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Many relationships these days thrive on love, and where there is a lack in this ultimate factor, then the ship may definitely hit the rocks. It is important to know that Love itself is expressed in different ways, such as d cute words bein expressed to each other to make dem happy, the caring attitudes of either of the lovers to sustain d relationship, the sacrifices one makes to prove to each other how much they love each other and what have you. But when all these comes from one party solely, the other tends to get relaxed often and feels that oh yes, since he/she who shows more love dan the other is performin dr duty, den the reciever gets so relaxed and this makes the rship to get cold, thereby resulting in unwanted breakups. My question is this, whose duty is to love more in a rship? Is it the guy, or d lady, or both? And if ur answers fall within any of the options, give us reasons why you think so. Thanks.
mature responses please.

There's no need for measurements , both parties should love each other wholeheartedly .

How do you quantify love?
The only way to answer a generic
question is with a generic answer.
The one who does more, gives more,
sacrifices more and loves more
is the one who derives more pleasure out
of doing it.

Both should, but I think the guy should love more. But anyways, it all depends.

Traditionally, the man loves more in relationships. It takes a strong affinity for you to provide a kind of leadership that assumes financial responsibility for your woman. However it should not be so.

I believe the woman has to love more. A man's heart is pliable in the face of sincere love. If he never felt much for you, he would, eventually. Conversely, a woman whose heart is far from you will most likely never love you as fiercely you'd desire.

hatux:
Both should, but I think the guy should love more. But anyways, it all depends.

ok. With all due respect sir, I'd like to ask on what basis does it depends? Pls shed more light on dis so our readers can get smth out of it. Thanks

both! tho at d begining, its mostly d man who luvs more, then d woman starts luving him. bt to certify dat d rltnshp z real, they both have to luv eachoda unconditionally

Enegod:
How do you quantify love?
The only way to answer a generic
question is with a generic answer.
The one who does more, gives more,
sacrifices more and loves more
is the one who derives more pleasure out
of doing it.

I must admit ur comment is really inspiring. I believe our readers wil get inspired frm your words.

Cutehector4u:
I must admit ur comment is really inspiring. I believe our readers wil get inspired frm your words.

thanks bro

alberto2k:
In most cases its The Ladies..

While in rare case its the Guys8)

ok. Mr albert, pls I'd like to ask u a question, from experience, have you loved a lady more dan she loved you? I'd be grateful at ur kind discretion to reply positively

Cutehector4u:
ok. Mr albert, pls I'd like to ask u a question, from experience, have you loved a lady more dan she loved you? I'd be grateful at ur kind discretion to reply positively

Nope

Cuz I've stopped loving with the whole of my heart a long time ago

alberto2k:
Nope

Cuz I've stopped loving with the whole of my heart a long time ago

I understand thr must be valid reasons for this. But do you trust yourself enough to stick to your decision? Don't u think it may hav adverse effects when u really find d lady of your dreams ? Whould her love for u be enough to sustain d relationship?

Cutehector4u:
I understand thr must be valid reasons for this. But do you trust yourself enough to stick to your decision? Don't u think it may hav adverse effects when u really find d lady of your dreams ? Whould her love for u be enough to sustain d relationship?

If we're meant to be together, we'll be together...

as long as we're in love with each other, it doesn't matter who loves each other more

alberto2k:
If we're meant to be together, we'll be together...

as long as we're in love with each other, it doesn't matter who loves each other more

ok thanks for your valuable time and responses

Cutehector4u:
ok thanks for your valuable time and responses

U're welcom bro

none actually. the reality is that u can't always be 'in love' with ur partner all the time. all those 'happily ever after' stories are fictional. when two people decide to be with each other u don't always see that spark u saw that made u stick to him/her. those r the times in a relationship u realise or it seems that one person loves d other more. the trick is that when those times come, when ur partner doesn't seem as attractive as before, it's then u have to activate the other reasons why u chose him or her n it doesn't boil down to beauty this time but to how the person compliments u n completes u both in function and in all other ways. if u can patiently dwell on those reasons, with time the feelings will come back n ur partner who probably noticed d change in u will wonder where u were all these while when the sudden change comes.
this is the secret of faithfulness. unfortunately I haven't used it in a long time...lol...

There should be a mutual affection in a relationship. dont know who gets the bigger contribution anyway!

But giving my all to a girl is suicidal ,hmm I stopped doing that since 4th B.C? Except that person is Jesus Christ

The last time I did that, I almost fell in a coma

Prixus:
none actually. the reality is that u can't always be 'in love' with ur partner all the time. all those 'happily ever after' stories are fictional. when two people decide to be with each other u don't always see that spark u saw that made u stick to him/her. those r the times in a relationship u realise or it seems that one person loves d other more. the trick is that when those times come, when ur partner doesn't seem as attractive as before, it's then u have to activate the other reasons why u chose him or her n it doesn't boil down to beauty this time but to how the person compliments u n completes u both in function and in all other ways. if u can patiently dwell on those reasons, with time the feelings will come back n ur partner who probably noticed d change in u will wonder where u were all these while when the sudden change comes.
this is the secret of faithfulness. unfortunately I haven't used it in a long time...lol...

yes u r definitely and unarguably right. Your comment is woow. I appreciate that. I guess our listeners are reaaly getn inspired by your words and I believe this piece will go a long way in readdressing most dyn relationships. Thanks

love is sweet when both parties love eachoda equally

A guy shouldnt love more in a rship neither should a girl

mirexxx:
love is sweet when both parties love eachoda equally

A guy shouldnt love more in a rship neither should a girl

dats why I keep lykn u evry moment.

Cutehector4u:
yes u r definitely and unarguably right. Your comment is woow. I appreciate that. I guess our listeners are reaaly getn inspired by your words and I believe this piece will go a long way in readdressing most dyn relationships. Thanks

thank u sir! ur threads are inspiring as well.

mirexxx:
love is sweet when both parties love eachoda equally

A guy shouldnt love more in a rship neither should a girl

ideologically this is ideal but realistically it's unachievable. would have been nice if it were really that way tho...good evening ma'am

Prixus:
ideologically this is ideal but realistically it's unachievable. would have been nice if it were really that way tho...good evening ma'am

prixus crixus aw u?

mirexxx:
prixus crixus aw u?

I'm gud dearie...u didn't pronounce my name well. it's PRICK...SUS...now say after me PRICK...SUS...

Prixus:
I'm gud dearie...u didn't pronounce my name well. it's PRICK...SUS...now say after me PRICK...SUS...

d spelling and pronunciation can't be d same na
how would u know if i pronounced it prick-sus
it's spelt prixus

mirexxx:
d spelling and pronunciation can't be d same na
how would u know if i pronounced it prick-sus
it's spelt prixus

lol...I'm just pulling ur legs dear! don't take me serious...

The both sud love more