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1) Don't take your friends along when he invites
you on a date:
Some Nigerian Ladies for some reason that is
beyond me, take their friends on a date with a guy
they just met. No positive outcome can come out of
this but some of the negatives are:
(i) The guy will be turned off
(ii) He may start liking or prefer one for your friends
to you
(iii) He will never get the opportunity to know you as
much as he wants because of the 3rd wheel
(iv) He may think you don't have a mind of your own
(v) He may turn you and your friends back

2) Don't go to his house unannounced:
One thing a man hates the most is for you to show
up at his house unannounced or invited especially
when he just met you. That's a "NO NO" because
he'll just think you're a stalker or a psycho and he'll
act out.. Some ladies out of emotions and lack of
trust show up at a guys house, what they don't know
is they are pushing him away or giving him reasons
to leave

(3) Don't ask him for Money:
Some Ladies meet a guy and in less than 2-3 weeks
the demands start rolling in. Please pay for my hair,
buy me birkin bag for my birthday, my rent is due,
or plain & simply, I need 500k or 1 million.
Every guy would take off when they meet a Lady like
this. They would say she's opportunistic and
compare her to the ladies who are not asking them
for a kobo or dime.

(4) Don't compare him to your ex or talk about
your ex,
Only if he requests: Some Ladies compare and
contrast their new guy to their old one, not only in
their mind but to his face as well. They say things
like my Ladi used to take me to KFC you're taking me
to Mr Biggs, Jide bought me Prada for my birthday
last year you're buying me Zara..
Guys hate being compared, it punctures their Ego so allow him be the Boss and take you out, don't
compare or dictate terms of dates or gifts.

(5) Don't be to quick to upload his pictures on
(Social Media) :
Ladies, you just met a guy, a new flame, the
relationship is at its early stages, there's still so
much you don't know about him why upload his
pictures for the world to see? The relationship may
not even be defined yet.. By doing this, you're giving
people room to influence and alter your infant
relationship. Also you don't want to be like those
people who have to cleanse their social media
photos of a guy's picture every 6 months because of
a breakup.

(6) Don't wear see through or exposing outfits on
your first date:
Guys are very Impulsive and instinctive by nature, by wearing a dress or gown that's says "SEX" that's all that will be on his mind and nothing else. He won't want to hear anything about you anymore; your personality, your job, your family etc. All he'll be thinking about is how he'll take you to his house or hotel room because you've sent him a signal saying you want sex.

(7) Don't bore him with your Family issues:
Some ladies carry their personal or family problems out with them on dates, instead of making waves and progress with their new guy, they talk about how their house got burnt last week, or how their friend always borrows money or clothes from them, or how they hate their sisters or brothers.. All these are TMI (Too Much Information) Focus on him and let him Focus on you.. Don't allow extraneous variables creep in and take over your conversation.

(Don't talk about marriage or the future:
The number one thing guys are scared of after God
is Commitment or Marriage so if you just met a guy
and you're already talking about marriage or
children he is definitely going to take off and say
you're putting him under pressure and he can't keep up.. Let him be the one to bring it up not you
because he'll say you're desperate.

(9) Don't pry about his pocket, earnings or the
car he drives:
A friend of mine went on a Blind Date at Radisson
(Lagos) to meet a Lady who his cousin had
introduced him to through Instagram. He
complained he had not even ordered a drink when
his date asked him: What car do you drive? That was
her first question.. "What do you drive?"
Most guys would be offended by this and even have
a negative impression about you immediately,
because a guy would wonder do u like me or my
car?

(10) Don't get drunk on your first outing with
him:
Firstly Ladies, this is for your own safety a lot of
ladies have been taken advantage of because they
were intoxicated.
You also don't want to embarrass yourself and say
or do things that you can't defend or verify.

Nice list though most babes find number 3 very difficult. .....at least they must ask for recharge card

True talk... Any lady that tries any of these with me will definitely see my back and that would be the beginning of the end of the relationship!!

soooooo true.


i just pray they listen

Good advice! That was all the truth.




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dorlapoh20:
soooooo true.


i just pray they listen

i hope u listen too

mirexxx:
i hope u listen too

of course

I think we've seen this before .



Btw i can't even find myself doing most of those whether he's new or not.

Number one If her friend is hotter than her.

tosyne2much:
That's my girl

With what you have said, I will marry you Elantraceey.. [b] PM me [/b]nd let me get my friends to come and prostrate to your PopC

You will wait soo long for that

elantraceey:


You will wait soo long for that

Na wah for una love o

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elantraceey:
I think we've seen this before .



Btw i can't even find myself doing most of those whether he's new or not.

Hmmm hear dis one....
Some galz can lie for afrika

Funny enuf, all ur outlines are correct, but the 3rd one is comon amongst girls.