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Hazardd:
he want to test his product that he is buying to check whether if it will satify his need before paying..
well,na normal thing

do you guys even stop for once to think if we check you guys out too? Smh..
The checking out is for both parties, durrh

Tashaamania:
do you guys even stop for once to think if we check you guys out too? Smh..
The checking out is for both parties, durrh

who normally check each other out
it is the product or the buyer?

Hazardd:
who normally check each other out
is it the product or the buyer?

Lol funny
for all I know, I'd rather not be bought by a wife beater

Tashaamania:
Lol funny
for all I know, I'd rather not be bought by a wife beater

ok but except if you didnt satify the buyer's needs

Hazardd:
ok but except if you didnt satify the buyer's needs

more reason why we have to check ourselves out

Tashaamania:
more reason why we have to check ourselves out

yea,thats why a buyer have to check/tastes his product out before buying

It has never happen to me? So no answer from me

Mprex:
This question is for the single guys pls and I'm serious about this.

An aunt of mine has three pretty daughters. The older two are devoted christians. They didnt date in their early age and premarital sex is a taboo to them. The last younger girl is not loose but she is not very staunch about abstinence. She just got married last week while her two elder sisters are still single and searching.

Last night, i was chatting with a guy that intended to marry one of the older sisters but backed out @ the end. When i brought up the issue and asked him why he cancelled the engagement, he bluntly told me that he cant marry a lady he havnt slept with.

I went on to prode him on his reasons and he said that it was his orientation in life. That he cant marry a lady he havnt bedded before. I was stunned by that response.

My question is this: what could possibly prompt a guy to decide that he cant marry a lady he have not had sex with even when he knows its not the proper thing to do?

Ps: I'm not kidding about this. I need sincere answers from serious minded NL romancelanders

what makes you think it's not proper to have sex with a friend or someone you want to marry? because your pastor said it's wrong abi?


De der de deceive yourself

Hazardd:
yea,thats why a buyer have to check/tastes his product out before buying

and the seller of the product and the product itself has to check out the buyer

gosh, I wont sleep here. Move on, biko lol

Tashaamania:
and the seller of the product and the product itself has to check out the buyer

gosh, I wont sleep here. Move on, biko lol

ok

He wants to know if she's good on bed b4 marriage...people should try to av sex b4 marriage,maybe their engagement night.. watched a movie by jackie appiah where her husband was not sexually attracted to her because they were in a sex after marriage relationship

Our own tradition is to get pregnant b4 marriage,no pregnancy no marriage..8months after wedding, naming ceremony

I ve been reading the comments here and it all boils down to the fact that we sold out our culture and now we are beginning to reap its consequences. We want to live like Europeans and Americas , so we should go with everything that comes with their culture, we can't run away from it. In the days of our parents, being a virgin is a pride, if you are not a virgin then you should be prepared to face your future alone as no man will come for your hand in marriage, but today the reverse is the case.
I don't mean to be rude but even all the guys that have been commenting on this topic can do worse than the guy in question, IT IS VERY BAD,but this is what we asked for by making our culture secondary.

Hazardd: are we not paying for it or is marrying a woman free

not only making call with the phone, i also lose the phone to check the complete parts before i hand over my money to the seller because it is my money

err Mr. I Guess in As much as we love our phone, we still love our gf's....

they shouldn't be compared to our gadget in anyway...

he has his motive and reason... but whatever his reasons are, it not positive in anyway...

so, I'll say let your sis dump his a$$ and let her find who will put love first and sex later....




fact is u might find me support the guy in another thread... but here... am saying no to premarital sex

Mprex:
so marrying a woman is equivalent to buying a product from the market?

Do you use your phone to make call before you pay the seller for it ?

wat did yu expect? ?? if yu biy sumthn for market no be property......trash

op the solution is for the Unmarried sisters to ask their younger sister to lecture them about the tricks she used to get her own husband

Mprex:
you are so so perceptive. Thanks anyway

. Don't mind me....#u are welcome#

Mprex, your thread will hit front page soon. Nice topic

Let's not be one-sided about this. I have heard of many situations where the girl got scared and called off the relationship because the guy in question never for one day made an attempt to lay with her.

Ladies nowadays think differently, they hear of stories about guys that find it hard getting an erection and try not to fall prey.
When you try to rush a lady into marriage these days she gets all suspicious on you.

Stories of Deception these days between both parties have caused people to want to take extra precaution, because when you get married in this part of the world, it is supposed to be forever.
A female friend of a friend of mine said she would not want to cheat on her husband after marriage and so would want to test her man before marriage to be sure he is a man.

I heard a story of a couple that got married and on their wedding night, the wife found out that the husband's thing was as small as a pimple.
I also heard of a husband discovering, on the wedding night, that his wife's boo.bs were as hard as a rock(plastic surgery gone wrong).

