan 05, 2015
85% of my EXes are older than I'm and I love it, even sometimes prefer it to girls of my age or younger
Re: LADIES: 7 Truths About Dating Younger Guys by mako007(m): 12:40am On Jan 05, 2015
This age thing hen, I don't knw how it happens I have a thing for older girls,.
Re: LADIES: 7 Truths About Dating Younger Guys by Nobody: 1:03am On Jan 05, 2015
I don parol with lady wey senior me for like 7yrs.
mmh, the thing sweet sha, kiss
(picks_teeth)
I enjoy am smiley
Re: LADIES: 7 Truths About Dating Younger Guys by Chimarto: 8:14am On Jan 05, 2015
Having a couger is pretty much good......is just like having your mum Cooking for you, they always tend to avoid what that will irritate their little son.
Re: LADIES: 7 Truths About Dating Younger Guys by Yusphull(m): 8:26am On Jan 05, 2015
Chimarto:
Having a couger is pretty much good......is just like having your mum Cooking for you, they always tend to avoid what that will irritate their little son.
Don't tell me you are dating a woman who is as old as ur mother?? May God save you from the claws of ur sugar-mummy...

NB: Your future is at risk.... #my2cent#
Re: LADIES: 7 Truths About Dating Younger Guys by Nobody: 8:32am On Jan 05, 2015
I'll comment when i start dating a younger guy.
But 100% of them are flirts sha.
They are mostly gigolo lipsrsealed
Re: LADIES: 7 Truths About Dating Younger Guys by Chimarto: 8:35am On Jan 05, 2015
[quote author=Yusphull post=29503260][/quote]Hey man! hold it you Mr. Holierthanthou.......my comment was just on the possible advantages unto the toyboy.
Re: LADIES: 7 Truths About Dating Younger Guys by Exjoker(m): 8:36am On Jan 05, 2015
Why would I even date a woman - sugar mummy - who is older than mehuh
Re: LADIES: 7 Truths About Dating Younger Guys by Yusphull(m): 8:41am On Jan 05, 2015
Chimarto:
Hey man! hold it you Mr. Holierthanthou.......my comment was just on the possible advantages unto the toyboy.
I'm not say am holy just telling you that I can't do somfin of such... I love them young .... wink

#no to my mama's mate#
Re: LADIES: 7 Truths About Dating Younger Guys by Yusphull(m): 8:44am On Jan 05, 2015
Exjoker:
Why would I even date a woman - sugar mummy - who is older than mehuh
BTW can you find/see a sugar-mummy who's younger than you ?? undecided
Re: LADIES: 7 Truths About Dating Younger Guys by Exjoker(m): 8:48am On Jan 05, 2015
Yusphull:
BTW can you find/see a sugar-mummy who's younger than you ?? undecided
I don't know o. But I'm not going to date a woman who is older than me cool
Re: LADIES: 7 Truths About Dating Younger Guys by Yusphull(m): 8:53am On Jan 05, 2015
Exjoker:
I don't know o. But I'm not going to date a woman who is older than me cool
May Almighty God bless you in ur chosen career....cool wink grin
Re: LADIES: 7 Truths About Dating Younger Guys by AJ01(m): 8:57am On Jan 05, 2015
mizkeleke:
Anyways Age is a number. Its more about maturity.
my opinion duo.
true
Re: LADIES: 7 Truths About Dating Younger Guys by Chimarto: 9:35am On Jan 05, 2015
Yusphull:
I'm not say am holy just telling you that I can't do somfin of such... I love them young .... wink

#no to my mama's mate#
Even when she is 2 to 5 years older than you she is still your mama's mate?
Re: LADIES: 7 Truths About Dating Younger Guys by luigiajah(m): 9:36am On Jan 05, 2015
mizkeleke:
Anyways Age is a number. Its more about maturity.
my opinion duo.
. Age Is Not A Number.. Keep Playing. Hard To Get when other girl's are getting married every Saturday.. Would you date a 16year old?
Re: LADIES: 7 Truths About Dating Younger Guys by Yusphull(m): 9:38am On Jan 05, 2015
Chimarto:
Even when she is 2 to 5 years older than you she is still your mama's mate?
You have right to ur own opinion...

#Shalom#
Re: LADIES: 7 Truths About Dating Younger Guys by dechandel(f): 9:42am On Jan 05, 2015
That one who dates guys 30years younger? shocked
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