Many ladies believe that a man must have money before they can agree to date or even marry him. They believe that a man shud go and make money first before he thinks of keeping a woman. To them, a rich man will make a better husband and will be able to cater for them and protect them.

What they don't know however is that men have the ability to detect a liability. They know when a woman is hanging around them for what she can get. And the funny thing is that when the man finally decides to settle down, he will go for a woman who is not after his money but who will love him for who he is.

So when women say that a man who wants a woman shud make money first, I just laugh. A man whom you never contributed anything to his wealth is likely to abuse and disrespect you. But when you stay with a man through thick and thin, there's no way he won't value you.

Our ladies shud stop looking for already made men, not all dat glitters turns out to be gold. He may spend lavishly on you as a girlfriend, get you all you want and need. But when its time for him to settle down, he's gonna dump you and look for a woman who doesn't care about his money. Ladies be wise!

OK.

Dont mind dem jare

Good facts, well encapsulated and articulated. Need they (the girls) no more? There are marriageable girls, as much as there are dateable girls, and men can distinguish between the two; he can't even be deceived by your fake behaviour. I always advice ladies to be noble.

Incase

Oga o

LaurelP if you are a woman and truly believe this. You will make an excellent wife and have a very bright future. God bless you for this! You have said a gospel I have been preaching my whole life. Ladies need to focus on getting their shit together! When a man feels you need him more than he needs you, then you are most likely to be a punching bag, cheated on, neglected and more. Please ladies chase your dreams and ambitions of being the best woman you can possibly be. Alot of guys have no clue of what to do with an already made woman. Because they are used to women who want their money! Get your own shit and you have already filtered the men you deserved from the rest who have no idea of what to do with you!

yes ooh! I am in full support of this. love your man for whom he "would be".. I can't leave someone because he is not rich at the moment .. But if I can see a potential wisdom and ability to create wealth in him, mehn! ama gonna stick close.. we'd grow together

hmmm...

Nice one, These their FP i no understand
Nairaland chai there is God ooooo

justmag:
LaurelP if you are a woman and truly believe this. You will make an excellent wife and have a very bright future. God bless you for this! You have said a gospel I have been preaching my whole life. Ladies need to focus on getting their shit together! When a man feels you need him more than he needs you, then you are most likely to be a punching bag, cheated on, neglected and more. Please ladies chase your dreams and ambitions of being the best woman you can possibly be. Alot of guys have no clue of what to do with an already made woman. Because they are used to women who want their money! Get your own shit and you have already filtered the men you deserved from the rest who have no idea of what to do with you!

You're on point
And of course am a man

LaurelP:
Many ladies believe that a man must have money before they can agree to date or even marry him. They believe that a man shud go and make money first before he thinks of keeping a woman. To them, a rich man will make a better husband and will be able to cater for them and protect them.

What they don't know however is that men have the ability to detect a liability. They know when a woman is hanging around them for what she can get. And the funny thing is that when the man finally decides to settle down, he will go for a woman who is not after his money but who will love him for who he is.

So when women say that a man who wants a woman shud make money first, I just laugh. A man whom you never contributed anything to his wealth is likely to abuse and disrespect you. But when you stay with a man through thick and thin, there's no way he won't value you.

Our ladies shud stop looking for already made men, not all dat glitters turns out to be gold. He may spend lavishly on you as a girlfriend, get you all you want and need. But when its time for him to settle down, he's gonna dump you and look for a woman who doesn't care about his money. Ladies be wise!

Not all that is dull ever glitters

I agree a woman should get her acts together not necessarily to attract a man but to live well.

prettyjo:
hmmm...

HALLO BEAUTY?

andromida:


Not all that is dull ever glitters

I agree a woman should get her acts together not necessarily to attract a man but to live well.

We aint talking abt getting acts together
We talking contentment

mhyra:
yes ooh! I am in full support of this. love your man for whom he "would be".. I can't leave someone because he is not rich at the moment .. But if I can see a potential wisdom and ability to create wealth in him, mehn! ama gonna stick close.. we'd grow together

And if you don't see d potential to make money in him

prettyjo:
hmmm...

Guilty as charged!

Guys have to note something and that is you have to be financially stable before marriage,that doesn't necessarily mean "rich " I don't believe in women entering marriage to suffer

A reasonable man knows that money is very important in marriage

ireneony:

What's d problem?

They won't listen. When the dude starts handling them like something he bought they'll complain. But can the complaints of my sofa or curtains reach my ears? Of course not. If her wahala gets too much, a gift will settle everything. If that is not enough- contract canceled.

If you make me buy your attention why should you care if I look elsewhere? Is that the agreement?

lilmax:
Guys have to note something and that is you have to be financially stable before marriage,that doesn't necessarily mean "rich " I don't believe in women entering marriage to suffer

A reasonable man knows that money is very important in marriage

I never said money isn't important sir
Making it a criteria for choosing whom to date or marry is wrong. I've seen rich men pretend to be poor just to get a woman who truly loves them. They dump their cars, put on rags and use outdated phones. They know dat ladies normally don't like to give attention to these kind of guys.

LaurelP:


I never said money isn't important sir
Making it a criteria for choosing whom to date or marry is wrong. I've seen rich men pretend to be poor just to get a woman who truly loves them. They dump their cars, put on rags and use outdated phones. They know dat ladies normally don't like to give attention to these kind of guys.

right,i understand you

Gosh!!! this is a very good one

what annoys me is when a lady thinks marriage is her final destination in life.

Nice one @op

I Just pray They read And Listen.

LaurelP:


We aint talking abt getting acts together
We talking contentment

Ok its just that most women are content. When she is with a man for the wrong reasons she still won't be content. You are looking at contentment from the money angle but its beyond that.

dorlapoh20:
Gosh!!! this is a very good one

what annoys me is when a lady thinks marriage is her final destination in life.

Nice one @op

I Just pray They read And Listen.

Cool

LaurelP Nice one!

Don't mind any lady that will quote u to type negative things about that post.

U're are on point!

LewisO:
LaurelP Nice one!

Don't mind any lady that will quote u to type negative things about that post.

U're are on point!

Thanks man

LaurelP:


And if you don't see d potential to make money in him

then i'll gracefuly walk away. Cant be in a relationship with someone with no vision and plan whatsoever