Some guys (or in some families or villages, the guy's parents) go as far as demanding for the girl to get pregnant before wedding will be allowed to take place because of the rate of "repeated" abortions committed (most of them done wrongly) by our outrageously many females these days which prevents many of them from getting pregnant.

let her wait everything deals with type her type hasn't come

Mprex:
This question is for the single guys pls and I'm serious about this.

An aunt of mine has three pretty daughters. The older two are devoted christians. They didnt date in their early age and premarital sex is a taboo to them. The last younger girl is not loose but she is not very staunch about abstinence. She just got married last week while her two elder sisters are still single and searching.

Last night, i was chatting with a guy that intended to marry one of the older sisters but backed out @ the end. When i brought up the issue and asked him why he cancelled the engagement, he bluntly told me that he cant marry a lady he havnt slept with.

I went on to prode him on his reasons and he said that it was his orientation in life. That he cant marry a lady he havnt bedded before. I was stunned by that response.

My question is this: what could possibly prompt a guy to decide that he cant marry a lady he have not had sex with even when he knows its not the proper thing to do?

Ps: I'm not kidding about this. I need sincere answers from serious minded NL romancelanders

My dear Mprex, the young man's statement is so dishearten. I almost wept because he's lost. Lost in this sinful world. His foundation has bn tampered with wrong ideology.
The truth & sincere response is that any man like that is living in darkness.
MARRIAGE is the only legal access to 5E.X.
Premarital 5e.x (fornication) or adultery is an abuse & a sin.

Dgreatone:
Let's not be one-sided about this. I have heard of many situations where the girl got scared and called off the relationship because the guy in question never for one day made an attempt to lay with her.

Ladies nowadays think differently, they hear of stories about guys that find it hard getting an erection and try not to fall prey.
When you try to rush a lady into marriage these days she gets all suspicious on you.

Stories of Deception these days between both parties have caused people to want to take extra precaution, because when you get married in this part of the world, it is supposed to be forever.
A female friend of a friend of mine said she would not want to cheat on her husband after marriage and so would want to test her man before marriage to be sure he is a man.

I heard a story of a couple that got married and on their wedding night, the wife found out that the husband's thing was as small as a pimple.
I also heard of a husband discovering, on the wedding night, that his wife's boo.bs were as hard as a rock(plastic surgery gone wrong).

Some guys (or in some families or villages, the guy's parents) go as far as demanding for the girl to get pregnant before wedding will be allowed to take place because of the rate of "repeated" abortions committed (most of them done wrongly) by our outrageously many females these days which prevents many of them from getting pregnant.

Pray all manner of prayers when looking out for a life-partner.

May I share my story with you. Though I don't know you & your religious background.

I've searched,prayed through many parts in search of a life-partner & I discovered incompatiblity.
How do i mean? Any lady I find, I do present her(her full name) before God. Behold, I'll be shown the future of everything concerning her in a vision. Through this vision i'll decide whether to go for her or not. It is written, he who FINDS(difficult & thorough finding) a wife, FINDS(not an easy task) a good thing & obtain FAVOUR(blessings, fruitfulness, open doors,) from God(for job welldone).

I'm about to call off an eight months relationship with a lady I wanted to take in as a wife. Though I never had time to fast & pray ever since b'cos I was blinded with lustful desire but when I prayed. I recently discovered strange things about her in a vision. Below were the things I saw about her:
-Her family was against me marrying their daughter because i'm a pentecostal while they are catholic.
-We later got married but with a divide house from the bride's family.
Note: When both family is not in full support of your marriage, call it off please because it won't stand or last. Blessing must be showered from both family in unity & sincere heart.
So the marriage became a war zone. Like a gentle dove she is before marriage but turned beast with goaty attitude after.
-My channel of finance was also blocked because of her. I saw myself in a desert.
Seeing all this, I tend to pray for cancellation but still appear the same.

Another lady I prayed about sometimes ago was that she never listened to me in the marriage. She only listens to wrong counsels from her fellow ladies out there which brought about huge misunderstanding. She always go back to it after apologizing.

Let me stop here. There are many stories.

Getting true husband or wife is hard to find. I swear.

That guy in Mprex' post who seeks to get laid with the woman she wants to marry may not have a successful marriage.

Guyz seek for direction from God when FINDING a wife. And zip up till your wedding night.

Because when you go and buy clothes.... You enter the fitting room before paying for it...

Gotta make sure it fits

christaddicted:
Pray all manner of prayers when looking out for a life-partner.

May I share my story with you. Though I don't know you & your religious background.

I've searched,prayed through many parts in search of a life-partner & I discovered incompatiblity.
How do i mean? Any lady I find, I do present her(her full name) before God. Behold, I'll be shown the future of everything concerning her in a vision. Through this vision i'll decide whether to go for her or not. It is written, he who FINDS(difficult & thorough finding) a wife, FINDS(not an easy task) a good thing & obtain FAVOUR(blessings, fruitfulness, open doors,) from God(for job welldone).

