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Girls are to chased what of some busy type, mean we are not to have gf if our destiny always take us to running ones

malonephills:
Girls are to chased what of some busy type, mean we are not to have gf if our destiny always take us to running ones

no one is every that busy.... if "they" mata there's always a way to make out time.

That has been my challenge anytime I try to make a move to squeeze my time for any of them they still complain of not getting my full attention....and they also don't contented with my calls

Mzflexydeeva why do u ignore?

Mzflexydeeva:
Over the years I have heard this a lot and I have tried to understand the situation. The truth is, no lady likes a stereotype guy.


It is so common to find guys getting the monosyllabic response over instant messages because they always say the wrong things.
Before you attack to bite let me finish.


It is no longer news that we meet more people online today than we meet in person. A Lot of guys call it "forming" for others it's just "annoying attitude by ladies" but I say, know what to say and you can get the best out of a conversation.





How would you expect a lady you are chatting with to take you serious when the 1st time u chat her up all you can say is:



1. Who is dis That's a no no......
I know you'll say a lot of ladies do that but it's a no no for a guy for Christ sake she isn't going to wanna listen to you. If she's not giving out her name, don't take it the hard way. Some ladies prefer to be anonymous till they feel comfortable so just give it time.

2. Don't start up a conversation by asking " what do you do".
For heaven's sake, you wanna make friends not a business partner.

3. You only just met her online and you are already asking what are parents do for a living haba now......

4. If you want her to totally loose interest please ask what her best food is or her hubby.... menh that's so 19th century.


5. If you are interested in her beyond friendship please never ask " what kindda guys she likes"
That's a signal for "complex"




There are lots of reasons ladies pay little or no attention to a guy the first time they chat but for the sake of a healthy conversation it's better to go with the flow. The first conversation should not always be an interview trust me lots of ladies hate that.





Best form of conversation:
Boy: hey what's up?
Girl: who are you?

Boy: got your number/ pin from......
Girl: k.... what do you want?


Boy: just wanna be friends if you don't mind..
Girl: K

Boy: my name is...... how are you doing and how is your day turning out? hope you are not busy and can chat...



No girl will ever turn down such polite approach as against the typical.....

Boy: hi
Girl: hi
Boy: can I meet you?
What do you do for a living?
Where are you based?......

. Op that's good! But we all have different approach! #smiles# erm, tell me a good reason why I should give you a chance to knowing me' (imagine an handsome guy walks up to you @d bar and says that with a smile on his face*

Before you chat with a Nigerian guy, bear in mind that most of them are creeps and like most of our women they have a sense of entitlement towards you

Funny but true tips

LewisO:
Mzflexydeeva why do u ignore?

I ddidnt

harffie:
. Op that's good! But we all have different approach! #smiles# erm, tell me a good reason why I should give you a chance to knowing me' (imagine an handsome guy walks up to you @d bar and says that with a smile on his face*

u smile back

Justfollowit:
Before you chat with a Nigerian guy, bear in mind that most of them are creeps and like most of our women they have a sense of entitlement towards you

true

segxes23:
Funny but true tips

yea

Mzflexydeeva:
u smile back

and that's my cue! *winks*

harffie:
and that's my cue! *winks*

lol

hmmmm....I disagree....if I'm meeting you for the first time I need to know what you do...from there u ll know is she's till schooling or a working class.....knowing this ll make me deduce her OT hence ll know which way the convo ll go.....OP you drew your points studying immature girls / boys mentality

mykel25:
hmmmm....I disagree....if I'm meeting you for the first time I need to know what you do...from there u ll know is she's till schooling or a working class.....knowing this ll make me deduce her OT hence ll know which way the convo ll go.....OP you drew your points studying immature girls / boys mentality

hahahahaha!

zadok60:
we don't start conversation with a girl with.."hi" or "hello" to get her attention!
this is how we do it..

me: 853554826812-mtn #1,500..use it 2 flash my num nw.
she: thanks love!
this is mine,08091000580..can i av urs?

Jesus christ!!...,will try it

wheezyoung:
woow....are they brown sha?

boss

obaayo2:
boss

yep?

obaayo2:
Jesus christ!!...,will try it

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vizkiz:
only bit*ches replies with "k"

that's a perfect turn off for any dude in his right senses

Well played!

What a perfect rebuttal!

A correcter bcoms d corrected!

vizkiz:
only bit*ches replies with "k"

that's a perfect turn off for any dude in his right senses

Ur head is too correct!

That "K" is ever so off-putting 4 me, kwa!

Mzflexydeeva:
I personally dont c d difference........ I use kkk. I guess wen u get familiar with an individual it won't mata if it's ok, k or kkk

Weda familiar or unfamiliar, "kk" is ever so bland, banal, boring & too expressionless 2 be interesting or endearing!

It puts me off, personally, as it doesn't depict thoughtfulness or mental buoyancy!

Kkk

FullBlastLight:
Weda familiar or unfamiliar, "kk" is ever so bland, banal, boring & too expressionless 2 be interesting or endearing!

It puts me off, personally, as it doesn't depict thoughtfulness or mental buoyancy!