I'm about to call off an eight months relationship with a lady I wanted to take in as a wife. Though I never had time to fast & pray ever since b'cos I was blinded with lustful desire but when I prayed. I recently discovered strange things about her in a vision. Below were the things I saw about her:
-Her family was against me marrying their daughter because i'm a pentecostal while they are catholic.
-We later got married but with a divide house from the bride's family.
Note: When both family is not in full support of your marriage, call it off please because it won't stand or last. Blessing must be showered from both family in unity & sincere heart.
So the marriage became a war zone. Like a gentle dove she is before marriage but turned beast with goaty attitude after.
-My channel of finance was also blocked because of her. I saw myself in a desert.
Seeing all this, I tend to pray for cancellation but still appear the same.

Another lady I prayed about sometimes ago was that she never listened to me in the marriage. She only listens to wrong counsels from her fellow ladies out there which brought about huge misunderstanding. She always go back to it after apologizing.

Let me stop here. There are many stories.

Getting true husband or wife is hard to find. I swear.

That guy in Mprex' post who seeks to get laid with the woman she wants to marry may not have a successful marriage.

Guyz seek for direction from God when FINDING a wife. And zip up till your wedding night.

you see visions

thats so cool. i love your moniker too

christaddicted:
Pray all manner of prayers when looking out for a life-partner.

May I share my story with you. Though I don't know you & your religious background.

I've searched,prayed through many parts in search of a life-partner & I discovered incompatiblity.
How do i mean? Any lady I find, I do present her(her full name) before God. Behold, I'll be shown the future of everything concerning her in a vision. Through this vision i'll decide whether to go for her or not. It is written, he who FINDS(difficult & thorough finding) a wife, FINDS(not an easy task) a good thing & obtain FAVOUR(blessings, fruitfulness, open doors,) from God(for job welldone).

I'm about to call off an eight months relationship with a lady I wanted to take in as a wife. Though I never had time to fast & pray ever since b'cos I was blinded with lustful desire but when I prayed. I recently discovered strange things about her in a vision. Below were the things I saw about her:
-Her family was against me marrying their daughter because i'm a pentecostal while they are catholic.
-We later got married but with a divide house from the bride's family.
Note: When both family is not in full support of your marriage, call it off please because it won't stand or last. Blessing must be showered from both family in unity & sincere heart.
So the marriage became a war zone. Like a gentle dove she is before marriage but turned beast with goaty attitude after.
-My channel of finance was also blocked because of her. I saw myself in a desert.
Seeing all this, I tend to pray for cancellation but still appear the same.

Another lady I prayed about sometimes ago was that she never listened to me in the marriage. She only listens to wrong counsels from her fellow ladies out there which brought about huge misunderstanding. She always go back to it after apologizing.

Let me stop here. There are many stories.

Getting true husband or wife is hard to find. I swear.

That guy in Mprex' post who seeks to get laid with the woman she wants to marry may not have a successful marriage.

Guyz seek for direction from God when FINDING a wife. And zip up till your wedding night.

I hope u are praying the right prayer; prayers for Mr or Mrs perfect don't get answered.

Mprex:
you see visions

thats so cool. i love your moniker too

Yea, beloved.. Thanks.
Vision has really helped & saved me, my family & close friends from the fiery darts of the enemy.

Dgreatone:
I hope u are praying the right prayer; prayers for Mr or Mrs perfect don't get answered.

Yea beloved.. My prayer is to find a woman that fits my purpose on earth.

ammyluv2002:
He doesn't love her

..dts js d right answer..

ammyluv2002:
He doesn't love her

..dts js d right answer..lv n sex are two diff fins

christaddicted:
Yea, beloved.. Thanks.
Vision has really helped & saved me, my family & close friends from the fiery darts of the enemy.

does it come to you only when you are under the annointing or can you just tap into the frequency at your own bidding

Mprex:
does it come to you only when you are under the annointing or can you just tap into the frequency at your own bidding

Both in anointing & bidding as long as I maintain the acts of righteousness.

Mprex:
This question is for the single guys pls and I'm serious about this.

An aunt of mine has three pretty daughters. The older two are devoted christians. They didnt date in their early age and premarital sex is a taboo to them. The last younger girl is not loose but she is not very staunch about abstinence. She just got married last week while her two elder sisters are still single and searching.

Last night, i was chatting with a guy that intended to marry one of the older sisters but backed out @ the end. When i brought up the issue and asked him why he cancelled the engagement, he bluntly told me that he cant marry a lady he havnt slept with.

I went on to prode him on his reasons and he said that it was his orientation in life. That he cant marry a lady he havnt bedded before. I was stunned by that response.

My question is this: what could possibly prompt a guy to decide that he cant marry a lady he have not had sex with even when he knows its not the proper thing to do?

Ps: I'm not kidding about this. I need sincere answers from serious minded NL romancelanders

test driving is normal